As long as I am happy, it doesn't matter whether you are happy or not.

1. Yesterday, Meiere, who had been inactive for a long time, posted a selfie of herself in a circle of friends. I liked it very much, so I praised her. I just clicked on my praise here, and Meiere sent me a WeChat "Straight male cancer is really uncomfortable!" Then a voice came up. It was probably that one of her male classmates commented that she was wearing too much makeup under her photo. Meiere said that she had just painted an eyebrow and lipstick, and she didn't even have foundation.

? I was just about to tell her to leave it alone. Before clicking the send button, I saw that she sent another screenshot.

"I don't think the color of your lipstick suits you."

"You still look good without makeup."

"oh? Is it? What color do you think it should be? "

"You are too white to be red."

Seeing this, I asked Amy, "Do you like your photos?"

"That's not nonsense? If I don't like to feel ugly, do you think I will send it? "

"Then don't talk about what he said. As long as you like it, as long as you are happy. It doesn't matter what he said. "

? 2.？ Some time ago, I had a whim and cut my waist-high straight black hair into ultra-short hair.

It's not a whim. After all, I've always wanted to cut my hair short since the fifth grade. Cut your hair ear-length, keep a little bangs from MengMeng, and be a lively and lovely girl. But for some time, my family has been opposed to girls having short hair. My friends said that it would be ugly to cut short hair and it would be difficult to do it every day, so the idea was put on hold.

Some time ago, I suddenly found that college life is almost gone, but college life has basically not changed in recent years, and even my hairstyle has not changed. I think it's boring to stick to the rules.

One weekend night, I went to the barber shop alone and turned my long hair into short hair. During this period, the barber kept confirming to me: Are you lovelorn? Do you really want to cut it that short? Don't cry when I cut this pair of scissors.

? My hair is short, and everyone's comments seem to be far more punctual than the news broadcast. During that time, no matter in the elevator or on my way to school, there will always be people who know me.

? Euphemistic "why did you suddenly cut your hair?" But it's ok, but you'd better stay longer. "

? More bluntly, "What do you smoke?" Why can't you cut your hair? " ? " You are sick! Really ugly. "

? 3 .？ I was very sensitive, and I began to feel depressed involuntarily. I cover my ears, don't want to listen, don't want to think, and don't care what others say about me. I didn't expect the comments to be so sharp and pervasive.

? The more sensitive I am, as soon as other people's comments touch me, I will immediately roll up my leaves silently bit by bit, for fear that his next sentence will follow.

The confidence when I first came up with an idea, the courage when I made a decision, and the refusal when I finally said "Cut, I won't cry" all seem to be jokes to me now.

? On the way, I bowed my head; In the elevator, I stood in the corner; In the classroom; I don't talk. I'm afraid someone will suddenly see me and say, "Hey, what do you think? Get a haircut. You still have long hair! "

? I like the color of my lipstick, I like my short hair, I like my clothes, I like my style, I like what I have learned, and I like my hobbies.

? I like that I am who I am, and you say that the color of lipstick doesn't suit me; You said you didn't like to see my short hair; You said you didn't like my skirt, but I did.

? You call me so ugly, but if I don't look in the mirror, what you don't like can only appear in your eyes, and it's not me who feels uncomfortable. Why should I feel depressed and doubt myself because of your discomfort?

? I am who I am. I choose everything just because I like it. You can't understand everything I do, just because I am happy and I am willing.

? As for suitability, ugliness and usefulness, it seems that it has nothing to do with you, so you don't need to remind me enthusiastically, regardless of time and place.

? Thank you for your enthusiasm and efforts, but I don't need them. Besides, I don't like yours. Sorry, I can't help you.

? It doesn't matter whether you like me or not, after all, I like it.