By what points, can we see whether grandparents really love children?

Whether grandparents really love children can be seen at a glance. Couples who live with their in-laws are basically grandparents who help take care of their children after giving birth. It's no use talking about it.

Mainly because my family is more at ease with their children. You can also save money to ask for a new moon, and use the money saved to honor the elderly and supplement the family.

But sometimes Ma Bao shares such concerns. Do grandparents really love children? In fact, whether grandparents really love children, these details can be seen at a glance, and it is useless to say anything.

1. Attitude of children when they are sick and crying

Some grandparents are also very happy to see their grandchildren, and they are also willing to kiss and hug and treat their children as treasures.

However, if the child is not there when he is crying or sick, let the child "go to your mother".

Such an old man is only willing to be with a cute, healthy and laughing child. Once a child is crying to be coaxed or sick and needs to be taken care of, it is very troublesome and afraid of hard work.

Are you willing to discipline your children patiently?

If grandparents really care about their children, they are very patient in disciplining them and will not lose their temper casually.

People who are old are usually gentle and kind when they reach a certain age. Not many people lose their temper easily. Unless some Xiong Haizi is really disobedient, his grandparents may lose their temper with him.

However, if some grandparents are always angry with their children and have common sense with them, they certainly don't really love them, but just think it's a task.

In summer, some children want to eat popsicles. If there is no restraint, grandparents will let them eat and buy candy if they want. Although it seems to hurt children, as adults, we must know that if children eat too much sugar and cold food, it will definitely be bad for their health.

Are you willing to spend money for children?

Some grandparents only pay lip service to their children, often telling everyone how smart my grandson is and how much he values children, but they start to back down when the real thing happens.

A friend married far away. Because she and her husband are still in the start-up period, she gave it to her mother-in-law after giving birth. My friend thinks that since the old man helps with the children, she will give her mother-in-law money on time every month. I hope that when she and her husband are busy, her mother-in-law can cook for her children or go out to eat.

But a few months later, my friend found that all the dishes she ate every day were vegetarian, and sometimes there were leftovers from the previous day. A friend asked her mother-in-law if she didn't have enough money, but her mother-in-law didn't answer enough every time.

During the half year when the mother-in-law helped to take care of the children, the children seldom ate meat and had no new clothes, which made their friends very uncomfortable. Obviously, they pay money on time every month, so where did the money go?

There will be such grandparents in life who always say that they miss and want to see their children. As a result, they just paid lip service. They never come to see their children, even their children go to school, and they have never eaten snacks bought by their grandmother.