Everyone has his own troubles, but when facing them, will you choose to escape or face them?

Everyone has his own troubles, but when facing them, will you choose to escape or face them? How many difficulties and troubles will a person face in his life, and how many feelings of happiness and happiness can he have? It seems that people leave this world, not for comfort. Maybe this is a bit serious, but in fact, we have to admit that there are few things that make people happy in real life.

From the first cry when I left my mother and came to this world, almost everyone began to live in this world in humiliation. Although they face different lives, they bear the same responsibilities of blood relatives, and they have to play various social roles and complete various tasks entrusted by social roles. They won't let it go until they are exhausted, and there will even be some unpleasant things that make it difficult for them to sleep.

Are we living too complicated? Or do you ask too much of yourself in life, so you don't let life bear the fruit of happiness?

It's not that no one has seen the flowers and plants in the world, nor that no one has felt the happiness and sweetness of life, but why don't most people feel this happiness and happiness? In fact, to put it bluntly, it is a state of mind.

Everything has two sides, depending on what kind of mood and attitude you use to face and handle it. There is no difference between happiness and unhappiness. If you face it with a gloomy mood, happy things will become unhappy, but on the contrary, if you deal with it with a positive attitude, you will find that seemingly complicated or even pessimistic things will become simple and open. It can be seen that if you face and deal with the same thing with different attitudes and ideas, you will get completely different results, and the happy ending depends entirely on yourself and whether you are willing to make yourself happy or not.

Life is short. Instead of letting your mind live a serious life, not feeling the slightest happiness, ending with a word "tired", or dying of depression without feeling relaxed and happy all your life. Why can't you give yourself a happy reason to live a happy life, but you must turn the wonderful joy of life into a sad knot? Maybe it's a time to wake up, but it's also a time to leave this beautiful world. Didn't you live in vain in this life?

I still remember an old man who walked through that black-and-white era, and a family of six relied on his meager salary. He has been engaged in heavy manual labor and never shows signs of being developed, promoted or outstanding, but you will never see a smile on his face. Even that humble and poor hut is often filled with laughter and laughter from him and his family, which makes the neighbors very puzzled where his happiness comes from, even in private.

Someone asked him inexplicably, why are there so many happy things every day? No time to be unhappy?

And he smiled casually and said, "What's worth making yourself unhappy? Everything is the same, you have to face it when you are happy, and you have to face it when you are unhappy. Since everyone is alive, let yourself be happy. Can you say that frowning can make those who should come not come, and you can cross the status quo and avoid the facts? "

There is also a friend who has experienced the pain of marriage, the pain of separation of flesh and blood, and the pain of illness, but still lives optimistically. In her eyes, she seems to have never been difficult or unhappy. No matter when and where, all people like to get along with her, and even have no appetite when eating. Watching her eat with relish, they can't help being infected and want to eat a few mouthfuls. Without her, everyone will think of her, and it seems that only her existence will arouse a happy mood. As a matter of fact, she doesn't have excellent looks in middle age, but her humorous temperament, witty words and cheerful laughter will only make you feel that time is in a hurry and you spend too little time together.

If you ask her, have you forgotten all the pain? She will calmly answer: "How can people live in memories? I'm happy now, because I'm still alive, because I'm still alive after so much pain. I'm so happy. Isn't it happiness? Don't give up happiness if you have pain? Can unhappiness escape this kind of pain? If you really want to break free, first break free from your thoughts and let yourself think about how happy you are to live in front of you every day. How nice it is to be alive! "

The simple answer tells a simple but thought-provoking philosophy: in fact, living is not that complicated. Happiness does not exist. You just need to find it yourself. The reasons that can make you feel cheerful can be seen everywhere, depending on whether you can realize it or not.

Then try to let yourself know and grasp, try to one day, don't ask everything to be perfect, and don't do what you can't do.

Try to change your position with others one day, stop criticizing people and defining others with a critical eye, but try to find the advantages and benefits of everything and praise everyone around you, friends and relatives.

Try one day, don't compare yourself with others, don't predict how blank and far-reaching the future will be, and don't worry about how others will treat you and evaluate you.

Strive until one day, no longer care about personal gains and losses, and don't care about what I do, what I get, what's good for me, whether I do too much, and what others will think of me. ...

Try a new way to treat people, be positive, optimistic, friendly and grateful, and be glad that I can live in this beautiful world and get along with my relatives, lovers, friends and colleagues. I am happy that I can have a job, and I am full of joy that I can live a safe and healthy life; No matter what you do to help others, you can feel gratified for yourself, regardless of whether you have any achievements or honors; Don't exaggerate the difficulties you imagine ... at this time, you will find that your mood is so calm and calm, and your life is so free and calm.

These are the reasons to find happiness for yourself, the most precious things in life, and the simplest secret to make life happy. The advantage of them is that they can make your life more meaningful in a happy way, make you feel that the plain life is so happy and sweet, and make you walk peacefully in the long journey of life.

People can live a happy life and enjoy the happiness and beauty endowed by life by knowing themselves and finding a happy reason for themselves.

Everyone has their own ideas, right?

Not exactly a scale, but a balance. This scale gives a quantitative value. This balance gives the advantages and disadvantages of two things. People usually compare two people or two things, not a scoring system:)

Everyone has their own little things? My career is big for myself and my relatives, but small for others.

Everyone has their own story, thank you! Everyone has his own history.

Everyone has his own story, and every story is the same. Every story belongs to every story.

I feel that the thinking of asking questions is not very clear.

What's here is for reference only.

Everyone has personality defects, right? Just like everyone has their own weaknesses? Yes, there are no perfect people in this world. No one is perfect. Everyone has his own weakness, and no one is indestructible. I can't tell, I can only say that I didn't find it.

Everyone has his own desires, but he should know how to control a normal reaction.

Everyone has his own male god composition. I have a male god, and his name is Kim Soo Hyun. Because of him, I popularized all the movies and TV series about him. For him, I strive to be a qualified cartoonist. For him, my mobile phone screensaver and computer.

Screensavers are all him, he is my male god, and I have never desecrated him, because I love him beyond my age. When I first saw you from the stars, I thought Do Min Joon was so handsome, and then I saw the moon embracing the sun.

I once thought Li Xuan was better than Do Min Joon. Later, I saw the secret and the greatness. I think that stupid Dongjiu spy Huan is more overbearing than He. Then I watched dreamhigh. I thought it was Sam-dong Song.

More persistent and cuter than Liu Huan, Li Xuan and Do Min Joon, it was not until I finally watched all the TV dramas and movies played by Xiu Xian that I found that neither Do Min Joon, who was indifferent and single-minded, nor Li Xuan, who was affectionate and witty, was silly.

I love Dong Jiu's domineering Yuan, and I also love those who are persistent and single-minded, just because they are not others or strangers, but Kim Soo Hyun, my favorite Jin Xiu.

Xian, I love Kim Soo Hyun. I miss Kim Soo Hyun, whom I deeply care about, day and night. Because of him, I love all of them, no matter what role he plays, self-destructive or handsome.

Love, every character makes me laugh and cry to the extreme, just because he is Kim Soo Hyun, where would they come from without him! So I love him!

Kim Soo Hyun's Chinese name has 23 strokes, Chinese has 16 strokes and English has 10 letters, which are undoubtedly engraved in my heart. I think I'm possessed. I added countless months just to be able to

Enough to see Kim Soo Hyun every time you open the space; I think I'm possessed. Before getting up in the morning and going to bed at night, all I have to do is take a look at the screensaver. I think I'm possessed. Whenever I hear the word Kim Soo Hyun, I always laugh.

I praised all his conversations, diaries and photos; I think I am possessed. My friends in QQ are all because I know Kim Soo Hyun. I think I'm possessed and I like Kim Soo Hyun so much. I have loved Do Min Joon for 400 years.

Unswervingly, I love Li Xuan's persistence and regret. You are the only one. I like Song Sam-dong's persistence in his dream. I love Dong Bang IX's stupidity and loyalty to the country ... but I love the man who interprets these characters even more. His name is Kim Soo Hyun.

Everyone has their own stage. Hello, if I can help you, please accept it.

Everyone has their own stage.

Everyone has a stage in his heart, and his heart is as big as the stage. -inscription

Perhaps, you just enjoy the care of your parents, but never pay attention to their increasingly gray hair; Perhaps, you just use your extraordinary wisdom to attack your opponent in the mall, or even lose your money. At this time, you will say "this is competition", but have you ever thought that this will attract more "eyeing"?

Perhaps, you just derailed for your own petty profit, and eventually alienated from others, but you were ecstatic about the "trophy" you got.

Perhaps, on the stage of your mind, you have always been a soloist.

The universe exploded because of a tiny particle, and a beautiful earth appeared in the vast sky. The emergence and reproduction of human beings gradually developed from the era of eating and drinking blood, forming a society and owning civilization.

Man's "individual" nature determines that he can't just see others without pretending to be himself, and he will also have selfish desires. However, things often have a "degree" and people always live in groups. If they only see themselves and leave no room for others, they will live in their "self" forever until they die alone.

Ancient emperors were all in power, but if he didn't have the spirit of "letting all rivers run into the sea" and didn't care about the people, he would probably be a ship of "water under the bridge". And we modern people are even more so. After all, we have no right to respond to everything. We always live among people and always want to be cared for by others. Then, don't do solo, you should see yourself and others.

Looking back on the railing, it doesn't matter what you have paid, what you have paid and what you have gained. As long as there are others in your heart, you can have no regrets; It doesn't matter what you see in your eyes or what you hide in your heart. As long as you see yourself and others, you can be innocent.

Everyone has a stage in his heart, and the dancers on it depend on how big the stage is; And how big the stage is depends on how big your heart is!

Everyone has his own temper, right? Well, yes, the environment has created a person's personality characteristics.