Talk about the failure of chasing

Personally, I think what you have done is correct and rational. Nowadays, many students in school mistakenly think that they like the opposite sex when they think they like it. This is a normal phenomenon as a person in adolescence. In fact, it is only ignorance of adolescence, and there is no clear understanding of feelings. It is very important to know the love between two people. If you really love each other, then you will consider getting married. Do you think you should consider so much as a student? And there are many things that students don't understand, because they don't have the door to society at all and don't understand the real situation of the real society. For example, if two people like each other in their hearts, they will consider being together, but after being together, there will be many contradictions, and it is a problem to realize the shortcomings of both sides in life. Also, the two sides like each other, the meaning of love is very clear, and they are also very harmonious in life. But when it comes to marriage, it will be two families, not just two people. If both families are strongly opposed, girls are generally fragile and can't bear such pressure, and the result is the same.

So I can tell you clearly that your question is actually a little naive, because even if the students at school are all so-called "lovelorn", they will gradually forget over time, and then meet a pleasing person at a certain moment, which is the beginning of a so-called "love". . . . This cycle, so you don't have to be ashamed of refusing and continue to take your studies seriously. I hope my suggestion is helpful to you. Thank you.