Two roommates are having trouble?

Differences in living habits are the root cause of conflicts between roommates, and ignoring the differences in hygiene and concepts is the fuse of high contradictions! Behind all these contradictions are "individuality" and "individuality".

As the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor"! So how to share a room and deal with the relationship with roommates and neighbors? It is important to do the following:

First of all, we should have a comprehensive understanding of roommates and neighbors before moving in; No common goal, no common goal. If you meet the wrong roommate, you may just look at him one more time and conflict may break out. When choosing a roommate, you should know whether their living habits, hobbies, economic situation, personal hygiene and other aspects are different from your expectations; Have a comprehensive understanding of roommates, and then consider whether to choose sharing.

Secondly, clarify their respective responsibilities and obligations; If you are going to get along with your roommate for a long time, get everyone together and discuss the problems that need to be faced together, such as sanitary distribution in public areas, the use of kitchen gas stoves and refrigerators, and it is forbidden to disturb others at night. It is suggested that a public * * * area be posted on the daily standard table to urge each other!

Third, we need to pay attention to the daily payment of water, electricity and gas; Because everyone lives under the same roof, the water, electricity and gas generated in daily life need to be shared with each other, which involves the question of whether the expenses are paid by individuals or after everyone collects them. Bian Xiao encountered such a problem. The way to deal with it is that everyone takes turns to charge and run errands to pay the property every month, at least it can be fair and just.

Fourth, learn to respect and protect the privacy of roommates and neighbors; When living together in private, everyone has a side that outsiders don't know or don't want others to know. As roommates and neighbors, you can see privacy that others can't. If you don't say it in time, you will win the favor of others!

Fifth, don't often bring strangers to visit; Relatively speaking, your own residence depends on safety and privacy. If a person often brings strangers to visit, it will give people a sense of insecurity and exposure. The consequences of doing so can only arouse the resentment of other roommates and neighbors.

Sixth, pay attention to safety, fire prevention and theft prevention; Safety awareness is everyone's self-protection awareness. Take the door behind you when you go out, lock the doors and windows, pay attention to fire prevention and gas leakage when cooking in the kitchen, and pay attention to household appliances and electricity leakage in the bathroom.

Seventh, pay attention to the hygiene and personal habits in public areas; No matter in your own room or public area, you should pay attention to hygiene. Clean clothes and wash the floor in time after taking a shower, flush the toilet in time after going to the toilet, put away the clothes of the washing machine to dry in time, and clean up the tableware in time after cooking and dining in the kitchen.

In fact, it is not easy for everyone to leave their hometown to work and live. Life will inevitably encounter problems and conflicts. Timely and proper handling of problems will eliminate misunderstandings. Getting along with people is a compulsory course we have been studying all our lives!