Childhood memories: I want to have a brother.

I really wanted a brother when I was a child. In an era of barbaric child-rearing, the principle for small partners, especially boys, to solve problems is: political power comes out of the barrel of a gun. It is not uncommon to bully the small with the big and bully the weak with the strong.

In the first few years of primary school, the most annoying thing was that during recess activities, some naughty boys always grabbed the sandbags of girls' "hopscotch" and cut girls' rubber bands to jump rope for fun. The smarter a girl is, the easier it is to be bullied. The teacher doesn't care about this at all. It is useless for children to "complain", but they will be bullied more and more.

At this time, the little friend will be bullied and said, "I told my brother!" " "After the other party quickly weighed the age and size of the" brother ",he was surprised and his arrogance was immediately cut by half.

"I told my brother!" Just like a spell that never fails, it protects those weak partners and "turns everything into luck" when they are in trouble.

Because I don't have a brother, I often need to defend some of my dignity by force. I was born thin, but my heart is extremely weak. At that time, I wished I had a brother!

But I only have one sister! Moreover, he is naturally weak, with a sparse yellow hair, so thin that his eyes are trapped in his eyes. My sister studied three years before me. At that time, she had to rely on Fangfang, the aunt of the same village, to protect her. For example, make sure that my sister's stationery is not taken away by other students and bullied by naughty boys.

Can I count on such a sister to support me? Obviously, you can't.

A few years ago, when I was preparing to have a second child, I asked my daughter's opinion: "Do you want a brother or a sister?"

The daughter said without thinking, "I want a younger brother." I can't help laughing. It turns out that my daughter, like me, has the concern and longing of "having a brother"!

Before giving birth to a second child, I made a lot of psychological bedding and rendering for my daughter, in order to let her gradually get out of her parents' exclusive love and attention.

However, when my younger brother arrived, the reality was more cruel than expected. So far, the daughter can't fully understand her parents' behavior. Occasionally, she will be jealous of her younger brother, who feels that he has shared or even monopolized his parents' love.

No wonder, if my brother were my brother, no one would share her toys and snacks. More often, my brother should share his toys and snacks with her as much as possible.

I am the second child in my family, with a younger brother and a younger sister. When I was a child, I was not a good sister and often bullied them. When we grow up, our brothers and sisters live apart because of work and life-my sister is in Quanzhou, Fujian, I am in Zhongshan, Guangdong, my brother is in Linyi, Shandong, and my sister is in Wuhan, Hubei, and we rarely meet twice a year.

In recent years, my sister is my biggest concern. She is the oldest in the family and has never suffered anything since she was a child. When the family was in financial difficulties, my sister and I went to high school and college one after another. After my brother went to vocational high school, his family was already poor. So after my sister graduated from junior high school, she didn't have a chance to continue studying. She went out to work early, and most of the meager income she earned every month was used as my living expenses for going to college.

For children from rural families, it is not easy to enter the society and find a better job without reading any books. My sister is now a supervisor in a small supermarket with little income. I always feel that I owe my sister something.

Recently, I joined a commodity agent of WeChat business. After my best friend YF learned about it, in order to support my so-called career, she ordered more than 3,500 sanitary napkins and shared them with my two sisters. I'm surprised. At that time, I ordered more than 700 goods, half of which were sent to my sister! It turns out that YF and I are sisters who love their sisters!

My initial intention as an agent in Wechat business was to use more favorable prices and better products. I don't want to be a career.

YF also felt indebted to her sister and even said, "I hurt my sister." At that time, YF family's economic conditions were limited, so it was impossible for four children to study at the same time. YF's elder sister was forced to drop out of school and go out to work early to share the family's financial burden.

Today, YF's eldest sister works in a clothing factory in her hometown, with poor salary and poor life. On weekdays, YF and her younger sister, who have gone to college, will try their best to stick to their older sister materially.

YF's elder sister received sanitary napkins. When she saw the price, she said that it was too expensive, so I didn't want to use them. Let's leave them first ... Yes, at her income level, sanitary napkins at this price really seem a bit expensive.

Looking at this message, my nose is sore. My sister from a poor family had a similar experience in the past, and now she feels similar in debt. Even my sister can't bear to use the sanitary towel sent by her sister! Then, my heart is full of warmth and emotion, for myself and for YF's pity and care for her as a sister.

At that moment, I decided to provide sanitary napkins for my sister for free forever, because my sister deserves to use healthy and safe products! This is my compensation for the debts I had to pay back in those years, and it is also my pure love for my sister.