After playing for five or six years, I was a junior high school classmate at first. She is sloppy and unsociable, and belongs to people who are a little disgusted with having no friends. I am very fat

After playing for five or six years, I was a junior high school classmate at first. She is sloppy and unsociable, and belongs to people who are a little disgusted with having no friends. I am very fat. Judge right or wrong:

1. Think about it. Why did you help her?

First, you are kind-hearted and helpful, and hope that through your own efforts, you can help improve her situation, realize your own value and get spiritual happiness;

Second, I hope to help her and make her your friend, so as to gain the respect and return of the other party;

Think about it, if it is the first purpose, it is actually more about enjoying the process and gaining experience and value while growing up; To achieve the second goal, we need more equal understanding from each other. It's a pity that the person you meet is not equal to you. So why deny yourself?

Why don't you think about it? What she said is not unreasonable. It's not for you to judge whether it helps, but whether she accepts it. Many times, you smile at people, hoping that you can pass on your happiness to others, but you can't stop smiling because others don't reply to your smile, can you?