In the second half of life, half understand and half let go

Every bustle in the world is for benefit, and all the hustle and bustle in the world is for benefit.

We hear stories like this all the time.

Some people say: I really want to live a normal life.

However, one day, the fame and fortune were gone and he became ordinary, but he was unwilling to give in and tried his best to make himself popular again.

In life, many times, we always wander between letting go and giving up.

After letting go, I was unwilling to accept it, but once I had it, I started to have all kinds of worries again.

Just like, when you have status, you don’t want to go back to the past; when you have wealth, you want to have more; when you have love, you start to covet novelty.

As a result, some people forget their original intentions and take desperate risks for status; they commit illegal crimes for wealth; they forget the true meaning of love, and the people around them change one after another.

In this life, it is often easy to get but difficult to let go.

However, the further you go in life, the more you will understand that only by being able to live happily, comfortably and joyfully can you truly live your life well.

In the first half of our lives, we worked hard to make a living in the pouring rain, but in the second half of our lives, our greatest desire is to have peace and tranquility.

On the road to aging, life is about half understanding and half letting go.

The world changes too fast, the winds and clouds rise, the sun rises and sets.

We always think that we can control our lives by ourselves. However, our inner desires are like a dream that can never be exhausted.

The world is difficult. When you go through a hurdle, there will be another slope.

So, after seeing Jinyi, I wanted more jade food.

When I was young, I always wanted to compare. When I saw others doing well, I would aspire to be better than others. Always asking for, envying, thinking about...

The older you get, the more you understand that no matter how rich you are, you can't take anything with you when you leave. In the end, everyone is just a handful of loess.

I always think about getting rich and prosperous, but forget to cherish the most precious things at the moment. In the end, my body collapses, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Rockefeller, a former American oil company employee, earned his first million in his life when he was 33 years old. When he was 43 years old, he owned the largest monopoly in the world. And when he was 53 years old, he was already living like an 80-year-old man.

When he was young, he was strong and had a vigorous pace. But when he was 53 years old, he suffered from a disease. His shoulders drooped and his steps were slow. Because of the endless work, hard work, physical exhaustion, and overall His lack of sleep at night took a heavy toll on his body.

Someone saw him and said: His face is weathered and he is the oldest man I have ever seen.

After realizing that desire had destroyed his body, he decided to retire, grow flowers, plant grass, chat, sing, and give up his once crazy pursuit of wealth. He actually lived to be 98 years old.

Perhaps, every day we are also working hard to have more money, even staying up late and working overtime until late at night.

However, in the second half of life, we will realize that many gains in the first half of life need to be paid for in the second half of your life.

Therefore, although the more money, the better, inner peace and tranquility, and physical health are more important.

For the rest of your life, follow the weather and sleep peacefully at night. You do not seek wealth, but peace and happiness.

Some people ask, what should you let go of in life?

Letting go does not mean that you will give up. Giving up does not mean that you will no longer have it. But in the present moment, don't let yourself go, indulge yourself, and slack off your life, lose your happiness, and lose your health.

As the saying goes, if the human heart is insufficient, the snake will swallow the elephant.

Being contented is not just talking about it, it requires us to actually do what we say.

There is no bottom line for a person's desires throughout his life. Real wealth and wealth means peace and happiness, rather than putting yourself in danger, anxiety, and uneasiness.

So, if you feel unhappy and unhappy, let it go. If you continue to be reluctant to let go, you will only make yourself more miserable.

In life, there are always people who have never recovered because of some heavy experiences; there are always people who have been depressed because of the people they once loved.

Those bad things that happen in a person's life are like buying an apple, forgetting to eat it, putting it away, and being reluctant to throw it away, but you will never get back the money you paid for the apple.

Therefore, eating it will harm your body, so it is better to throw it away. Also remind yourself that the past is the past, don’t dwell on it anymore.

If you failed to seize the opportunity in the past, you must know how to cherish it when you encounter it in the future. Only by giving up can you be blessed, and only by letting go can you have happiness.

Plato once said: If you are not happy, if you are not happy, then let it go.

On the road of life, the further you go, the more people and things you meet, the more things you have difficulty letting go of and the more things you care about.

If you don’t know how to let go and stubbornly insist on things you shouldn’t insist on, then you will have difficulty in many things.

The more expectations, the greater the disappointment, and the worse the mood will be.

Therefore, if you let yourself go and travel lightly, you can live a free and happy life; if you let yourself go, the clouds are calm and the wind is gentle, the sky is high and the sea is vast, then you can be happy and live a wonderful second half of your life.

Conclusion:

The footprints of life always fall with the passage of time.

As time goes by, so will people.

Although we don’t want to grow old, plants and trees also flourish and wither, not to mention people?

Therefore, let yourself be more open-minded and cheerful, and grow old calmly and without regrets.

Don’t try to be brave, and don’t insist on doing things that you are more than willing but not strong enough. In the second half of life, the struggle is no longer about physical strength and endurance, but about state of mind and way of living.

Let yourself take it easy, take your time, and focus on making yourself physically and mentally happy. Think about all the fame and fortune, none of which can accompany you to the end of your life.

Many wishes are actually empty. It is good to have expectations in your heart, and doing your best is enough.

When walking on the road of getting older, don’t let yourself struggle with those impossible people and things that made you entangled and troubled in the past. Don’t let yourself look back at the scars that you have already grown. , the past is the past.

This is how you live your life. Only if you don’t regret the spring and autumn will you live a peaceful life.

In the second half of life, if you let yourself go, you can live healthy and understand; if you let yourself go, you can live happily and with peace of mind.

Text: The Calm Fox

Picture: Internet

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