Talking about crazy old photos for love

When I come gently!

Speaking of poets in the Republic of China, I have to mention one person. He is the most romantic poet left to us by that era. He was criticized by people of that era. He was one of the few bohemians of that era! He is the author of the famous Farewell to Cambridge, a man with legendary love-Xu Zhimo.

Xu Zhimo lived such an earth-shattering life in his short life that he should thank the three women he met in his life. Thank God for giving Xu Zhimo such a splendid life, and thank Xu Zhimo for leaving us such a rich feast of poems and articles.

He once said that Lin is the woman who knows him best and the beauty he wants to spend his life with most. But that's how fate plays tricks on people. He must be married. And met Lin at a very inappropriate time.

If missing Lin is a great sorrow for Xu Zhimo, then missing Zhang Youyi is his greater regret!

Zhang Youyi's life condensed a history of traditional women in China. It seems that she has seen all the traditional women in China go out of the tradition. Influenced by western ideas, she finally had the courage to face this failed marriage. Because it is a traditional arranged marriage, the life of parents, the words of the matchmaker.

Zhang Youyi was born into a noble family and received a new education. She is gentle and kind, looks beautiful, and is sensible and filial according to tradition. At the request of her parents, she married Xu Zhimo, although she was only 15 years old. Shortly after marriage, she gave birth to a son. After that, Xu Zhimo went to study in England, during which he met Lin and fell in love quickly.

Later, Zhang Youyi went to England to see Xu Zhimo, a company, and he soon became pregnant. In order to end this free marriage, Xu Zhimo filed for divorce. But Zhang Youyi agreed with Xu Zhimo and ended their seven-year marriage.

Xu Zhimo was killed by a plane at the age of 36. As an ex-wife, Zhang Youyi did her duty and had no regrets. She raised their children and took care of her parents as daughters. Even the complete works of Xu Zhimo published in Taiwan Province Province were edited by Zhang Youyi himself.

Lin always knew that Xu Zhimo was just a glimpse of her life and a beautiful encounter. Lin ended her hopeless love with Xu Zhimo with her unique female consciousness. Regarding Xu Zhimo's affection, she knew that she could not resist the secular world and could not bear to part with Zhang Youyi. Because it was impossible for society to have a good result at that time!

I remember Lin said to Xu Zhimo, "I only promise you now, not your future." This is a confession to Xu Zhimo, and it is also a helpless confession, because Xu Zhimo was not divorced at that time. Later he said, "I know, but how should I respond?" This is a heartfelt confession! Every sentence can be seen how helpless Lin is!

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lin also brought home the wreckage of a plane to show his condolences. Because she knew that Xu Zhimo's death might be indirectly related to herself, it was because Xu Zhimo went to listen to her speech and finally died in an airplane accident. Of course, this is only the surface, perhaps the deepest is because she is the woman who knows Xu Zhimo best.

The encounter between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman may be the love answer that Xu Zhimo finally sought. Lu Xiaoman is also a married woman. Because of her sudden approach with Xu Zhimo, it attracted a lot of attention. Finally, she divorced and chose to marry Xu Zhimo. What she wants is not only true love, but also all kinds of chic life she is used to, and then she can't extricate herself because of smoking heavy cigarettes.

Xiaoman, once a peerless girl, became another person because of Xu Zhimo's death. She spent several years collecting his inheritance, never taking drugs, wearing fancy clothes, dressing up or going out to socialize, so that her gorgeous life disappeared. She finally put aside all worldly things and pursued a plain and real life, leading a plain life.

There are many controversies about Lu Xiaoman. Said that she likes socializing, that she spends money like water, and that she used to smoke opium. But you know, when Xu Zhimo died, Xiaoman was only 28 years old. At that time, many dignitaries were interested in making friends, but Xiaoman vowed never to remarry for life. The memorial tablet of Xu Zhimo is enshrined at home, and the flowers on the table grow green. Although she later chose to live with Weng Wurui, she never got married and she didn't care what others said about herself. She kept the identity of Mrs. Xu Zhimo for life. Never changed!

Lu Xiaoman's wild and unruly personality makes her coincide with Xu Zhimo, but ideal is not equal to reality, and life is not as romantic as a dance.

Lu Xiaoman is arguably the luckiest. She really got the moon in Xu Zhimo's heart. Although there is a full moon and a lack of it, there are dark clouds covering the moon. Xu Zhimo is still looking forward to the full moon. Perhaps Xiaoman is the love pursued by Xu Zhimo all his life, but Zhimo, like his poems, has always been a question mark of Xiaoman.

Yu Dafu described Xu Zhimo as a small man with a long face and a big head and gold-rimmed glasses. Xu Zhimo in the old photos is gentle and elegant. This is the man who walked with Tagore and passed Russell by. I founded the Crescent Poetry Society, and I have an incredible power!

His poems are full of strong lingering and fiery, fresh and elegant, warm and full of emotion, which is an indescribable artistic enjoyment. And his legendary love entanglement is even more impressive. Everyone has their own views on love and life. Xu Zhimo is a gifted scholar, but not romantic. His poetic love has given him the "soul mate" he has been pursuing all his life.

Xu Zhimo is always dealing with women. What he pursues is exactly what he loves. What he pursues is too romantic, just like his poems. However, there will always be too many disappointments in reality, and reality will always ruthlessly hit his heart trembling with love!

Human nature itself is contradictory, whether you are excellent or not. As long as you don't like it and have no love, you can leave. No matter how noble and talented a man is, he can love men and women regardless. In the face of love stories, it seems that everyone can't escape the secular entanglement! There is no escape from fate. The pursuit of Xu Zhimo's life is a flash in the pan after all.

Who can stop the burning love in the world? Lin is Xu's most unforgettable woman. The emotional entanglement between Lin and Xu Zhimo runs through. Zhang Youyi's understanding, filial piety and understanding should be Xu Zhimo's best choice, but a wrong arrangement. The appearance of Lu Xiaoman seems to make Xu Zhimo find the answer to love, but after life, this seemingly free love still makes Xu Zhimo look less romantic than poetry!

Xu Zhimo's pursuit of freedom can be seen from his poems, and his choice of love is even bolder. Whether Lin is married or not, Lu Xiaoman has a family. He doesn't care at all, all he cares about is the love he pursues. Even if it is smashed to pieces, I won't hesitate. But fate is such an arrangement, he is getting deeper and deeper in the whirlpool of love, and finally with that loud noise, he will say goodbye to us forever!

We don't have to criticize these legendary loves, and we may not be able to comment. At that time, Xu Zhimo had a fusion of western concepts, which made him more free from the shackles of traditional concepts! Maybe there is no absolute right or wrong in love itself. Maybe everyone has their own experience in treating love. We are not ourselves, maybe we can't feel the painful love!

Xu Zhimo, who has been entangled in the world of love and being loved all his life, can only sigh that he will follow his words at a young age and return to the earth!

I left quietly,

Just as I came quietly!