Who can I rely on?

Introduction: You will never meet a few people who are really good to you in your life. Some people are the light of light up the world for you, and some people push the dust out of your heart. However, if there is a measured distance between people, it will easily lead to the absurdity of losing contact. The more independent we are, the fewer important people there are. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to be kind to those who still stay with you and be patient with the dull and lively life.

1. Sometimes people around you misunderstand you. Don't explain to him. Since he doesn't believe you, why do you explain? Even if you explain that you won, you can't win his trust in you.

2. Be a calm person, be a kind person, be a person with a smile on his mouth and a happy heart.

I forgot when we started forwarding other people's Weibo. Just because these words seem to describe your feelings, or write some stories and experiences about yourself.

I walk around alone, knowing that I have been self-sufficient. I don't know what I am waiting for, just as I don't know what I am waiting for.

Every morning, I remind myself once again that life is short and beautiful, and there is no time to struggle and care.

6. There is no need to crave others' understanding and recognition in life, because others have no such obligation. Live quietly, the heart does not move, and the wind can't help it. If you don't get hurt, the years will be fine.

7. Hug yourself when you are tired, and coax yourself when you cry. It is impossible for someone around you to accompany you and spoil you all the time. Learn to love yourself.

8. All roads, whether active or passive, are your choices. At a certain time in life, there is only one smell. No matter how bitter the heart is, no matter how envious the person is, he can only immerse himself in this taste, either numb or save himself. Some people may say that I really can't help it. In fact, there are thousands of roads, not only one at any time. When it's time to shoulder the heavy burden, don't pass the buck and don't get into the habit of complaining easily.

9. Sometimes, don't talk to anyone casually. In your opinion, he is a friend. In his opinion, you are an outspoken fool. You helped him when he needed you. In your opinion, it is natural for friends to help each other. In his opinion, you are a big head that can help when you are useful and kick when you are useless. Not everyone in this world is a friend, only one or two people can express their feelings.

10, everyone is having a hard time. After you get through it, you will feel that those things that were going to kill you at that time, so many situations that you think will not last, will gradually get better. No matter how slow it is, as long as you are willing to wait, it will become a thing of the past. And those you can't overcome temporarily, those you can't overcome, those you can't stand, those you can't stand, tell yourself that whatever can't kill you will eventually make you stronger.

1 1. Get ready. Listen to sad songs less when you are in a bad mood. If you are hungry, help yourself to food. If you are afraid of the dark, turn on the light. If you want, you can make money to buy it yourself. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, there is no need to exaggerate your difficulties with sitcoms. Reality is so cruel, don't pretend to be innocent. Don't care too much about what can't be changed. People who can't stay will try to give up, and broken hearts will try their best to heal themselves. Except for life and death, it is a small matter. Don't embarrass yourself.

12, it is easy to give up, but in the end you will get nothing; Persistence is hard, but in the end it will pay off. Your brave world will make way for you; You are not afraid of fate and will give in to you. We can choose to stagnate or change ourselves. We can choose to be comfortable and enjoy ourselves, or we can choose to bloom brilliantly in the struggle. It doesn't matter who you were in the past or who you are today. What matters is what kind of person you will become in the future. It is we who decide our destiny.

13, who can you rely on, but don't rely on anyone. When you devote yourself wholeheartedly to someone, that person will often betray you. Because you have paid completely, there is no freshness and use value. People are always like this, and what they get is often not cherished. So, when you are hurt, first think about whether you have paid too much and lowered yourself. If you want others to cherish you, you must first love yourself. No one can help you if you don't love yourself.

14, when recalling the past, you smiled, indicating that you have grown up; When you recall the past, you cry, which means you are mature; When recalling the past, you are indifferent, indicating that you are sophisticated; When you recall the past, you feel sorry, indicating that you are helpless; When you look back on the past, you are calm, which means you are old.

15, the biggest gain you can get is not how many people you can meet, how many beautiful scenery you can see, or what kind of adventures you have experienced, but walking. Under an opportunity, you suddenly re-recognize yourself and suddenly find that you have changed and become different. Time is the most powerful digestive agent, which can dissolve all unforgettable things into nothingness, and finally everything begins to become unimportant.

16, see clearly why a person should be exposed; If you hate someone, why do you turn against them? Living, there are always people who don't like us, just like others don't like us. Living, speaking simply is actually very simple, and laughing at gains and losses will broaden your horizons; Only when the heart is transparent will spring bloom. Life is like this.

17, don't be afraid that a certain personality will offend people. You know, there is no personality in the world that can avoid offending people. Talking will really offend villains, speaking euphemistically will offend hotheads, good people will offend principled people, and smooth people will offend smart people. Since everyone will offend others, be yourself. If you are yourself, you are not afraid of offending people, because you can bear the consequences.

18 What do you want? Be together for life. Or a greedy day. I want it. Just a simple but stable life. Love to death, running water under the bridge The best happiness is the care you give. He belongs to me alone, and he will never lie to me again. After a long wait, no way back. When your heart breaks, you finally know that you have been lying to yourself.

19, my favorite married life is this: both of them have careers they love. After work, they go home and lie bored on the sofa, accompany their children or watch TV, cook together, clean the room together, smile at each other, hug each other at night, kiss each other goodbye after work in the morning, travel together, watch movies together, go shopping together, and talk to each other first. Simple and clean, like a freshly washed white shirt.

20, you in memory, a figure, a look is enough to make people move. I am afraid of the idea, but I have to run like a river day and night. But the feeling of missing is not like this. No matter how you forget it, it will always linger in your mind. The past has passed, and the future has not yet arrived. No matter what will happen in the future, all we can have is now.

2 1, sometimes, I know I have a lot to say in my heart, but I don't know how to express it; Sometimes, I have many dreams, but I can't; Sometimes, when others misunderstand their unintentional words, they will feel depressed and panic; Sometimes, a feeling of boredom will pop up in my heart and I feel very tired. Sometimes, I find myself growing up overnight, but I can't see my future and I'm at a loss.

22, time is really good, so that the pain is no longer painful, so that I can not let go, I can see everything clearly. Only occasionally, I will be in a daze, inadvertently remembering, and I will burst into tears. But I have accepted the fact that you have passed away with time.

23. We have made the most efforts for our feelings. We once hugged people who thought we could be together forever. It turns out that when we run over youth, these glories will still be lost one day. We still have to hold back our tears and say goodbye. Only then did we realize that we love much more than we thought. If you are kind enough, you don't have to suffer unless you have evil in your heart.

24. Living is a happy and hard thing. Because when God gives a person life, he also gives people a lot of important tasks. A person, except naive childhood and old age, has been running around for his family and career for most of his life. The content of life is not easy for most people. However, since you choose to live, you must live a high spirit.

25. Life sometimes needs to settle down. We should have enough time to reflect. People are born happy. The root of happiness is peace and health. People who appear in life remember with gratitude. Those who miss it have no next stop; Missing things, there is no next life; When you have it, cherish it; When you can do it, catch it.

26. You won't meet a few people who are really nice to you in your life. Someone lights light up the world for you, and someone pulls the dust out of your heart. However, if there is a measured distance between people, it will easily lead to the absurdity of losing contact. The more independent we are, the fewer important people there are. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to be kind to those who still stay with you and be patient with the dull and lively life.

27, don't stand on tiptoe to love a person, the center of gravity is unstable and won't last long. To grow old together, we need to love each other and be willing to sacrifice for each other. Therefore, to find a partner, you must find a generous person who refuses to eat at all, and don't believe it even if you say "love you" 10 thousand times. People who love you will willingly lose to you. Learn to be tolerant and know how to be tolerant, so as to prove that I love you deeply. People who really love you will spoil you, give you love and grow old together.

28. This day is coming. When it comes, your burden will become a gift. Your suffering will light your way forward.

30. If a relationship can last, perhaps the most important thing is not love, but gratitude. Thank you for finding you in the crowd and treating you as a treasure. Thank you for burning the most precious youth only for him. Everything you do for each other is in your mind. So no matter what happens in the future, you can quarrel and get angry, but you will never leave. Thank you for accompanying me to my old age. This is the greatest luck in my life.

Editor's note: All roads, whether active or passive, are your choices. At a certain time in life, there is only one smell. No matter how bitter the heart is, no matter how envious the person is, he can only immerse himself in this taste, either numb or save himself. Some people may say that I really can't help it. In fact, there are thousands of roads, not only one at any time. When it's time to shoulder the heavy burden, don't pass the buck and don't get into the habit of complaining easily.

Classic Quotations: You can see through, but don't see through.

Life is a process of cultivation. No matter how big things are today, tomorrow will be small things; In life, we often see some people optimistic and others pessimistic. Why is this happening? In fact, the world we live in is no different, but our inner attitudes towards life are different.

Life is so long and there are so many unknown things. The relationship between people is often mutual, be kind to others and be kind to yourself. Make yourself more peaceful and open-minded, and be more tolerant of the faults around you. Everyone has his difficulties, so why force others.

Everything should be sensitive to words and cautious about actions. Speaking in front of others looks like showing yourself, but it is actually naked in the eyes of others. Not many words, but they carry weight. Sometimes silence is a kind of self-protection. If you talk too much, it's gone. Don't let those secrets hidden in your heart have nowhere to hide. Think twice before, be tough in the matter, and have no regrets afterwards. Only by looking further and taking firm steps can life be more complete and less regrettable.

No matter what happened in the past, you should believe that the best is yet to come. Life is a journey. Along the way, we can't guess what kind of scenery we will encounter and where our destination is without warning, but the pace of progress can't stop all the time, because time doesn't allow us to stay anywhere, only to learn to choose, experience and appreciate constantly.

Life is not perfect, and happiness is not 100%. A good life should always have a relaxed heart. No matter how the outside world changes, you can have a quiet world. Quiet is not noisy, nor is it in a demanding heart. Let go of obstacles and broaden your mind, and your heart will naturally be quiet and carefree.

You can see through, but don't see through.

Living with your heart is the best life. Life is not perfect, and regret shows the true colors of life. Life is always unhappy. If you want to overcome it, you will get rid of yourself. If you don't overcome it, you will find yourself in trouble, even if you are old, why bother!

Life is a difficult thing, especially to pursue the life you want, because you should not only have the courage to face other people's doubts and secular challenges, but also have the courage to face the consequences that you may accomplish nothing. If you do it, no one may applaud you, but if you don't do it, you may become the laughing stock of others after dinner. To those who dare to break the rules, and to their courage to bear the consequences.

I have had one or several good first impressions in my life. Man, born in this world, indicates suffering, happiness or misfortune. In real life, each of us has to go through a smooth or tortuous road. Some people crawl in the wind and rain, some people sigh in the wind and rain, and some people are persistent.

Life is better to look down than to see through it. Many people in life are not ignorant, but helpless. All my life, I just want to be happy. It is better to ignore those headaches that you can't figure out and people and things that you can't understand.

Life is too short to be indifferent. There is no great truth in life. Living is a kind of mood. If you live in a good mood, you don't say you are tired or bitter. Happiness may be reflected in this "not tired" and "not bitter".

Classic Quotations: Who really loved themselves?

Once we naively thought that as long as two people love each other enough, they can fight against the whole world and stay together forever. But when you are really in this world, you must obey the rules of the game in this world. As long as you are alive, there are many things that we can't get rid of.

1, loneliness is not innate, but from the moment you fall in love with someone.

For a person, hatred is not the most cruel behavior, but indifference is the most deadly weapon.

People are sad, not because love is over, but when everything is over, love is still there.

Life is a long journey. Don't waste time waiting for those who don't want to walk hand in hand with you.

5. Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness, because you will be disappointed if you have expectations. Because there is love, there will be expectations, so even disappointment is a kind of happiness, although this happiness is a bit painful.

6. Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

7. When you encounter setbacks, tell yourself: This is only zero, but everything starts again. Even if you fall to the bottom of your life, you will rise in any direction as long as you leave your original place.

8. Everything will run out one day, the sun will run out, the air will run out, the fuel will run out and the energy will run out. Patience will run out, fighting spirit will run out, why can't love run out?

9. Parting and reunion are dramas that are constantly staged in life. If you get used to it, you will no longer be sad.

10, in the world of marriage, there is nothing wrong with confession. What is wrong is that you mistakenly think that confession can save your conscience, but you ignore the harm to the other party.

165438+ 2. Breaking up is no longer entangled.

12, if you give me a tear, I will see all the oceans in your heart! If you can't come near me, let me try to walk towards you.

13, a hundred sentences of "if love" are not as true as a sentence of "together".

14, the road ahead is still far, you may cry, but you must go on and never stop.

15, the more you know your personality and needs, the less likely you are to be influenced by the outside world.

16, love comes and goes quickly, only pork rolls are eternal. From now on, I will do myself a favor: unload the burden, forget the pain and heal the wounds.

17. From now on, I will do myself a favor: unload the burden, forget the pain and heal the wounds.

18, why is he unprepared? Why won't you get hurt? With what? Is it because he is simple? He is stupid, why should he be stupid to the end? Life must make him strong. As a person, if you don't let him know the truth of life, it's cheating. What is a great evil? Deception is a great evil.

19, I don't miss you every day, but the moment when everything is beautiful and profound.

20. About love: It's better to meet once than never.

2 1, baby, the world is big, but I miss you.

22. The best feeling is that when I look at you, you are already staring at me.

I am neither driven by hope nor by despair. I love you, asking for nothing in return, and even moving me.

24. Being in love, like being a thief, requires memory, courage, fear, fear of losing face and living in insecurity.

We don't need to envy others' happiness. What you think you don't have may be on the way; You think her illness may be on her way.

26. I'm afraid of losing you and holding you in my arms. If you step away, I will cry. I don't know what magic to use to hold the wealth of your world in my weak arms forever.

27. Please give me a pair of hands to soothe my irritability; Give me a hug and let me rely on it wearily.

28. What can be kept by you is love, and what can be kept in your heart is love. When a person is too busy to breathe, never touch love, because love is a treasure that needs oxygen to survive.

29. A labyrinth of cities makes people accustomed to seeing the same scenery, taking the same route and reaching the same destination; Habits make people's lives unchanged. Habit makes people feel safe and lonely. And you never know what your habits will make you miss.

30. Memories will warm your body from the inside and cut your body violently from the inside.

3 1. Men's three favorite gifts: a tall hat: give him a tall hat from time to time to praise and worship him; Admiring eyes: even if he does something stupid, you still give him such eyes; Comfort of life: let him know that you will share joys and sorrows with him, and you are the comfort of his soul.

32. Everyone is like a book, with considerable points. It's just that some covers are poorly designed and can't arouse readers' interest.

33. I looked at her and looked at it again and again. Love her most all my life, heart and soul, till death do us part. She will fade and wither, no matter what. But I only took one look at her, and all the tenderness welled up in my heart.

34, feelings are like this, you hurt others, whether intentionally or unintentionally, someone will always hurt you.

35. Feelings are sometimes like children, naughty and lost, but the essence is pure. As long as you can wait for a tree to blossom and wait for its return, what it owes you will be repaid quietly in a way you don't know.

36. Love with love, not with dependent personality factors such as need, possession and dependence.

37. If you can't have a beautiful posture, a healthy life, a flexible life, clumsy and childish fabrics and a lubricated bottom of the bowl, you should at least live. In order to wait, that hug appeared one day.

38. The so-called affection means that you have me and I have you. It turns out that one person is not as happy as two people.

When I stand in front of you in pain, you can't say that I have nothing, and you can't say that I have nothing.

40. Love once and hate once. In this way, life is not so mediocre.

Editor's note: I found that I didn't have the courage to leave him at all. I don't want to spend time getting used to another person, accepting his good and bad, and then hurting each other, repeating and repeating. In the end, you will find that you don't even know who really loved yourself.

Classic Quotations: Those who have no bottom line that you can forgive will hurt those who have no bottom line.

Guide: What is sweetness in love? I will never get tired of each other's gaze. Even if you quarrel, even if you are wronged, you are willing to think it is you. There must be another me in this world, doing what I dare not do and living the life I want.

1. A person is not only throwing everything away and hiding, but returning to his purest self.

2. The source of true happiness lies in ourselves; As long as a person is good at pursuing happiness, others can't let him fall into a really miserable situation.

Please accept you now and improve you now. Exercise makes you more temperament, reading makes you see the world you have never seen before, and dressing makes you look forward to it every day. You don't need to be who others say you are. You just hope that you won't feel flustered and confident because you are ordinary in the crowd. There will be no second me in this world.

4, there is no need to deliberately satisfy who, who is not eager to have, who is reluctant to retain. Everything goes with the flow, and the best of yourself is left to the last person.

5. What is sweetness in love? I will never get tired of each other's gaze. Even if you quarrel, even if you are wronged, you are willing to think it is you.

6. You must have a rich heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life.

7. When I was young, I thought loneliness was a cool thing. When I grow up, I feel lonely is a very sad thing. Now, I think loneliness is not a thing. At least, try not to turn it into a thing.

Every little thing we experienced together may seem meaningless at that time, but it is destined to be a secret of each other's life, because in the future, even if we try our best to tell it to any outsider, we can't restore the scene at that time. Even if we can tell what we see in our eyes, we can't tell what we have in our hearts.

9. There must be another me in this world, doing what I dare not do and living the life I want.

10, wronged, in front of others, all agreed. I called my mother, and when I heard her voice, I called my mother, and my tears came down. Because I know that when people ask what's wrong, they are more satisfied with gossip and curiosity, not necessarily really worried. Mom is really worried when she asks what's wrong. Even if the whole world doesn't care about me, what is certain is that in my mother's heart, I am her world.

1 1. On the youth train, if you want to get off early, please don't wake me up, let me sleep until the end and pretend not to know that you have left.

12, slowly, you will know that there are really few things in life that deserve our courtesy, education, character and pattern.

13, summer is coming, and it is the end of the year in a blink of an eye. It's a great pity that we didn't take what our companions and ourselves did seriously. I'm afraid I'll get old before I grow up; Afraid of not having fun, I said goodbye. If you go bad, you will know how to cherish and stop being lazy. If you fall, you will get up and stop complaining. Be awesome, do what you think, sleep when you should, and don't stay up late. If the person you remember is not around, be nice to the person who is still around.

14, people on the mountain should not look down on people under the mountain, because one day they will go up the mountain to replace you. People who go up the mountain should not look down on people who go down the mountain, because you are still at the foot of the mountain when he is beautiful.

15. As a woman, we must strive for economic independence before we can talk about what we should strive for. 15-25 years old, striving for learning and tourism opportunities; Twenty-five to thirty-five, work hard, continue to study, organize a family, and start saving; After the age of 35, if you want to turn your work into a career and study harder, you must have some self-defense assets.

16, Bai comforted me one day: "The best years people claimed were actually the most painful, but they were so happy in retrospect."

17, I want to continue to be a madman and live according to my dreams instead of the way others want.

18, don't care about people who don't care about you. Don't think about those who don't think about you. Don't worry about people who don't worry about you. Don't waste your time on a man/woman who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

19, the older you get, the lazier you are to explain some things, not because you are afraid of trouble, but because you know that many things cannot be explained. Many people end up parting ways, sometimes it's a pity, sometimes it's inevitable. There must be people like you in this world, but there must not be many. There is always someone who can hear you crying behind your silence, and I hope someone can understand you.

20. Happiness should be a coincidence, not many. It's like drinking a cup of iced wheat tea when you are thirsty, instead of eating a full meal when you are full.

2 1, say less sarcastic words and do less impulsive and willful things.

22. I loved to drink soda when I was a child, but it was hard to get it back, but it didn't taste right. The world has changed us, and we have changed the world in our eyes without mercy ... Some things are beautiful, just stay in memory.

23. People in dreams should be called when they wake up. Life will be much simpler this way.

There is no doubt that good things will come. And it's a surprise to come late.

25. Love is when you lose a front tooth, but you can still smile calmly. Because you know that your friends won't stop loving you because of your incompleteness.

26. Sometimes, we have to be strong, so when we pretend to be strong, we really get stronger and stronger.

27. People who have no bottom line that you can forgive will hurt those who have no bottom line.

28, casually promised, it is better to seriously refuse. Commitment is limited and energy is tense. You can learn two other skills: reject people you hate casually and promise your sweetheart seriously.

29. There are too many pains and misfortunes in my life because I want to live like others, not like myself.

30. Most people die in their twenties and thirties, because after this age, they are just their own shadows, and they will spend the rest of their lives imitating themselves, repeating what they have done, thought, loved and hated in their lifetime day after day, more mechanically and affectedly.

3 1, people's fragility and strength are beyond imagination. Sometimes, I may be too fragile to burst into tears at a word, and sometimes I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

32. Some people's kindness is like wine buried in the ground. It always takes a long time to be known until they leave. The rest of the drinkers can only drink until dawn alone. The furthest distance is that people are still there, feelings are still there, and the way back is gone.

33. Sometimes you think the sky is going to fall, but in fact you are standing by yourself.

34. Real life is doing what you do every day. Don't ask for love and vision that has nothing to do with you at present. Don't dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. No delusions, no self-indulgence. Don't hurt, don't be enemies with yourself and others. Don't perform and don't believe in other people's performances.

35. The heart is a house with two bedrooms. One lives in pain, the other in joy. People can't laugh too loudly. Otherwise laughter will wake up the pain in the next room.

36. Now I feel more and more that it is a great blessing to meet friends who can get along well, chat with each other, be honest with each other, don't care about each other, and keep you in mind instead of doing superficial work. If there is, we should all cherish it.

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all their heart.

38. The most important thing for us is not to care about truth, gain and loss, fame and fortune, dignity and wealth, but how to live happily and find the poetry of life from it.

39. It's okay to be alone. As long as you love someone from the heart, life will be saved. Even if you can't live with him.

40. You are the person I miss most and the person I don't want to disturb most.

Editor's note: Real life is doing what you should do every day. Don't ask for love and vision that has nothing to do with you at present. Don't dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. No delusions, no self-indulgence. Don't hurt, don't be enemies with yourself and others. Don't perform and don't believe in other people's performances.