What are the performances of parents when they treat their daughters as outsiders?

1. Use children as venting tools: Some parents just use children as venting tools. When they encounter difficulties in life or work, they will hit their children and use them as an outlet. Such people don't deserve to be parents.

I don't care about you at all: some children are parents' decorations. They don't care about them at all, whether it's study or health, or even everything about you in life.

3, will only hit you: such parents will only hit you from an early age, no matter whether you do well or not, they will only belittle you, and what children need most is praise and encouragement, otherwise the blow will only make children feel inferior.

4, biased: some families will have several children, but parents will be biased towards one of them, only like their sons or only like their daughters, and the other is like picking it up. Huge eccentricity will make children have a psychological shadow.

5. Expectations for you are too high: Many people, after becoming parents, want their children to succeed and have great hopes for their children's future, but this time is often counterproductive, so parents will be very disappointed with their children.

6. I get bored when I see you: many parents get along with their children, but they get bored when they don't. They get bored when they see children, and they don't like to play with them or communicate with them. Children are a problem for them.

7. Be sure to listen to your parents: Many parents think that children should listen to their own words, regardless of their own feelings and thoughts. Even if they do something wrong, they will make their children think they are right.

8. Don't feel sorry for you: other parents are worried about their children and don't want their children to be wronged, but some parents don't feel sorry for their children, and their hearts are cold-blooded, just like children are not their own flesh and blood.

9. You can abandon you at will: Some parents don't have children at all. They regard themselves as the most important and even abandon them when they don't need them. They are selfish and only love themselves, not their children.

10, don't care about your feelings: children will have their own strange ideas when they grow up, but some parents don't care about their children's ideas at all, they will only go their own way and ignore their feelings.