It is men's feelings that irritate Han.

It is men's feelings that irritate Han.

First, Liao Han's first step is to serve his self-esteem to the extreme. This is called "self-esteem massage technique". Insight into people's hearts is a beautiful trait. The so-called "self-esteem massage technology" is to give him the best self-feeling, to make him feel that he is so unique, smart and worthy of attention, a great hero, the embodiment of courage and wisdom, and the source of all the beauty on earth. Let's give him a full foreplay before giving him a thrilling Gao Chao.

take for example

1, when you look at him, you only see him, making him feel that he has all your attention at the moment.

2, never label him willfully, always carefully detect how he understands himself, and then skillfully understand and treat him in his way. What needs to be emphasized here is that understanding a person in the way he most wants to be understood and trusting him in the way he most wants to be trusted are the core skills of Liao Han and the core connotation of "cleverness".

If a person wants to be understood as "knowledgeable", he will focus on his education level and reading experience. A person who wants to impress others will talk about his rich social experience in Kan Kan.

In short, your goal is to accurately grasp the label, carefully knead and gently lick it, carefully comfort it and give it the greatest support and understanding.

Second, increase the stimulus.

1. When you have a rough idea of his personality and preferences, you can start praising him. Compliments don't just say, "You're really good at this. Instead, try to be as specific and targeted as possible: "I found that whenever someone annoys you, you can accept it calmly, and there must be strong emotional management ability behind it. I especially appreciate and admire this. "The more specific the language you use when praising him, the stronger the satisfaction the other person gets.

Then, after a day, I mentioned some words of thanks and praise. "Your method of dealing with contradictions has deeply influenced me. I later tried to imitate your handling method and found it very effective. " Repeatedly mentioning a person's excellent qualities will convince the other person that he has really influenced you, so the satisfaction is stronger.

Third, how to promote Gao Chao?

1, xiaomo. It is that kind of casual and reasonable touch. Don't be too deliberate, or he will know that you like him. It better be puzzling. For example, a group of people had a drink at the party, and I was chatting with several other people. He is a little dizzy and prone on the table. I glanced at him and saw a piece of paper in his hair, so I took it down and continued to chat casually with others.

Walk next to the person you like when you go back to the dormitory, just pretend to be a little higher than my head, gently grab his sleeve and walk back to the dormitory. Say thank you when you say goodbye (let me hold your sleeve) and then stagger upstairs (pretend).

If you think he already knows that you like him, you should take some actions to change his mind a little bit. For example, in high school, I went to see him with a bunch of snacks (which I didn't like) in class, and then I chose some for him. He thought I specially sent him snacks, his eyes were a little complicated and he didn't say anything. Then I said goodbye to him in a hurry. I said, "I'll go first. I'll give it to XX (a male friend I know)."

After that, WeChat asked him if it was delicious. Whether he is a little jealous or not, I always discuss which snacks are delicious.

Fourth, the specific operation

1, the first stage

Thoroughly study his circle of friends and find out his hobbies, such as football, basketball and games. , as a breakthrough, and then ask him, "look at your circle of friends, I feel that you are particularly good at xx. Can I ask you some questions about this? " This is the first round of interaction.

Try to ask him for help (it's a small favor, it's easy to lift a finger), and then give him feedback. For example, if he teaches you to repair the computer, you will take a photo with the computer on the first day. You should have a high face value and a bright smile. Send the photo to him with a happy sentence, "It's fixed, thank you." Another example is that he teaches you riding skills. You can take a photo of riding next week and send it to him. "The skills you teach are really useful, so it will be much easier."

According to my personal experience, as long as these two rounds of interaction are beautiful and your photos are charming, he will contact you actively after a while. "How's cycling training recently?" .

3. Sorry to chat, what if a straight man has nothing to say? Then we suggest the best way-the effect of cheating out to meet is better than 100 online teasing.

Step 4 give a speech

Some girls don't know how to flirt. I'll say a few words briefly, and girls can change words according to the specific situation. For example, if he likes cooking, you can take a photo of you and the food (with high value) and send it to him: "I'll cook and only give you a bite." "He likes basketball, so you can shoot with the ball. Zhang Zhaofa learned a three-step layup today! Play with you next time! The tone here should be lively and cheerful.

5. What should I do if I have different interests, conflict between arts and sciences, and can't speak? Formula, happy to answer the words and express the small grievances you don't understand, and turn the topic to the irrational level.

(For example, you can say, "That's clever (answering in a happy way), but I want to say something that makes me look less stupid (expressing a little injustice that I don't understand)." At this time, the boy asked you what you want to talk about, and you replied, "I want to ask, how have you been recently?" Are you tired? If it is particularly hard, do you want me to take you to relax? " Lead the topic to an irrational level.

If he keeps talking to you about home appliances, you will immediately break a light bulb and say, "My light bulb is broken, please help others fix it."

When the above dialogue is vague, you can increase your efforts. For example, if you want to sleep at night, say, "Now I'm going to sing to you, so can I say good night to you?" .

Another example is, "I'm in a bad mood now. You say "be good" and I'll go to bed right away. When he says yes to you for the first time, you can say next time, "Last time you said yes, I slept well, and I want to hear it again." "The first warm words are the hardest. Once you break cellophane and start to be ambiguous, it will be much easier in the future.