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What's the point of getting married if you're not going to have children?

Personally, I don't think it is necessary to have children after marriage, and not having children will not have much impact on my future life. Of course, we must also combine family financial resources and family endurance.

1, traditional concept

There is an old saying in China that "there are three unfilial children, and no children". Therefore, China has paid attention to the family line since ancient times. Once the couple get married, the family will rush to have children. Nowadays, young people are under great pressure. They either postpone having children or don't have children, and choose Dink. Based on this situation, it depends on your family's endurance. If your family is tolerant and parents and elders don't interfere in young people's affairs, then you can not have children, which won't have much influence on you. But if the family doesn't agree, then your family pressure will be overwhelmed by the problem of not having children in the future.

2. Family atmosphere

After marriage, you don't have to have children to live a good life. Not having children has the advantage of not having children, and having children is more fun. For example, on holidays, other people's families get together and are very busy. Children in Doby are talking and laughing, while your family is deserted and the family is relatively silent. Even if you don't want children again, you will still feel a little envious.

3, whether financial resources allow

This is a key issue. When I was young, I felt very relaxed without children. I don't have to consider the children's milk powder money, the children's tuition fees and the children's growth. I can live the life I want, but what about when I get old? If the other half leaves first, he is alone and no one talks. If he is ill, no two people carry water to feed the medicine. Therefore, if you don't plan to have children, you must save some money. When you are old, you have to rely on your own financial resources to take medicine and live in a nursing home.

Of course, it's up to you to decide whether to have children or not. If you have planned your future life, don't have children. The above is just my personal opinion, for reference only.