Tell me what to do

What should you do if you reach thirty-one and achieve nothing? Zeng Guofan: Study hard and work hard! Even if you don’t want to succeed, it’s difficult

Confucius said that he stood up at thirty, but what did he stand for? We should not only set up a family career, but also set up loftier aspirations. Turning thirty is the threshold. After thirty years of hard work, we should understand many life principles and see through many human ways. To be honest, it is a little late for struggle, but it is not too late, because if there is a will, things will come true. Qin Pass will eventually belong to Chu! It is never too late for those who truly have ideals to start struggling!

God allows us to go to this world to let us taste the ups and downs of life. Although it is hard to be a human being in this life, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will eventually experience the fun. , life is very short, only a few decades, and the future is uncertain at the age of thirty. If your career and family have not been successful, I am afraid you will be very confused, but life is like this. You have your own rhythm, and you don’t have to follow the crowd. When you are thirty, What should you do if you are still confused? Zeng Guofan tells you that if you understand these three points, your life will be cheated!

The first point: There is no other way to seek the essence of your career, it is just specialization. As the proverb goes: "To have many arts but not to cultivate one's health is to say that one is not expert." I dig many wells but have no spring to drink from. This is the fault of not being expert!

Whether you are studying or working, you must be both specialized and refined. Only in this way can you achieve something. There is no other way. As the old saying goes: Too many arts do not nourish your body, because there is no one. Only by being proficient and becoming an expert in this field can you make achievements. Instead of digging multiple wells, it is better to concentrate on digging one well. If you dig too many wells and there is no spring water to drink, it is the reason why you are not dedicated. Zeng Guofan also paid great attention to the word concentration in his life.

He often warned his nephew that if he has not finished reading a book, he should not read other books. It is also a good way to cultivate your ability to focus through reading. If you have not succeeded when you reach thirty, then you can start with your daily study and work habits and reflect on whether it was caused by your lack of focus in the past ten years. If so, correct it in time and find out the correctness as soon as possible. One direction, hard work, and you will eventually realize your beautiful dream!

Second point: If you blame Heaven for no reason, God will not allow it; if you blame Heaven for no reason, God will not allow it; if you blame others for no reason, then humans will not accept it. The principle of induction will naturally follow.

People are most afraid of blaming others. Once you blame others, you will definitely lose your ambition and lose yourself. Your own problems and faults will be covered up by the phrase "bad luck". In Zeng Guofan's view, blaming others is a must. It is a big taboo. If you blame God for no reason, God will not allow it. If you blame others for no reason, people will not accept it. In fact, we will encounter many hardships in life. We have encountered various unknowns since we were born. The trajectory of our destiny has been changed again and again, and we don’t know. When you will get it, you don’t know when you will lose it again.

Regardless of gains and losses, we must treat yesterday with a calm attitude, and pursue tomorrow with an optimistic attitude. If you are still confused at the age of thirty, imagine if you are still immersed in the past. I haven't come out of the pain. Life is short and I really can't delay it. I can only push on and move forward. The less I complain in my heart, the more clear the future will be. The more resentment you have in your heart, the less sunshine your life will have.

The third point: If a person can make up his own mind, what can't a sage and a hero do? Why rely on people? I want to be benevolent, and I am extremely benevolent. If I want to be Confucius and Mencius, I will work hard day and night. But who can learn from Confucius and Mencius and control me? If you are not determined, then even if you live with Yao, Shun, and Yu Tang, they will be on their own, and I will be on my own, so what is there for me?

No matter when, people are determined and able to persevere. The reason why sages become sages and heroes become heroes is because they can stick to a goal and go on unswervingly, and finally achieve success. , if you are not determined, I am afraid that even if you eat and live with Yao, Shun, and Yu Tang, you will not make any progress. On the way forward, we can only rely on ourselves. There is a famous saying that goes well: Everyone can run by relying on them. Your backers will fall, and the only thing that can support you is your own unyielding soul. You must be strong as a human being, because if you are not strong, no one will be strong for you, and no one can enter your life except yourself!

The road ahead has no end, unclear obstacles, and unclear human hearts, but no matter what, please be your own hero and create a myth for yourself! Live up to yourself, live up to this life!