The first time I go to my boyfriend's house, should I help his mother cook?

What? Help his mother cook! Why help his mother cook? The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, I was not familiar with the environment and his home, and I didn't know what rules they had for cooking. Besides, going to his house is a guest, not a host. Why? With his wife in the future? I'm not married. Anything could happen.

Should I help his mother cook? I think it depends. After all, it's my first time to go. I don't think I should show off and pretend to be a good wife. Not his wife. What's more, even if I do, my mother may not appreciate it, but it will help.

First of all, we girls should know that the first time we go, it's the guest, not his home, and we don't have any burden. When his mother wants to cook, she can ask her if she needs help. This is out of courtesy as a guest. If the future mother-in-law is a sensible woman, she won't let the girl who went to his house for the first time do housework. Her mother should say, son, where to take people to play and get familiar with the surrounding environment.

? I also had the first experience of going to my boyfriend's house. At that time, I just came back from Zhejiang and got caught in a rain. My clothes are soaked through. When I first arrived at his house, I was a little flustered and nervous. As soon as I entered the door, my boyfriend said who this was, so I called my parents. His mother told me to take a bath. After I came out, we watched TV together. Language is unreasonable. Cantonese people speak Cantonese, but I don't know what to say.

? Soon his mother went to cook, and her boyfriend asked me for help. I went to the kitchen to ask, and his mother said, "No, it's hard to go back. Come here once in a blue moon. Let's watch TV. " After all, I can't cook. Can I go or not? I was a little embarrassed, so I changed the subject and said to myself, I'm going to the bathroom first. Haha, girls can learn from me.

? When I was eating, I carefully found that his way of picking vegetables and cooking was different from mine. For example, vegetables are fried directly in my house and then boiled in water. For example, my cabbage is made of leaves, and his family only needs leaves.

On the other hand, I don't think we should cook. As we all know, a person's good is hard to be remembered by others, but a person's bad is suddenly remembered. For the first time, if a girl behaves too diligently, she will get married later and be lazy, and will always be told by her parents. I only have one friend. The first time I went to his boyfriend's house, I wanted to leave a good impression on his mother and please others. But after marriage, she cooked all the meals, and sometimes she was too tired to move. His grandmother said to her, "What was it like before? Now that she is exposed, what are you pretending to be? "

I don't think I should help his mother cook. You see, my boyfriend goes to a girl's house, and the girl's mother is always a good waiter. How to help her when she goes to her boyfriend's house for the first time? You must do some effortless things, such as tidying up the dishes, cleaning the table and sweeping the floor after eating. Don't be too diligent to wash the dishes.

After getting married and getting married, I still have to help my mother cook. If you are a good cook, you should do more and do your duty as a daughter-in-law. If you are not good at cooking, you should follow suit. If you get married, don't live with your mother-in-law. Cooking or homework should be given to your husband and children!