Excessive self-esteem will destroy yourself

If there is one most important lesson that college has taught me, it is probably excessive self-esteem.

How should I start the conversation?

Let me first talk about myself in middle school. At that time, I knew that my family was relatively poor, and I just wanted to study hard to change my destiny and defend my parents. Sure enough, God paid off and I got into a second-tier school.

The funny thing started in college.

There are six people in the dormitory. Except for myself, who is from the countryside, the others are from the city, and their family backgrounds are very good. Therefore, after knowing more than myself and knowing the difference between me and them, I become more and more inferior to myself. The key is that those people live a free and easy life every day in order to keep pace with them. Therefore, as time goes by, they lose the will to fight.

Look, how terrible it is, and this is the saddest thing. After two years of degeneracy and all kinds of decadence, I suddenly realized why I had become so miserable. I couldn't afford to be hurt by hindsight.

If it weren’t for the internship time now and if my father hadn’t been sick all the time recently, I might still be so confused and unable to realize the seriousness of the problem.

Life is not enough for people who are not suffering in the middle of the night.

Twenties is the age of struggle, not an excuse to choose comfort.

Yes, if something happens to your family one day, what can you do except cry? Just like when I heard the news that my father had been in a car accident at noon, my whole heart almost stopped beating.

People will always mature. As long as there is something that you find unacceptable, you will become stronger and more sensible.

You can no longer be hurt by your excessive self-esteem, the consequences will be disastrous.