What I gain is my luck, and what I lose is my fate. Don’t force anything, just let nature take its course.

Introduction: There are times in life that you must have, but there are no times in life, so don’t force it. Everything depends on fate. The world is vast and everything cannot be determined by fate. Don’t force people to leave or stay. The sun rises and sets in the alternation of time, and it remains unchanged in the waxing and waning of clouds and sunshine. Human beings are just a drop in the sky in the vicissitudes of history. We are lucky to gain them, and we are destined to lose them. Some things cannot be forced, just let nature take its course.

1. A glass of clear water will become turbid due to the presence of a drop of sewage, but a glass of sewage will not become clear due to the presence of a drop of clear water.

2. There are three things in this world that others cannot take away: first, the food eaten in the stomach, second, the dream hidden in the heart, and third, the book read into the brain.

3. Horses are prone to stumble on soft soil, and people are prone to fall when being sweet-talked.

4. There is no distinction between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can get out of tragedy, it is comedy. If you indulge in comedy, then it is tragedy.

5. If you don’t study, you will be just a postman after traveling thousands of miles.

6. A needle is not sharp at both ends, and a person is not sharp at both ends.

7. In a country where shit defeats beetles, you can only succeed by selling shit.

8. Luck is when opportunity happens to hit your hard work.

9. If you are a lemon, you should not always stare at the sweetness of watermelon.

10. Be calm with gains and calm with losses, let nature take its course, and strive for the inevitable.

11. Men become bad when they have money. Yes, many men are like this, but men who become bad when they have money are not much better even if they have no money.

12. Don’t be upset when your neighbor plays the piano at two o’clock in the night. You can wake him up at four o’clock and tell him that you appreciate his playing.

13. If you just wait, all that will happen is that you will get older.

14. The so-called threshold, if you pass it, it becomes the door; if you don’t pass it, it becomes the threshold.

15. The smallest good deed is better than the largest kind thought.

16. A true friend is not someone who has endless things to talk about together, but someone who doesn’t feel awkward even if they don’t say a word.

17. Time is a master of healing trauma, but it is by no means a master of solving problems.

18. It is better to regret something you have done than regret something you have missed.

19. Flowers don’t bloom for anyone, but they can bloom for themselves. The world doesn’t exist for anyone, but it can also exist for themselves.

20. The so-called eternal love is from beauty to gray hair, from flower blooming to flower falling.

21. Treat love as a luxury product. You can live without it if you have the best.

22. If a person wants to leave you, don't try to keep him. Soon you will find that he has a new lover. It's not that you are not good enough, but because he cheated on you first. . Love is something that comes naturally. If you get it, you will lose it. If you try to force it, you will end up hurting your body. Therefore, it is better to forget each other in the world than to keep a heart that does not belong to you. To be in love is luck, not to be in love is fate.

23. Do your best, listen to destiny, be lucky to get what you get, and don’t ask for it, don’t force it, just let nature take its course.

Editorial postscript: Be calm about gains, be calm about losses, contend for the inevitable, let nature take its course. No matter how much you keep things that don't belong to you, they will never belong to you. I am lucky to get them, but I am destined to lose them. Suddenly everything feels so relieved. This article is for all those who have experienced pain. I hope you can walk out of the pain that is not yours. If you feel pain, you must learn to let go.