The so-called love is gratitude before love.

There is a saying in ancient poetry: when you are married, there is no doubt about love. -Three of the four ancient poems, see Selected Works, Volume 29. Buddhism believes that love is very kind love. I think, love, there must be deep gratitude in it, how deep gratitude, how deep love.

I still want to talk about my loving in-laws. They are the warmest and most comfortable couples I have ever seen in real life.

One day, just after lunch, my mother-in-law's phone rang. She picked it up and hurried to the door to change her shoes. We are in an unknown place. My father-in-law laughed and joked: Your mother's family is busy at work. We suddenly realized, oh, it was the card friend calling her. She turned happily and walked out the door.

The night before yesterday, my mother-in-law cooked a table of dishes, and the family sat around and tried to taste it. Father-in-law said while picking vegetables: Third, this fish can be stewed, which is very tasty, and fried celery with meat is also delicious. He is full of praise for every dish, which makes people feel particularly real. We echoed: Mom, what festival is it today, cooking so many delicious foods? My mother-in-law said it wasn't a holiday at all, just wanted to improve. Father-in-law quickly interjected: Today is our wedding anniversary. We believed it, my mother-in-law said, no, I forgot it long ago. Later, they chatted happily about their marriage. My mother-in-law joked that if you had found that rich girl, you would be fine now. My father-in-law said, I guess so. Made the whole family laugh. After we laughed, my father-in-law became serious: although your mother didn't accompany me to work all day, it was really not easy to take care of you two brothers so well, especially when you were young, I often worked in other places and couldn't go home for half a year. Your mother takes care of her alone, so you should take good care of her. The mother-in-law with few words can't help but say: Your father is the hardest. Obviously, his body is not allowed to drink, so he has to drink for the project. Interrupt quickly: eat quickly and have a happy anniversary!

My mother-in-law has a bad cervical vertebra, so my father-in-law asked around for doctors who specialize in cervical vertebra. Some time ago, I found an old Chinese doctor, and I saw it several times, which obviously improved. On Saturday, I took my children to see my in-laws. As soon as I entered the door, my father-in-law told me: Your mother stabbed some black blood this time. It seems that she will recover completely. Words are full of certainty. I have been used to their kindness to each other for five or six years, so I just nodded.

Last weekend, several officials were invited to have dinner at home. My mother-in-law got up early in the morning and was very busy. I also went to help early, and my father-in-law was as busy as a bee. During the dinner, my father-in-law pointed to my mother-in-law who had been busy all morning and said to everyone: The greatest success in my life is to find a good wife. I often hear this sentence, whether officials or relatives come from home, my father-in-law always remembers her warm and busy mother-in-law. Mother-in-law is an inarticulate person, but gentle and kind, with excellent personality. Whenever she heard her father-in-law say, she mostly just smiled, narrowed her eyes and continued to shuttle between the kitchen tables. After the guests left, the drunken father-in-law did not forget to say to his mother-in-law: Third, thank you again today. Then she threw up in the bathroom, and her mother-in-law patted her back and looked for a cushion, asking if she wanted to cook some milk tea to sober up. My father-in-law casually chatted with me after waking up: our family often entertains people. When she was young, she said that she would treat guests at home, and she was always very happy. Now as soon as she says that someone is going home for dinner, she starts to worry. She may be old and lack of energy. It's not easy to entertain people for more than 30 years. You should help more. I nodded very hard, completely understanding and grateful to that woman.

A few years ago, my father-in-law lost more than 2 million yuan because he met a unlucky person, but even then, he never showed any pain to his family, and his family never became overcast because of it, but he didn't laugh as much as before. Mother-in-law said nothing, but silently accompanied her father-in-law, without any complaints or worries. They all bury their pain in their hearts and treat their children with a normal heart, for fear that a little bad mood they show will hurt us. In those years, they guarded our expectation of a better life with silence.

Later, the disaster ended. My parents-in-law finally breathed a sigh of relief. My father-in-law said that he cried secretly when he was alone. Is this the end of his life? Mother-in-law will occasionally talk about the difficulty afterwards, but she just said lightly: after your father fell asleep in those years, there was always a pimple on his forehead. These are things that we have never felt before. My father-in-law thanked my mother-in-law for not criticizing him when he was in trouble, and her mother-in-law thanked my father-in-law for being kind to her before such a big change.

After all, in the face of right and wrong, many people can't easily hold the bottom line. Some have changed their temperament, some have changed their personality, and everything around them has become disgusting. How can we have a gentle and grateful heart to treat each other?