These games between men and women satisfy both sides.

In China, there is an old saying called "seven-year itch", which means that once a man and a woman have been dating for seven years, they will be tired for a period of time. At this time, you need some "small games" to adjust the relationship between the two sides. How to do it specifically? Let's study together.

The best "game" should meet people's four needs of touch, smell, sight and hearing. Every need can make a woman enter a different stage.

Touch is the most important thing to satisfy the sense of touch, and it is not necessarily "straight to the point". Stimulating sensitive parts can be caressed more gently, such as wiping each other's back in the shower and gently massaging his (her) tired shoulders.

the sense of smell uses the aphrodisiac effect of fragrance or body odor. Like Marilyn Monroe, you can only wear "chanel no.5" perfume when you sleep, or you can deliberately highlight your sweaty body odor and let your own smell surround each other.

visual satisfaction, including two people watching a favorite movie together, preferably with some "restricted" scenes; Or put on a sexy dress to perfectly set off the figure curve.

Listening is the most important of these four requirements, that is, language teasing. Say a few sweet words on your pillow, praise your partner's strong or slim body curve, or tell two small jokes, which can effectively mobilize your body's reaction and stimulate your partner's feelings faster.

Generally speaking, foreplay brewing between husband and wife does not have to be expressed by passionate actions. As long as both husband and wife have a good grasp of their own language to impress each other, it will make your life unique.

Skills of warming up the relationship between husband and wife

What is a husband and wife? Love, quarrel, endure for a lifetime. This is husband and wife.

what is home? The family is run by husband and wife, weaving dreams and sweet and sour nests.

home is not a simple concept. Sociologists say that home is the smallest cell of society. Marriage experts say that home is a world where two people depend on each other. According to the writer, there are a group of pigs under Bao Gai. What exactly is home? Many people think it is a problem that is not worth thinking about. Let's listen to a story first. A rich man was drunk outside his villa. His security guard picked him up and said, "Teacher, let me help you go home!" " The rich man asked the security guard, "Home? Where is my home? Can you help me go home? " . The security guard pointed to the nearby villa and said, "Isn't that your home?" The rich man pointed to his heart and pointed to the luxury villa not far away. He answered seriously and intermittently, "that's not my home, that's just my home."

not a house, not a color TV, not a refrigerator, not a space where materials are piled up. Of course, material richness can bring us a sense of pleasure, but this feeling is fleeting. Imagine that in that space, if it is full of violence and cold war, and strange strange bedfellows is separated from each other, "home" is not its home. Become a battlefield of battle. Cars are just an ornament of tragedy in this modern battlefield. No wonder some rich people laugh at themselves and say, "I'm so poor that I have only money left!" "

families need caring relatives. Need that kind of special real feeling, two people who care about each other are home, and home has risen to a belief, a religion and a spiritual pillar here.

is the aggregation of family ties. Let's look at all the homes in the world. They all gathered for love, but left without love.

Home is the harbor of feelings, the cradle of growth, the habitat of the soul, the place where you can indulge yourself most, and the spiritual paradise. Home is all the feelings you have with your family. When you own it, it is as common as rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. When you lose it, you can never get it back.

without family harmony, there will be no social harmony. Without family harmony, there will be no peace and order of the whole society, and everything at home will prosper.

how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife is the most critical issue in the family. As the saying goes, "after a hundred years of cultivation, you can be in the same boat, and after a thousand years, you can be a pillow." Husband and wife are two hemispheres. "Half of the ball can't roll, but there must be the other half." So how can couples get along to make the family harmonious? Husband and wife should understand, trust, respect and tolerate each other. Just like holding a handful of sand loosely, it won't leak at all. The tighter you hold it, the more it leaks.

home is a culture; Home is a period of time; Home is a feeling. Husband and wife are like two legs. To stand firm and walk, no one can live without anyone. Why does one leg always complain about the other? Some couples say that they have been married for decades, and there are no contradictions or differences. It can be asserted that at least one of them is irresponsible to the family and doesn't care about each other at all. Marriage is a comfortable worry. Family is not a place to reason, and the way of husband and wife is "hard to be confused." If two people don't want to be confused, this family will never be at peace. Tolstoy said, "All happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way".

The best marriage agreement is not equal to the best marital status. Love will never happen without looking up to men and appreciating women. Marriage will never be lingering. Love lies in "infatuation", excessive sobriety, calculation and comparison. This is not love. A happy marriage, love and conscience are everything. Marriage is pure selfishness, and love is sacred greed. Once you are no longer selfish, it means that you are no longer important to her.

Marriage is like making tea. The first sip of tea is like love, thick and fragrant. The second tea is like a newlywed, fresh and pleasant; Three teas are like a marriage that has just passed a secret month or a secret year. It is as plain as water, and we need to taste it with a normal heart to appreciate its true interest.

Qian Zhongshu said, "Home is a golden lacquer birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in and the birds inside the cage want to fly out. "

nowadays, divorce is a "disease of the rich". The poor want security, while the rich want change. Marriage without love is unstable, and marriage with love is also unstable. Time and distance can heat and cool love. The worst woman wants to find an excellent man, and the worst man wants to find an excellent woman, so marriage is an eternal regret.

serious marriage, hasty divorce, serious hasty remarriage, marriage is necessary, divorce is forced, remarriage needs to be forced, marriage is happy, divorce is happy, remarriage is just right, after several twists and turns, I found that opponents in the world are generally fierce.

men are philosophy, and women are poetry. Philosophy without poetry is boring, and poetry without philosophy is superficial. Philosophy is perceptual and poetic. If a person wants to understand poetry, he must first understand his own philosophy. To understand philosophy, a woman must first understand her own poems. Profound philosophy, only poetry with appropriate charm can arouse the sound of * * *, so the best is not necessarily suitable for you, and what suits you is the best.

It is said that wives are good people. In fact, as we all know, the wife loves a person, fake wine is mixed with water, water or wine, and the husband loves a person. There is only a happy beginning, but no happy ending. There are too many good men and too many good women. Compared with husbands, it is very dangerous.

It's no less incompetent than a husband to see dignitaries who don't keep up with the joneses. Seeing that they are beautiful, coquettish and have no evil thoughts, they speak highly of the love between husband and wife. Women's weakness is an illusion, but they cannot be bullied. Some men who want to subdue women are not subdued by women. Women are not weak, women are the source of male strength. That man's toughness does not come from the encouragement of loving women and the love of women. There are no fewer men than women.

Lin Yutang said, "Women are water, wine in wine and vinegar in vinegar". The value of a woman depends on her man.

don't say that women can't live without men. Men need women more. A man without a woman can't live, and a woman without a man can still live. Men are water, women are dams, and there is no water that doesn't want to burst its banks. Man is a volcano of desire. Although the appearance is calm, the fire is burning. Once a volcano erupts, it is a scourge.

men express love through sex, while women understand love through sex. Sexual harmony is fertile ground for husband and wife harmony. Poverty does not mean that there is no warm home. A good husband cherishes his wife's tenderness and sympathizes with the hardships of the weak, because he only cares about control and does not know how to love, so he is not a good husband.

A virtuous wife is a family's most valuable asset. A virtuous woman is wise first, then virtuous. Stupid women suffer from virtue. A wise woman paints her husband's face with gold, while a foolish woman paints her husband's face with gold. It is the deepest tragedy of the family that a wife despises her husband.

The process of wife's care must be nagging, which is an outlet for her happiness. Don't interrupt the happy melody in her heart. A wife's coquetry is a gift of love. A woman who gives her gentleness to her husband and despises her husband will not be spoiled in front of her husband. What man is not afraid of his wife? "Fear" is humility and proof of love.

The ideal relationship between husband and wife is intimacy with appropriate alienation, and keeping some secrets in honesty, that is, two kinds of feelings, one person's world.

If a couple can regard each other as their best friends, they will hold each other's hands tightly.

Perhaps the most important thing in loving a person is not vows of eternal love and sweet words. Some trifles in life can better reflect his affection for you. That's the password for love.

the secret of getting along with the person you love for a long time is to give up the idea of changing partners. For the continuation of love and the happiness of marriage, the wife must please her husband, and the husband must also please his wife. As for how to please, it is a high-level art, and you can't be proud, greedy, happy or complacent.

trust is the most important trait that two people have in marriage, and it is also indispensable to establish a happy and growing relationship. Married people live with half an eye open and half an eye closed. There are no perfect men and women in the world. If you keep your eyes open for too long, or look in the magic mirror for too long, I'm afraid even God can find fault. The most precious thing in husband and wife's life is sincerity, trust and consideration. In a happy marriage, everyone should respect each other's hobbies. It is the most absurd idea to think that two people can have the same thoughts, the same judgments and the same desires. In a harmonious family, at least one of every couple is a fool. Just like a couple on the same string, they vibrate harmoniously in the same melody, but they are all independent of each other.

A well-matched couple can withstand all possible disasters. When they live in poverty together, they are much happier than a couple who own world property but are separated from Germany.

The quarrel between young couples is a love dispute, while the quarrel between old couples is disheartened.

if the wife is unfaithful, the husband is half responsible. If the husband is unfaithful, the wife is also half responsible. If the other party is forced to flee, the responsibility is even greater. A qualified wife should make her husband a creator of social wealth through her own efforts.

In real life, a good man does not necessarily marry a good woman, and a good woman does not necessarily marry a good man, and a good woman and a good man are not necessarily happy together. There are thousands of people, and there are various situations in the world. Everyone's personality, taste and cultivation are different, and couples get along in different ways. A hundred couples have a hundred ways to get along. Marriage is like a banquet. Love is the staple food. Tolerance, understanding, trust and respect are all dishes. Appreciation, humor and interest are wine and drinks. Only a banquet with the above varieties can be regarded as a perfect banquet. I hope everyone can be comfortable and calm at the wedding banquet and eat the last breath forever.

Conclusion: Husband and wife need mutual understanding and support. I have been secretly asking questions over and over again, only then do I know that it is true that ordinary people take their time. The warming of feelings requires all efforts of both sides. Here, I also hope that everyone can unite together forever and grow old together.