Say "I'm here" to the person around you who always says "it's okay"

I don’t know which sentence you think makes you feel the most secure? I think it's probably the people around you who say to you, "I'm here, don't worry."

This kind of people will always say to us, "It's okay, I'm here, don't worry..." However, we But they ignore that the other person is a mortal body like us, and they also want the people around them to say "I am here" to them.

Say "I'm here" to the person around you who always tells you "it's okay", and learn to consider the other person's feelings and give back to them. You will find that even saying a simple "I'm here" to the other person will work.

I remember that what my parents said the most when I was a child was, "It's okay, just study hard and don't think about anything else." You are healthy and happy..."

They are like people who have nothing to do. No matter how big things happen, they are always the first to take care of them. We rarely hear their complaints. It’s not until we grow up that we discover: they just hide their fragile side secretly. The older we grow, the more we discover their true face, from initial disappointment to understanding and then to treating them with a normal heart.

Yes, we are all human beings, no one has to be stronger than anyone else, and no one is perfect. Everyone has their own vulnerabilities and unknown secrets. We can't force others to say things they don't want to say, but we can give back to them and say "I'm here" to them.

A very simple sentence, but actually a very powerful sentence.

My acquaintance, Sister Wang, told me that she always told her "it's okay" when something happened to her husband. Since the outbreak of the epidemic, business has not been very good. Her husband would comfort her and say to her, "It's okay, just take your time."

As a result, I accidentally saw her husband chatting with his good friend. He revealed that he was under great pressure and didn’t want to live anymore. This frightened her. She couldn't imagine that her husband, who always acted like nothing was wrong, would have thoughts of not wanting to live. At the same time, I also felt very guilty for ignoring my husband's feelings.

So, she found a suitable time to talk to her husband about what was on her mind. She said to her husband, "Are you under a lot of stress lately? Don't worry, I'm here! If the business isn't good, I'll stop doing it. Your body and health are what I care about most. My children and I can't live without you..." ”

As a result, her husband hugged her and cried like a child and told her inner suffering. Afterwards, Sister Wang said that after this incident, she realized how important it is to consider the other person's feelings, especially the people around her who are most easily ignored.

Say "Don't worry, I'm here" to the "nothing person" around you who always says "nothing" to you. Let the other person feel your care and concern. You will find that he/she is very care!

It doesn’t matter if others don’t care, but we need to let the people we care about know: we care about him/her very much.

The undeniable fact is that we are friendly to outsiders for the sake of our own image, but tend to ignore the people around us. Maybe we are too confident, always feeling that we are related by blood and can do whatever we want; maybe we are used to this relationship model, and we always accept others' kindness to us with peace of mind.

As everyone knows, everyone is a human being, and they all have their own worries and concerns, and they also need to be recognized, understood, and cared for.

Care about the people around you, and say "Don't worry, I'm here!" to the people around you who always say "It's okay" to you:

"I'm here" It’s a simple statement, but it holds a lot of power. Please don't hesitate to say this to the people you care about.

It doesn’t matter if you haven’t received “It’s okay” and “I’m here” from people around you. We can first say “I’m here” to the people around us. I believe that one day we will Give back the sentence "I'm here"!

Concrete practical actions are important, as is caring about the other person's words. It’s not that everyone should be a big talker, but learning to consider each other’s feelings and giving feedback to express one’s own feelings is also indispensable in running a relationship.

Saying a word will not make you lose a piece of meat or a penny, so you might as well say "I am here" to the people around you!