My brother does not have enough money to spend. Should I remind him if he doesn't pay me back? What should I do?

? In my brother's heart, whether we are sisters or brothers, we are all people he can rely on. If you are in trouble, you are right and you will be able to get help. At the same time, you are willing to help him within your power. It's just that sometimes it seems that the other party might as well borrow money and take the initiative, which makes us a little embarrassed.

This situation is not only encountered by you, but also by many people. This situation not only exists between brothers and sisters, but also often happens between good friends.

In this case, it is necessary for the borrower to consider his tolerance in advance. Usually, when a person borrows money from others, he will ask his family and relatives first, then his classmates and friends with good relationships, and finally his friends with ordinary relationships. Then, when someone borrows money, first evaluate how close this person is to himself, and then evaluate how much he is willing to lend to TA. There is also a very important question to consider, that is, out of friendship, if the person who lent you money can't exchange it for you in the end, how much you can bear financially, so that you feel that you have taken care of your friendship and have not suffered too much economic loss. This is what is commonly called the boundary problem.

? Furthermore, when borrowing money, you may wish to make some agreements, such as specifying the amount and time of repayment. As for your question, you need to repay a loan before borrowing money. I reminded him myself, but I felt sick. I don't know if you think "I shouldn't remind him, it will affect the feelings between you and your brother". This question depends on how you understand it, which brings us back to this question-"How much can you bear for this relationship?" In this case, do you choose to take care of yourself or others, and do you care more about family ties or each other's words? ? ? Finally, try to express your ideas in a gentle way. It is better to make an agreement in advance than to talk about it afterwards. ?