What do you think of in-laws, such as "They went out for a trip when I was a child"?

If you want to have a harmonious family life, women must be tolerant. She should sincerely forgive what her family has done, and don't waste time doing nothing. Everyone has his own responsibilities and obligations. Not everyone is responsible for your future. They also have their own ideals to accomplish, and it is impossible to revolve around you every day. When they can't get the results they want, women should know how to make concessions, and don't haggle over everything with relatives, thinking that people don't pay for themselves, that is, they don't like themselves. On the way to dealing with family relations, there are many things that need to be solved by themselves, and women must learn to make rational use of them.

After giving birth to a child, women suddenly began to feel uncomfortable, not only physically, but also from a huge psychological gap. If you don't talk about your pain, a man may never care about himself. It is true that he loves himself, but at the same time, a man's character is really careless. He can't take care of himself at all and can only let himself live.

The reason is that I have to blame my parents-in-law. They know that they are going to have a confinement and have to travel. Married for more than two years. No matter what happens to me, I have never seen them offer to help me. Sometimes I can't get what I want by asking for help myself. I don't understand what they really think. Isn't that their grandson in my belly?

"Look at your parents. I am in confinement, and they actually went out to travel. " Women still continue their old temper, don't make any concessions, and complain confidently to men about many things. When others don't know how to give in, they don't care too much. They always stick to themselves and don't think about other things at all. This is the fault of parents-in-law, and it has nothing to do with yourself.

Seeing that women have emotional problems, men realize the seriousness of the problem and are embarrassed to talk back to women. It is true that my parents did something wrong in this matter. When I learned that my parents were going to travel, I discouraged them many times, but there was no response. They are determined to travel and will not give in because of themselves. I can't deny my parents' insistence, so I have to obey their wishes.

"Never mind, just call your mother." Men chat with their women. The child is not only the grandson of the parents, but also the grandson of the woman's parents. When there is really no one to take care of women, you can also trouble your parents-in-law to come. There are many inconveniences in confinement, just when a woman's mother comes over, she can accompany her, help her get through this month smoothly, and satisfy their desire to look after the children by the way.

It's a good idea for your mother to take care of herself. Mother-in-law has a bad relationship with herself, and always depends on her own mind. She usually likes to find fault with herself for a long time. In this case, letting her come over will make her situation more difficult and will not have a good life. The woman did not deny the man's proposal, thinking of calling her mother later, hoping that she could come as soon as possible and not leave herself alone to deal with it.

Emotional message: every family has a difficult experience. Don't make a fuss about a little thing, and don't think too much about other things at all. When in-laws are unwilling to take care of themselves, women can solve it in other ways. They don't have to stick to their own ideas and do things according to their own preferences. You must learn to be tolerant of your family, don't always care about gains and losses, and don't know how to work hard.