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Babies like watching TV. How can parents reasonably guide? After all, watching too much is bad for your baby's development?
Sometimes the more parents guard against it, the more children want to watch it, and when they grow up, they will secretly watch it without your knowledge. This is the "forbidden fruit effect". In addition, many economists regard watching TV as a reward for their children. For example, if they eat seriously, they can watch an episode of cartoons, or if they do their homework well, they can watch more 15 minutes of TV. When watching TV is regarded as a reward, children may behave well at present, but the symptoms will not be cured. In the future, children may look more and more natural and get out of control.
Now, in addition to TV, mobile phone, tablet, including TV screens in shopping malls and so on. Everywhere. It is unrealistic to absolutely ban them in life. Parents should first deal with their cognitive attitude towards TV. Secondly, under the premise of good communication with children, you can guide them according to the following points:
Parents control TV content. The child is still young and can't tell the quality of the content. Parents can find some children's programs that are suitable for their children and helpful for their growth.
2. Make an appointment in advance before watching. Be sure to communicate with your child for a good time before watching, such as 15 minutes, twice a day. Parents can set an alarm clock with their mobile phones before each watch to remind their children that it's time. If the child shows that he still wants to see and cry, then parents should be firm and tell the child that we should keep our word.
3. Discuss the content with your children. Older children can basically exchange stories normally, or play pretend games with children to promote their cognitive development.
4. Replace TV in other ways. High-quality parent-child companionship has always been advocated, so parents can practice it in real life, such as parent-child reading, painting, doing handicrafts, or taking their children to participate in interesting outdoor activities on weekends to cultivate their children's good hobbies and gradually replace watching TV.
Hello, I'm Mi Ma's parenting biography, and I'm glad to answer your question!
Babies like watching TV. How can parents reasonably guide? -My practice is: parents should arrange their baby's time reasonably so that he has no time to watch TV!
The allure of electronic products is obvious to all: on the subway, in the canteen, on the road, at home, mobile phone parties are everywhere. When I took my children on the subway last year, I carefully observed the carriage where we were. There are only four people who don't watch electronic products: two old people, me and my son! We adults can't resist the temptation of electronic products. Why let a mentally retarded child do it?
Children love watching TV for two reasons: electronic products are too attractive and boring! Then we will arrange their time, attract their attention, and let electronic products take advantage! The baby is 3 years old and hardly watches electronic products. The following are his recent daily activities, for your reference:
Outdoor activity time: 1~2 hours
Picture book time: about 1 hour (2~3 times, before getting up, after lunch, before going to bed at night)
Language training: 1~2 hours (my family is a chatterbox now, most of the time: he keeps talking, I listen or guide him to continue talking)
Basketball and football time: 30~60 minutes
Building block time: 30~60 minutes
Hide and seek: about 30 minutes (usually at night)
Painting or doodling time: about 30 minutes.
Origami/paper cutting: about 30 minutes.
Free play: the time varies (it is estimated that the whole day adds up to 1~2 hours, and he can explore anything he wants, unless he comes to me for help, I won't interfere).
24 hours a day, minus about 12 hours of sleep, 2 hours of eating, snacks and fruits 1 hour, 30 minutes of brushing your teeth and washing your face in the morning, 30 minutes of bathing at night, and 1 hour of drinking water and urinating, the real remaining time is only 7 hours. According to the above items, the schedule is full.
To help children get rid of the habit of watching TV, parents must first achieve high-quality companionship. Although it is very tiring to have a parent-teacher conference, it is worthwhile to protect children and help them establish good habits, isn't it? My experience is that after parents insist on helping their children develop good habits for a period of time, the follow-up will be more worry-free, which can be described as "once and for all"!
Electronic products do great harm to children, which will affect their vision development, attention and memory. Before the age of 3, the child's retina was not fully developed. Experts advise that babies before the age of 3 should not touch electronic products. For other age groups, experts also gave a reference time: 3 to 6 years old, about 20 minutes each time; 6~ 12 years old, about 30 minutes each time.
The above answers, I hope to help you!
Hello! I want to know how old your child is. It's definitely not good for children to watch TV too much. Based on my own experience, I will give you some suggestions on how to guide children to watch TV reasonably:
1, watch TV at the appointed time.
It is necessary for children to make rules in advance. Once the time is up, the mother reminds the baby that it is time to turn off the TV. If the baby cries, the mother can simply comfort him afterwards and then calm him down.
Parents should set an example and watch less TV.
Some parents turn on the TV as soon as they get home and don't turn it off until they go to bed. But parents don't allow children to sit and watch TV. This will make children feel wronged.
3. Cultivate children's other interests
Children are easily addicted to TV because they can't find anything more interesting than watching TV. Therefore, parents should spend more time with their children and take them to do interesting and meaningful things.
4. Spend more time with your children
Because parents don't have time to accompany them, they sometimes throw their babies to TV, and TV has become his "good partner". Therefore, you should spend more time with your children.
I hope my answer is helpful to you.
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I'm "you in the grid" and I'm glad to answer your question. I'll just talk about how my family solved this problem, hoping to help you.
When my family was very young, I basically forbade her to watch TV. I heard that TV can solidify people's thinking. At that time, she was still very young and delirious, and she followed the adults. I bought many hands-on toys, such as puzzles, such as disassembling toys, or plasticine. Take out the same thing and play with her every time. Once she gets into the mood, she can play for a long time. Of course, I need your company in the early stage. Playing these games can exercise a child's concentration, so it's best not to disturb him while he is playing. Whenever she is tired of playing, I will play music to relax her. When the music starts, follow her and dance to the music. After a long time, she will dance to the music. This can not only exercise children's sense of music, exercise, but also relax and increase interest.
Time always flies, and the children are tired of staying at home. You can take them out for a walk. Usually go out for a long time, so you can play with other children outside. This will help children learn to get along with others and exercise their flexibility and agility. Children who often run around and play outside usually react quickly. You can go home and rest when you are tired of playing. You can choose to use your mobile phone and story machine to play stories for your children. My home is a little love speaker. My children basically listen to stories and sleep, which is very helpful for their reading and writing at school in the future. She is fascinated by reading now and writes a good composition. The teacher often says that the articles she wrote in grade two are comparable to those written in grade six. Of course, you can also give your child a big cardboard box to guide him to draw. You can draw some simple ones on it first. For example, a fruit tree, an apple falling on the ground, a hedgehog carrying an apple and so on. He can also tell stories while painting. He will find it very interesting and will follow the painting. You must say yes to everything he draws. As long as he is happy, he can draw whatever he wants. Don't influence him, let him draw by himself.
My TV has never been turned on. In the words I taught her, it is better to play by herself than to watch others play. It is really interesting to read a book, prepare props, design scenes and interpret the stories in the book alone. In fact, the most important thing is your company and persistence. My children, except weekends, watch movies together and seldom watch TV. I also encourage watching some good animated movies, and I will choose to watch them with my children. Make some French fries, buy a coke, or buy some snacks. You don't have to go to the cinema. Isn't it interesting to watch it together when you have time and mood?
The above is my experience. You can adjust the arrangement according to your own situation, I hope it will be useful to you.
Glad to answer this question!
Babies love watching TV, which should be the nature of every child! Especially after watching colorful animations and listening to cheerful music, it often makes children want to stop!
I think watching TV, as parents, should be treated rationally and guided reasonably, "should be sparse but not blocked"! My son is 4 years old this year. This is what our family does. ...
Communicate fully and agree to the rules 1. Limit TV watching time.
I think parents are most worried about watching TV for their babies-"affecting their eyesight" and "indulging in it"! So it is very necessary to watch TV to limit time!
After full and effective communication, our family agreed to watch TV (cartoons) for about 40 minutes! This time is basically the length of two cartoons, which can not only prevent the vision from being affected after watching for a long time, but also achieve the purpose of relaxing children!
At the same time, we will also limit the distance to watch TV. Children are specially equipped with anti-blue glasses at home. This set of rules has been implemented for nearly two years, and it is still running smoothly!
2. Cooperate with the reward and punishment system and plan the viewing time.
When the children grow up, we will cooperate with the reward and punishment system (more rewards and less punishment) to plan the time for watching TV. For example, after finishing toys, helping elders with housework and painting literacy homework, we will allow half an hour to watch on weekends as appropriate. Of course, on the contrary, the viewing time will be reduced accordingly.
In the process of growth and development, children will gradually establish their own cognitive concepts. Our parents need to actively guide them to establish a correct understanding, "why do you want to do it, why not do it", step by step, so as to have a positive impact on children.
3. Choose the right cartoon or TV program.
We will choose suitable cartoons that are helpful to children, such as Baby Bus and Wang Wang Team, which can not only relax our mood, but also gain some knowledge by watching cartoons. For example, Baby Bus's "Good Habit Formation" series tells children to "do their own thing", "don't talk to strangers" and "share toys with everyone", which will really have a positive impact on children's cognition.
Of course, for some violent cartoons or cartoons that really have no content, we will limit and avoid children watching them!
In fact, children like watching TV, on the other hand, it also shows that parents lack companionship, and children can only meet their own needs by watching TV. Therefore, if our parents want to better guide their children to watch TV correctly, they need more companionship and interaction, reduce the time their children watch TV, and bring happiness and knowledge to their children through some other ways!
1. Improve interest in learning
My son also likes watching TV! What he likes best is cars. He has watched the series Baby Bus Factory several times. At the same time, he likes to take it apart. So, we bought the first set of Lego toys on his third birthday. He was very happy, and then we slowly embarked on the Lego road! Lego bricks are everywhere in the house. Put them together, take them off, take them off and put them on. Sometimes, children will spend a long time on Lego, and the pursuit of TV will be much less! We also enrolled him in a Lego interest class, and now we have started an intermediate "mobile device" course!
2. Increase parent-child games
In fact, parent-child tours, parent-child exhibitions and parent-child activities are very popular now! We don't have to go abroad or go to Disney. We can choose aquarium, museum, botanical garden and other venues. You can also go to the countryside and parks to get close to nature; You can also exercise outdoors, fly kites and play football ... Our children's entertainment time doesn't have to be confined to home and watching TV. More outdoor activities and more parent-child play can give children more room for development!
Conclusion: Watching TV is something that every child will experience! It is true that children's eyesight and mind will be affected, but we also need to admit that some good TV programs and cartoons will help children's cognition! As parents, we should limit children's unrestrained watching and guide them to watch useful programs. At the same time, more importantly, we need to give our children more companionship and interaction, strive to develop hobbies and actively participate in parent-child interaction, so that their world will be rich and colorful!
I hope the above answers are helpful to you, thank you!
First of all, I'm glad to answer your question. I'm Tuan Tuan. Now most babies like watching TV and playing mobile phones. After all, there are more and more electronic products now, but it is not only bad for children to watch more, but also bad for their growth. Let me talk about my personal experience.
1. Parents can criticize their children for watching too much TV. Psychology believes that it is extremely important to give children proper praise and criticism. Praise can enhance children's ability to distinguish right from wrong, improve their self-confidence, and criticism can properly correct children's mistakes, thus correcting them. But parents must master the method of criticism, and can't solve the problem by beating and cursing. Parents should communicate with their children more and provide them with opportunities to contact and talk with others.
It is unwise and impossible to completely ban children from watching TV. The best way is for parents and children to watch TV together and use this opportunity to communicate with their children. This not only improves the children's appreciation ability, but also enhances the feelings between the two generations. At the same time, it also provides children with opportunities to communicate with others and exercises their language skills. Of course, parents can't have so much time to watch TV with their children, but I think as long as you can spare some time to watch TV with your children from time to time, you will definitely get better results.
3. Use the time before going to bed to chat with children, especially to chat with children about TV programs. Children with TV autism almost always focus on TV, which is the main opportunity for parents to open the children's "talking gate". Parents can make use of their children's love of TV programs to talk to their children, so as to prevent their children from watching too much TV from affecting their language development and from suffering from diseases such as soliloquy and monotonous language. At the same time, this practice can also make children willing to tell their parents what they think, so that parents can know their children in time and guide them.
4. Some parents turn on the TV because they are afraid of their children crying, so as to divert their children's attention and push them to the TV for "guardianship", which makes the emotional distance between the two generations appear, which is irresponsible to the children. Therefore, I hope parents can take time out to spend more time with their children, play games, walk, visit parks and read books, and provide them with a broad space for activities, so that they can understand that there are many interesting things in the world besides TV.
As the saying goes, "fish begins to stink at the head", if parents are addicted to TV and mobile phones every day, it is hard to imagine that children can withstand the temptation. Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds will affect their children's growth. Therefore, when parents discipline their children, they must first "discipline" themselves.
Well, the above are some of my views, I hope it will help.
Everyone has a nanny, and this nanny is called TV. Mothers do housework, go to the toilet and want to brush their mobile phones, so they will give their children to the TV nanny. Over time, TV attracts children's attention like a magnet. Under the "care" of the TV nanny, children will become good, not annoying and not pestering. Does this style seem to be harmonious? As a result, many mothers turn on the TV early in the morning and turn it off at night, leaving their children to soak in front of the TV all day and become small TV slaves. How can children really benefit from watching TV?
What are the disadvantages of watching more TV?
1, visually impaired children often keep the same posture for a long time while watching TV. If they watch TV for too long, their eyesight will be tired. Some children will get close to the TV in order to see more clearly, and sometimes they will tilt their heads involuntarily. After a long time, it will form strabismus. Children's visual adjustment function is not fully developed, and it is difficult to adjust and adapt to the direct stimulation of strong light. When watching TV, children especially like to watch programs with frequent flashing screens and strong color stimulation, which will be detrimental to their vision development in the long run.
2. Limiting children's experience For children's growth, play is extremely important. In play, children can gain experience, exert their amazing strength and enhance their interpersonal and communication skills. Watching TV is a passive acceptance process. Children often watch TV, which will reduce their activities, reduce their coordination ability, and be lazy to think and explore, laying a hidden danger for their inability to concentrate in future study.
It is precious for everyone to waste children's time, and it is the same for children. Although children are young, they have their own growth tasks every year and every month. Often watching TV will disturb children's cognitive ability, thinking ability, language communication ability and physical development, so that children lack initiative in the process of growing up and lag behind their peers in all aspects of development.
How can children watch TV correctly?
1. Controlling the time children watch TV There is no clear limit to how old they are to watch TV. The key is to control the time. Mothers can make an appointment with their babies to watch TV in advance, and the time to watch TV before the age of 2 should be controlled within 15 minutes. Older children can relax a little, but it is best not to exceed half an hour at a time and not more than three hours a day.
2, choose the right program for young babies to watch TV, parents had better choose children's programs with slow screen conversion for their children. For example, some high-quality cartoons and educational films, the picture changes slowly, and each story is very short. Slowly changing pictures and short stories are easy for children to absorb knowledge and will not have much impact on their eyesight.
3, like watching movies, watching TV and watching mom and dad will have this experience. When we choose movies, we always take a critical look, hoping that movies can bring us different experiences and what we can learn from them. When we turn on the TV, the requirements for TV programs are not so harsh, and we can even watch advertisements for half a day, which is time-consuming and not good for parents and children. If parents can choose TV programs for their children like movies, it will certainly bring great benefits to their children's growth.
4. Discuss the content of TV with children. If parents have time, they can watch children's programs with their children and turn the programs into an intermediary for interaction between children and parents. For example, when children are watching the animal world, parents can say the names of animals with their children and imitate the sounds of animals, so watching TV together can change the negativity of children watching programs alone, encourage children to think positively and interact with parents.
5. Connect the program with reading. Humans learn knowledge by reading before watching TV. Reading is also one of the best ways for children to acquire knowledge. Nowadays, children's programs, such as Little Pink Pig, Thomas and Qiao Hu, all have supporting books. Mom and dad can buy books and picture books related to TV programs. After watching the program, children are familiar with these characters and pictures, and then show them the corresponding books, which will make them feel very kind and interested. This can cultivate children's interest in reading from an early age.
From their own practice, I found that many adults actually let their children watch TV there in order to do other things for themselves. Children love to play, and everyone likes adults to play with them. No matter what you play with him, he will be happy. Therefore, if you accompany your child, the child will definitely not think about watching TV.
This is the root cause!
In fact, there are many games to play with children, or you can buy some helpful and interesting educational toys to attract children.
In this way, children will have a good time. You can watch my video. My son has been playing with this toy for four years, and now my daughter can play for four years. Do you think it's worth it? Hahaha!
First, parents need to know when their baby can watch TV.
Parenting experts advise that children under two years old should not watch TV. Some experts also suggest that children under three should not watch TV more than twice a week. No more than 15 minutes at a time. Parents must pay attention to choosing appropriate content when watching TV for their children. The voice should not be too loud, and children should not be allowed to watch those frightened TVs.
When parents guide their children to watch TV, they should communicate with them by words and actions as much as possible, instead of using TV to seduce them. Never use TV as an artifact to coax children, and let them watch TV when crying.
It is found that children watch too much TV, so parents should give them appropriate criticism to enhance their ability to distinguish right from wrong. Of course, it is impossible to completely ban children from watching TV. The best way is to let children watch TV with their parents, and use this opportunity to communicate with children properly to exercise their language skills.
Parents must control the time their children watch TV to prevent their children from getting TV autism because they are obsessed with TV. Parents should take advantage of their children's love for TV, develop their children's language level by exchanging TV programs with them, and try to avoid the habit of talking to themselves and monotonous language.
Parents should first set an example and watch TV as little as possible, because parents are the first teachers of their children, and their words and deeds will affect their children's behavior, so they should control themselves when disciplining their children.
Watching TV is an unavoidable topic in children's education. Research by the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that watching TV is not conducive to the growth of children under two years old. So how should parents intervene correctly?
1. Parents are advised to help their children develop the habit of reading. In infancy, parents can often tell stories to their children, make them curious about books, and also create scenes in stories for them, so that they can be there and exercise their imagination in the real world.
Parents are advised to take time out of their busy schedules to interact with their children. Parents can do housework with their children and participate in various activities together, so that children can find real fun in real interaction, cultivate attention and imagination, improve the intimacy between parents and children, and gradually reduce the time of watching TV programs.
3. Parents are advised to arrange their children's TV watching time reasonably. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that children before the age of 2 should try not to watch TV, and children over the age of 2 should not watch TV for more than 2 hours a day. Parents are advised to make a timetable to specify the specific time for their children to watch TV, and turn off the TV as soon as it is time. At the same time, parents should stay away from TV in daily life and set an example for their children.
4. Parents are advised to help their children choose good TV content. For example, children like cartoons very much, and children of different ages are suitable for different types of cartoons. As children grow up, many cartoons are not suitable for children's intellectual development stage. Therefore, parents need to screen the cartoons their children watch.
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