My wife and ex-husband have a son. Are you nice to her children after remarriage?

It is difficult for many women to be broad-minded and think that their husbands will love their ex-wives' children more. In fact, people's emotions are very complicated, and it is even more difficult for parents to be impartial, let alone children divorced from their ex-wives. Men will like him more because of guilt. If women can't accept, understand and tolerate, then this marriage is doomed to be a tragedy.

Two people think that together, they can feel happy for each other and can handle everything well, so get married. After marriage, the shortcomings of both people are exposed to each other. At this time, we need what we call understanding and tolerance. Only two people can support each other to the end.

What is marriage? It is tolerance, patience and dedication, but the most important thing is understanding. Only by understanding each other can we reduce many unnecessary contradictions and problems and make our feelings last longer. Men, like women, also want to get each other's understanding in their feelings, and even become more willing to pay and listen because of each other's understanding.

Therefore, women should learn to understand and tolerate, and only in marriage can they go further. When two people fall in love, love may only be a matter for two people, but marriage is a matter for two families. Family members are important to both men and women. Although there may be great differences between his home and yours, you should try your best to understand his home and don't make a scene just because you disagree.

After all, if you have an argument with his family, the man you love is the most injured one; But if you can understand his family, then he will love you more. After a man divorces his ex-wife, it is his children who suffer the most, and he will naturally try to make up for it. If you are jealous because of your children, you are not a qualified wife, let alone a qualified stepmother. It is said that stepmother is difficult to serve. Even if you can't treat her as your own child, at least understand and sympathize with this divorced child!

First, the more men love, the more they love their children.

In a man's mind, if he has experienced several women; Then not every woman's children have the same status in men's hearts; In men's minds, men's true love is for women, so men love women's children best; Because a man really loves a person in his heart, he naturally longs for someone to have children for him; Which woman does a man love the least, then the children born to a woman have the same status in a man's heart as women.

As a man, the more I love, the more I love my children; Because in a man's heart, he is most eager for the woman he likes to have children for himself; How much men love women, then naturally there are children who love women; Therefore, if a man doesn't love a woman, he won't pay attention to her children; In other words, a woman's children have the same status in a man's heart as a woman; Therefore, a woman should never find a man with several women, or you will not be the only one in a man's heart.

Second, the original match is a man's true love, and naturally he loves the original child more.

In most men's minds, the original match must be the man's favorite person; Because since a man chose the original match as his wife, it must be in his heart, and the original match has some places that men are more optimistic about; But in marriage, a lot of things will happen, and finally two people will break up in discord; But this can't change a man's sincerity to the original match, and it can't change the position of the children born from the original match in a man's heart; After a man's second marriage, the children born to him are definitely not as tall as those born to him.

As a man, under normal circumstances, he will love his original children more; Although men and the original match are separated, the position of the original match in men's hearts is irreplaceable. Naturally, in men's minds, the original children will be more important; After a man gets married for the second time, he is actually not a woman who really loves his second marriage. After the second marriage, a man has no true love with a woman, just to make a living; Therefore, men will not love the children of second-married women too much, which is related to the depth of men's love.

Third, a man who divorces for a woman will definitely love her children more.

True love happens all the time; Although a man is married, it does not mean that he loves his wife very much; One day, there will be a better woman, and men will really fall in love with women; So in order to be with women, men will abandon their married wives and stay with women; In this case, men love women most, not wives, so men naturally love children born by their second wives more.

As a man, if you divorce for a woman; Then the children born to a man and a second-married woman are men's favorite children; Because men can abandon their families and children for women, they will regard women as treasures in their lives and naturally love their children more; Therefore, if the woman is a second-time married man, you can consider it. Did the man come to you after the divorce, or for your divorce? You will naturally understand the position of your child in a man's heart.

The second marriage man loves who has more children; First of all, which woman does a man really love, then naturally he loves his children more; Because in men's minds, children and women have the same status; Secondly, in most cases, men will love their original children more; Because men don't really love married women when they get married, the children born to natural women are not as important as before; Finally, if a man abandons his original match for a second-married woman, he must love the children born to the second-married woman most, because this man really loves the second-married woman.