Illness in life insights

How much impact does a child's illness have on a family?

Yuebao has been ill these past few days. Although it is not serious and does not affect her eating, drinking, or playing, the mother still feels distressed. She does not think about tea or food. She has not done anything for two days in a row. When eating (in order to lose weight, I want to imitate other people's fasting, but it's even more difficult [cover my face]), I always hope that she will get better soon. Even though Yue's father is a doctor, I have already begun to question after experiencing the treatment of Yue Bao's illness several times. His medical skills (actually, the main reason is that Dad Yue does not comprehensively analyze the child's condition, and treats his head and feet when he has a headache, and he is very stubborn [turning his lips]). This may be due to lack of autonomy in medicine.

Regarding the child’s illness, Dad Yue only looks at the current symptoms and does not analyze the causes and consequences, and always feels as if he is joking (he has always been such a character, others attach great importance to him, but he behaves particularly contemptuously For example, he accidentally tripped the child, and his first reaction was to laugh, and he laughed. The child was hurt when he fell, and he didn't cry at the beginning. I couldn't understand it. Yue dad’s reaction).

This time when my child was sick, I took the initiative to find medicine for him, but he also behaved nonchalantly. Moreover, Yue’s father still used the same old prescriptions. Yue’s cold medicine had never changed until he went to the hospital for an infusion in September this year. I began to wonder if there was something wrong with Dad Yue’s prescription, and the child has been suffering from runny nose and nasal discharge recently. This symptom lasted for a week in September. After taking yao for a few days, it did not get better or worse. Finally, I stopped taking medicine for her, but the nasal discharge continued until she became ill this time. Combining these symptoms and checking Du Niang, I analyzed whether Yue Bao really had nasal congestion, so I decisively went to the hospital to see a doctor this time. Fortunately, the doctor's diagnosis confirmed my judgment. But Yue’s father was very resistant and made a fuss with me. He insisted that the rhinorrhea was caused by a cold. I thought it was a red, swollen and painful throat caused by rhinorrhea. In the end, I ignored Yue Dad and took the medicine prescribed by the doctor seriously. In fact, this medicine can treat both nasal congestion and influenza, but the focus is different.

Fortunately, the child's illness gradually improved amid this dispute where he couldn't tell right from wrong.

It is said that husband and wife are like birds in the same forest, and they fly apart when disaster strikes. Sometimes, I feel that the relationship between husband and wife is really fragile. Maybe a small thing can cause big disputes, but I don’t want to be with Yue Dad now. In disputes, if there is a compromise, try to find a compromise. Even if there is no compromise, I will not conflict with him head-on to avoid unnecessary quarrels. After all, everyone is doing it for the sake of the children.