How to treat the problem of children being bullied

Over the years, although the government, public security, education and other departments have made concerted efforts to prevent school bullying, it still happens from time to time, and this phenomenon will always exist objectively. Because the school is not only a big collective, but also a "small society". In addition to receiving school education, every student has his own unique personality and thoughts, and they will inevitably be influenced by other media cultures such as society, network and games. They have their own social circle, they like to imitate, and even some behaviors and ideas will be "infected" between schools. Most of them are minors, some of whom are in their youth. They go from primary school to high school in batches, and it is inevitable that school bullying will happen. Therefore, as the most direct relationship, schools and parents should face up to this problem, and schools should establish a long-term mechanism to do a good job in students' ideological education and persevere!

According to the analysis of my years' work practice, school bullying phenomenon is the highest in junior high school, which is obvious in both incidence and severity. Primary school students are still young, and children in grade one and grade two rarely have bullying behaviors with obvious purpose, malicious attacks on other students or asking for property; From grade three to grade six, with the increase of age, students' thoughts become more and more complicated, and the incidence rate is higher than that of lower grades; In junior high school, students begin to enter the youth judgment period of physical and mental development, which is impulsive and reckless. At this time, students are also prone to conflicts and being bullied. With entering the high school stage, students are approaching the end of the adversity period, and their ideological understanding is gradually maturing. They study hard, take exams, start to find another way out for those who don't study well, plan their own future, and start to think about "positive things", so there are fewer things that fight with each other.

In the process of children's growth, disputes between these students have to be experienced. These are all compulsory courses in life. In the face of bullying, some children choose to tolerate compromise and never tell their parents; Some children will choose to tell schools and teachers; Some directly ask their parents for help; Some children are "powerful" by themselves, unite friends to "fight back", and then slowly learn to bully others. ...

Parents behave differently when their children are bullied. See related online reports! Some people go straight to school to fight, while others kill people. I just watched a video the day before yesterday. A mother and her husband with a kitchen knife blocked a junior high school student in the street, tore her collar and slapped her with a knife. This is too irrational to solve the problem. I once dealt with one thing. A sixth-grade student was beaten by several junior high school students who dropped out of school, and most of the time he asked for money and goods. The child didn't say anything when he came home, until the video of him being beaten by a group spread in the nearby QQ group, and the parents saw it for themselves. Parents found the school with the video. I arranged for the Student Affairs Office to assist in the investigation. I recognized that two of them had graduated and colluded with another classmate who was beaten, and then suggested that parents take the materials they had to call the police. Of course, it is also ideal to solve problems by yourself: the bullied students' families have strength, and others have no impulse to break the law. After finding the children and parents involved, I was afraid of myself, took the initiative to apologize, and paid for the work, which was quickly solved. I didn't ask the school for help, nor did I call the police. It's that simple. Society, nothing strange!

For most parents, what should they do when they find their children being bullied or bullied by others? If your child bullies others, you must criticize education severely and don't protect your own weaknesses. Take the initiative to apologize to the victim students and their parents and bear the consequences. Don't think that your child is capable of being complacent. Your handling methods and ideas will affect your child's life, and if you don't handle them properly, you will have endless troubles. If the child is bullied by others, you should deal with it rationally and don't act rashly. If the problem is not serious, find a school, find a teacher, contact the parents of the children involved through them, talk about things face to face, and discipline their children. If you are modest, compensate yourself for your losses and let the school coordinate and solve them. If the situation is serious and the school can't solve this problem, it will call the police decisively. Because the school is only an educational unit, they have no law enforcement power and no deterrent. It is the best way to hand it over to the police for legal procedures.

It is purely a personal opinion, and it is inevitable that there is something wrong, for reference only!