How to be neither sad nor happy nor humiliated?

Today, walking on the sunny, cold and sparsely populated afternoon path,

For an instant, it seems that now suddenly links the past and the future at the same time.

Silently,

Looking at the first grade, I am eager to play with children.

Looking at high school, eager to regain love.

After reading the work, I am eager to take over the task as soon as possible and complete the task well.

Waiting for the future, busy maintaining the status quo.

From a distance, white hair, but no joy or sadness, I am indifferent.

Beyond the present, beyond the time limit, perhaps, no gain or loss, no obsession.

Life is so long, each stage has its own story, and there is no connection with each other. Why bother yourself?

Perhaps, after many years, look back at today's obsession: the person who loves hard and makes himself fall into pain again and again; I am so obsessed with it that I can find a job with a little anxiety. You may laugh and find that it is not important in itself.

The Buddha said that people have eight sufferings: birth, old age, illness, death, hatred of society, love of separation, prosperity of five yin and ambition. In addition to uncontrollable birth and death, the rest is the pain of desire and obsession.

Life is always advancing and irreversible, and it will move to the next stage sooner or later.

Out of this stage, why think about this obsession.

When we understand this, we can feel how to be neither sad nor happy.