People who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives will eventually live happily?

What is the definition of happiness? Different people have different definitions of happiness.

Some people think that it is worthwhile to make money and spend it yourself, eat and enjoy the present; Some people have no worries about food and clothing, and they are miserable all their lives, just to raise children and provide for the elderly. They think it is worthwhile to be thrifty for family and relatives. Others don't want to eat and wear warm clothes themselves, and save money to help others. It seems difficult for us outsiders to understand, but for them, spiritual enjoyment is greater than material enjoyment, and they are also willing to help others.

Let's take an example to see if those who can't bear to eat and wear all their lives will be happy in the end.

Example 1: This is an old man. At the age of 74, he earned 350,000 RMB by riding a tricycle and donated more than 300 poor students. His name is Bai. At the age of 93, he quietly left. He is very critical of himself. He is really unwilling to eat or drink. He hasn't bought clothes for many years. His selfless help to the students touched everyone. There is no doubt that he is a noble man, and he doesn't care about material comforts out of low taste. He knows how to help others. He left a precious spiritual wealth, and we have reason to believe that his old man is happy.

Example 2: This is an ordinary housewife. She lives frugally and is especially hard on herself. Everything in her family is carefully calculated, and she has only bought a handful of clothes in her life. Because I gave birth to four children, I didn't pay less fines that year, but I saved money and brought up all four children. So far, her children are not sure what their mother likes to eat and wear best, because she has never asked for food, drink or clothes in her life. Now, her four children are married, and life is getting better and better. In her words, "life is sweeter than honey now."

Ex 3: He is an ordinary father. He is honest and has no great ability. He has never made much money in his life. Things at home are broken, and he always takes them out to mend them before using them. In the past, chickens were raised at home and eggs were sold. He never eats an egg except his wife and children. He said he didn't like eggs. This will save the land. Decades later, he changed his old house into a two-story building. The year before last, his youngest son wanted to buy a house in a big city. He magically withdrew the deposit of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan. Although it was less than a quarter of the down payment, it surprised my son. Now that I am old, I am still used to demanding myself on food and clothing. In his words, I just can't change it, and I always feel that I can't make things worse. Later, his son gave him a new term-"low-carbon life".

Things like the above that demand a lot from themselves in life mostly happen to the older generation. They have experienced difficult times, they know the value of material things, and they are selfless. It is precisely because of the diligence and thrift of their generation that we have laid the foundation for our development today. Small families and big cities are inseparable from the efforts of their generation.

Back to the question, as long as they are hard on themselves for the sake of family and relatives or helping others, their endings are mostly happy, because the purpose of their thrift is dedication.

As the younger generation, we should know how to be grateful and let them live a happy life.

I think on the contrary, people who are reluctant to eat, wear and drink all their lives are not necessarily happy, but are more likely to suffer. Give two examples around you.

One is the father of the old secretary of our village. This old father is famous in the village, and he is also very capable. When the weather is good, he works in the fields, and when it is rainy, he goes out to collect cow dung, so he can be idle for 365 days a year. There used to be two sons and a daughter who were very tired. Later, the children got married one after another, and they all lived well. He still lived a tight life. The whole village advised him not to do that.

The old man is very capable and has never saved money for his children, but his sons and daughters-in-law don't think so. They don't know how much money the old man has saved. The boss suspected it was given to the second child, and the second child suspected it was given to the boss. In short, they suspect each other. In the end, they didn't support the elderly. After his wife died, no one cooked. Old people often eat the last meal without the next meal, and finally die of pain.

There is another one, the old couple are also very capable and live frugally. They can only go in and not out. They are not willing to eat anything good at ordinary times, but they are used to their sons. Later, when my son was tired as a soldier, he ran home, his work was abnormal, and he owed money everywhere. The old couple were charged every day. The old couple tossed and turned, one scared out of a cerebral infarction and the other committed suicide by jumping into a well. I made a fortune in my life, and my disappointing son brought me disaster.

There is a saying in our hometown that "someone spends money, and if you don't spend it, someone always spends it for you". Sometimes it makes sense to look at reality. Those who work hard all their lives rarely come to a good end.

When I was young, the unit leader was an old revolution, and my salary was three times that of me. The wife has no job and the son goes to school. Accustomed to frugality, I can't bear to wear it or eat it. I keep them all. My wife's chickens are reluctant to eat their eggs, and they are all sold out. Later, he got sick and wanted to eat chicken. My wife got into the henhouse, tied this egg with that one, and couldn't bear to kill it. Finally, I picked an old chicken and killed it. It's a pity that I ate and only took a few mouthfuls of soup. He died in a few days. My wife wailed: You don't eat or drink all your life, and finally you don't even eat chicken. I'm sorry to hear the news. Finally, the unit bought a lot of clothes, from the inside out, a full set of new clothes. My wife smiled. From then on, if conditions permit, you should have food and clothing. It's not too late to regret when you die In a blink of an eye, more than forty years have passed and the days are getting better and better. In retrospect, I won't regret it.

Can people who are reluctant to eat and drink all their lives finally live happily?

People don't know, just say I know four people:

Before my aunt died, she kept talking about her mother-in-law. Before liberation, her family was a well-off peasant household. Fiona Fang is a tenant several miles from her home in Fiona Fang. The rent collected every year is available in small warehouses in big warehouse. According to the conditions, their family's life should be good. But ... her parents-in-law are misers, and they are reluctant to eat or drink. Sell grain to buy fertile land. A family eats a fixed amount of food, and no one has enough to eat. Every year during the Spring Festival, several white-flour steamed buns will be steamed, and one will be given to everyone on the first day of the first month. Miscellaneous steamed bread can't be eaten casually

At that time, there was no big salt, only autonomous bitter salt. There is no food for every meal, only bitter salt and a little cottonseed oil. The old couple's long-term food is home-made soy beans. Use a small dish to hold a spoonful, and when eating, use chopsticks to pick up soybeans and nod. A little soybean can last for several days. She has four sons, who can eat tofu and bean sprouts in busy farming season, and the daughters-in-law can eat soup. Don't even think about it in the off-season. What's more, you are not allowed to light a lamp at night for fear that the oil will boil. Children and wives can only spin cotton by touch. If anyone dares to light a lamp, she will even beat and scold and say that she can't live. If you are ill, you can't see a doctor. You just have to work hard. It's good to get better, even if you die. Later, the old couple died of illness and starved to death, and did not enjoy the happiness of the day.

Besides, my grandparents led my father and uncles to farm the land for the landlord for a living, and they had to eat and drink all their lives. Of course, they should not be fat but should be mixed with meat and vegetables. Unless they are a little tired, they never suffer in life. They all lived to be 95 years old, much happier than those two thrifty people. My wet nurse always said: I want the donkey to pull the condom and feed the grass. A good horse won't run without food. Those who learn from it, thrift is not necessarily happy.

People! Life will not bring death! Eat what you should eat, drink what you should drink and wear what you should wear. There is a real person around, which can also be said to be a story. The story has to start from 12 years ago. This man is my uncle. He is honest. He is not willing to spend money or eat. Maybe it's because he thinks it's not easy to make money. He has worked hard all his life and won't spend money to see a doctor even if he is sick. Why on earth is he frugal? Is money more important than life? My uncle has been stuck in his throat for more than ten years because he ate a little bone. None of us knew at that time, and he didn't tell all of us that he had been sleeping in bed. He always thought it was a trivial matter and didn't need to see a doctor. In fact, he is afraid of spending money. Later, he found that he had a fever and couldn't stand it, so he told us the truth. At that time, I was sent to the hospital immediately and got tetanus. He stayed in the hospital for nine days, exhausted and even died. After his death, he got all the answers, but left me a 6-year-old child. From that moment on, he let me know what real life is, alas. ...

I am a person who has never eaten or drunk all my life and lived a happy life.

Why can't you bear to eat or drink? Because of my ability and personality, my salary has always been at the grass-roots level, but I have always relied on the expenses of middle-income people (social expenses other than eating, drinking, and personal contacts).

For example, my brother's monthly income is N million, my monthly salary is several thousand, and my mother is in her nineties. Every brother pays her 5000 yuan for the aged every year, and I also struggle to pay 5000 yuan for the aged. In this way, I have to make a fuss about my mouth, set up checkpoints, eat less and drink less, and save money for the following sub-projects.

My unit has a staff canteen, which is welfare, buffet-style, and the dishes are self-help, and then the money is calculated by weight. All meat and vegetarian dishes are at the same price. Meal is not money, just eat it. Also, soup is free, and the ingredients are different every day, including egg soup, tofu soup and fish head soup.

People who can calculate should try to eat chicken, duck and fish in the canteen at noon, eat less vegetables, and eat more vegetables when they get home from work.

When cooking soup, repeatedly scoop up the dry goods at the bottom of the soup bucket, or hold a bowl of eggs or a bowl of tofu, but it doesn't have to cost money.

Usually eat three dishes and two meats, and each meal is about 15 yuan. I ate well and was full. I don't drink soup and control salt. If you buy the same quantity and variety of food in a restaurant outside, you have to pay 30 yuan at least.

The food in the canteen is different every day. I enjoy it and feel that I am living a fairy-like life. Because eating in the canteen at noon is my main meal. For dinner, I don't light the fire, but cook with a gas stove. A person cooks a person's rice with a rice cooker, and steamed some radish, lettuce, taro and sausage on the steaming layer, which is a dinner. Of course, steamed vegetables are often changed. Sometimes steamed salted fish with pumpkin slices, sometimes steamed salted duck with carrots and so on. My wife works in a fast food restaurant. She eats in a restaurant.

Some of my colleagues, whose income is higher than mine and family conditions are better than mine, have lunch with me at the same table every day. They all envy me for my good appetite, because every meal is easy. I ate all the dishes with relish, but just like taking medicine, they forced themselves to eat vegetables, and then at least one third of them were dumped into the trash can in the kitchen.

Once I visited Boxma Xiansheng Supermarket, I saw a lobster cost more than RMB 100, and a kind of seafood whose name I can't remember was actually sold from 500 yuan to 600 yuan for a catty. I can't bear to eat, let alone drink those thousands of bottles of national wine and foreign wine.

You know, because I couldn't bear to eat or drink, I saved up to buy a two-bedroom apartment in downtown Wuhan. I bought it for 300,000 yuan more than ten years ago, and now the market value is two or three million. And with this house, after breaking up with my ex-wife, I married a wife who was born and raised in Wuhan and was much younger than me, and worked as a shop assistant. You said I was unhappy?

Simply enjoy the blessing of Qi people (praised by a netizen)!

Seeing this topic, I immediately thought of my in-laws. Typical miser. When I married his son, I only thought about honest and capable cultivators, and there was no shortage of food at home. We work in a small county, starting from scratch. I hope they can always subsidize noodles, oil and so on, and get angry at the thought. Give me 5 Jin of oil and give you 10 Jin of noodles. I feel bad, too. Seeing my son go home and want this little thing, he can send the delicious food home quickly. I used to fight when I was young. Don't give up eating and wearing. My father-in-law has cancer. I took him to the doctor's office, but some girls refused to let him go for fear of scaring his girl. He died three months later. Did not enjoy any happiness. Now I think my mother-in-law will be relaxed, that's all. Go back to your hometown, eat whatever you bring, and never buy anything for your children from the supermarket. I don't even buy melon seeds when I go home for the New Year, so I just wait for us to buy them at home. What a nice person. Live well now, or die like this. I don't like it at all. I only go back on holidays. Really not on the same channel.

To tell the truth, neither my husband nor I were born in a rich family. My husband's family is worse than mine. I am the only girl in my family, and my parents are similar. After we got married, my husband was reluctant to eat flowers for the first few years, and gradually he experienced more things, especially in 20 18, when my friend's father died suddenly and his friend died suddenly. He seems more relaxed. I am a person who pays more attention to enjoyment. For family reasons, parents are more relaxed. I have never been poor since I was a child. My parents bought me a house when I got married. I prefer to eat, and I can wear clothes without brands. I feel that money is for people. I can't bear to eat or drink hard-earned money. I can't blame myself in case of misfortune.

I am a farmer, living in a remote and poor mountainous area, and my family's economic conditions are not very good. My eldest son goes to college, and my youngest son goes to senior three. I can't afford for my two sons to finish college, and I haven't been out of the county for nearly six months. So after listening to many people's questions and answers, my wife and I went out to work, so we scrimped and saved, and it took six years for our two sons to finish college. I bought a house for my eldest son last year and got married. The daughter-in-law is a teacher. Although I haven't been home for the Spring Festival for seven years, I think it's worthwhile for me to scrimp and save. Although I am 54 years old and still trying to earn money, I think that as long as the children are born better, it is the greatest happiness for parents!

This kind of person is commonly known as "stingy". Both ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign.

Some people are stingy, which is a habit formed by long-term poverty and has to be so. And some people are in our nature, who are conscious in their bones.

People who are stingy because they are poor will naturally get rid of the habit of being stingy once they have money.

And people who are stingy in their bones, no matter whether they have money or not, are stingy to death.

I heard a story when I was a child. In the old society, there was a rich man who wandered around the fields every day. No matter how far you go, you should go back to your own field to solve the problem. If you can eat at home, you can save. The family had to secretly eat jiaozi to see how he came to Zhuangkou and sprinkled a bowl of mung beans in front of his house. Because, after he picked up mung beans, his jiaozi finished eating. Later, when he was dying, he suddenly stretched out a finger, but he didn't die. The family doesn't know what it means, only his eldest daughter-in-law does. He blew out one of the two lights on in the room. The local rich man swallowed his breath and died.

Later, I read foreign novels "Eugénie Grandet" and "Old Man", and the same is true. Explain that stingy, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign.

For such people, meanness itself is happiness. (*^o^*)