Tell me about the lowest point in your life. How did you get through it?

Seeing your question reminds me of a painful experience in Guangdong a few years ago:

I remember that shortly after I left the society, I was assigned to work in a Taiwan-funded factory by the school. Although I worked hard, the salary was not bad compared with that time. Originally, my life was calm and stable. A classmate's phone call changed my life. Maybe it was his inner turmoil and dream idea, so I resigned and went to his side. Because they are both junior high school students in the same town, they are more trusting and unconditional trusting. Just entering the society, there is not much experience to learn from. I drifted into a very popular industry "MLM" at that time.

I won't introduce the days inside, mainly because I persisted for half a year and it was really difficult to leave "MLM" for a few days without money. As we all know, doing this at home is definitely not supported and understood, so I still remember clearly: I was really poor at that time, and the internet was not so developed at that time. It will be a few days before someone calls you and sends money to the bank, so it's too late. I feel that I have no face to borrow money from others, and I plan to go to Dongguan, Guangdong to find my brother. Not far. At that time, the travelling expenses were enough.

But at that time, the public security in Guangdong was still very poor. That was a few years ago. I remember leaving the "MLM" den at that time. I just didn't have anything, I didn't bring anything. I went directly to my brother's factory by car, and I didn't even know the southeast and northwest. At that time, the network was not so developed. Search the internet and you will know everything. Mobile phones are a luxury for us, and we mainly rely on public telephones to communicate. I was fooled by the car and went straight to the opposite direction. At night, a whole car driver kicked us off in a dark place. Everyone is still in a daze. Because it was night, most of us fell asleep. When the driver said the location, we got off the bus. We were dumbfounded when we got off the bus. We were just cheated. In a deserted place, all kinds of anger welled up in my heart, and some people picked up stones on the roadside and smashed them. But in any case, we will continue our journey. We can only go together, find a more prosperous place, and then go our separate ways, and have the money to change cars and move on, but I really don't have any money on me, not even the money to make a phone call.

I can only ask a security guard on the road. How can I get to Dongguan? People are surprised: how can I go so far? I can only smile bitterly and don't want to tell others that I have no money. What can I do if I don't leave I remember walking for at least 24 hours, and my shoes were almost rotten. I didn't eat any food. I'm really exhausted and my heart is breaking. I can only continue to believe in myself and find my brother. I can have a good meal and a good sleep. I really went to that big fruit wholesale market at night and found rotten fruit thrown by others, and I cried while eating. Maybe I feel really tired, because I feel wronged for myself. I sleep on a stone bench in the park, and sometimes I will be checked without my ID card. Anyway, I finally got through it. I finally found my brother when I told him to walk along this road. The moment I met him, I felt that I was not a ghost, tired, hungry and sleepy. I quickly asked my brother to invite me to dinner. I remember that I really ate four or five bowls of rice in one breath, and finally I was full. Then I found a small hotel, took a bath and had a good sleep. The next day, people felt alive. It feels so good. Maybe this is the lowest rebound in my life. At this time, I feel very happy, because I finally got through it. It is not easy. Now think about writing a few words, the feeling at that time was really too deep and profound!

Although my little experience is not as good as yours, I think the most important thing for you now is to live a good life and solve the problem of food and clothing for the whole family, and then take a long-term view and consider those foreign debts and other issues. Can you find a temporary job or something, so that you can have some financial resources, and then think about where your future is? Although I didn't start a business, you should have the ability and mind to start a business. Failure is only temporary. Your foreign debt can only be paid off if you come back. It's certainly not easy to rely on work, not to mention that you have a large family to support.

So personally, I think you should pull yourself together as soon as possible. The most important thing is to find a job that can support the family. Only by making yourself and your family live well can you have the capital to make a comeback. Come on anyway, it's not easy, but I believe you can get through it! Good luck! ! !

In July of the year before last, the tourism ecology and real estate we had done before lost a bottom. Probably lost less than 6 million, mainly borrowed money from friends and family, about 6.5438+0.5 million.

If my daughter-in-law hadn't encouraged me to separate from my son, I would have committed suicide by jumping off a building.

Later, I started to do POS with my friends and set up a small company myself. Now I have seven or eight people under my command. They are all good friends who have worked hard together.

At first, all the credit cards were maxed out, and 32,000 loans, 24,000 peas and 28,000 ping 'an Puhui were issued. When I first started to engage in POS, I couldn't push it out at first. Later, slowly, there were more customers and more cooperation.

Now that the loan and credit card have been paid off, there are more than 200 thousand left in the account, which will be paid off this year.

Hard work pays off. At the lowest point in life, we should enrich ourselves, analyze ourselves, keep ourselves busy and never give up on ourselves.

Believe in yourself and you will succeed.

Thanks for inviting me.

I once answered a question about entrepreneurial failure. I might as well tell you again today.

Although Ren is now a multimillionaire of tens of billions. I was cheated by 2 million for the first time in business. This is bad enough, isn't it? However, there is no information about what he did later.

I'm just telling you. In the present society. I thought you were desperate. God won't close one door, but he will open another. If you can't start a business, go to work first. If you want to start a business in the future, work in this failed industry and learn from it. It is important not to lose heart after a setback. Successful people now have setbacks when starting a business.

Find a job, regardless of the salary, at least solve the problem of rations first. When the problem of food and clothing is guaranteed, we will discuss the next step with our family. If you have the conditions, you can ask for help from the outside world or from reliable people. Many times, it is often not friends and relatives who lend a helping hand, but kind strangers.

In fact, everything else is second, and the most important thing is to make money to make a living. Even if you are a temporary, part-time or hourly worker, don't be afraid of losing face. The urgent task of delay is to earn money to buy rice.

There was a time when my family could not afford to rent a house. It was a kind-hearted man in the church who took us homeless people in. At that time, the desperate family had the cheek to accept each other's help. My mother and I often do manual labor, and the salary is not high, but we can still earn a meal as long as we are willing to endure hardships and are not afraid of being tired. During that time, my mother took handicrafts everywhere. When she was unemployed, she helped my father manage the business of the small shop during the day. When there were not many guests, she used her free time to do manual work quickly. And when I come home from school in the afternoon, I will let my parents have a good rest at night, and then I will take over the handicraft and continue to catch up with my work. Qi Xin, the whole family and Qi Xin work together to do something for this family. Later, another kind person in the church introduced my mother to work in her factory, and the family income was slightly better. It was a really hard time. Friends look down on us, and relatives avoid us. At that time, the family could only grit their teeth and stick to it, struggling to earn a meager income.

After several years of persistence, the latter situation began to improve. We have always been grateful to those who helped us in those years. Up to now, we have been in contact and get along more like relatives and friends.

Thank you for inviting me! Answer: Everyone will have their own low tide in life, and I am no exception. When I was about thirty years old, I met a difficult problem. I am in a dilemma. The feeling of "seven ups and eight downs" is very complicated, contradictory, tangled and helpless ... This matter has been bothering me for several years. Usually, good friends have "gone" times; I can imagine my own feelings. Bad to the "limit" and lonely to the lowest point! In this way, a person slowly, day by day ..., in order to go out as soon as possible, I listen to music and read books crazily, and record my inner "injury" in my diary; If you fall, get up. Day by day, focus on work and family, and strive to do everything in life!

In fact, looking back at this period of low tide in the past has tempered my psychology. It made me understand: "If you are alive, you must face everything in your life bravely", and you have grown up through "forbearance". Although the process of "forbearance" is very hard and addictive, there is a kind of enjoyment called "having fun while suffering". The more life occasionally hits you, the more you should be full of "fighting spirit" and always be ready to "fight back" bad emotions! We should be as tenacious, tenacious and brave as grass, "it's no big deal"; Everything will pass!

Life has its ups and downs ... you have to taste the ups and downs! "Low tide": It can make you understand and know many things, and "low tide" is also the process that you are developing in the direction of "good luck"! Don't give up self-confidence in every period, say "Come on" to yourself every day, and embrace the world with a smile and a happy mood!

Hold on. What can you do? Some sufferings must be borne. If you run away, it will come to you in another way. Suffering will make you grow, just three or five years. If you survive, you will have a bright future. At your age, you are eager to have a girlfriend. I have been there before, and I understand your difficulty. Women will come sooner or later. Don't worry, there is no need to deliberately pursue girls and stick a cold face to a hot ass, which will bring shame to yourself. Study hard if you can. If you can't, go to the society to exercise more. But society can easily make people learn badly. Don't exercise, exercise, and finally become an ignorant punk. That will be the end of your life. Even if you don't go to school, you should read more, read more and study more, and tell you what the right life path is.

Take the story of a friend as an example. As a young man, that is, about 20 years old, I began to wander in the society, not only as a waiter, but also as a courier. I have done almost all kinds of jobs. How did I do? Or how is it going? It's not easy to handle. Many times it seems to muddle along, there are many temptations outside, friends are in a mess, and life is a mess. Sometimes you may have no money to eat, and sometimes you may have drunken dreams and eat and drink.

One day, when he and a few friends stepped into the road of no return, it was a challenge of desire and people's hearts, a struggle between money and ideas. All his strength jumped into money and pointed to getting rich.

But who knew that the night was so long and the ending of the story was so tragic? Not only did he not make any money, but he also lost in a big mess and came back exhausted and penniless. Debt collectors are everywhere, and there is nowhere to hide. From the city to the countryside, from nothing to no return, a complete life and a plain life have been destroyed. The people who want to get married and the relatives who invited them to get married have all left, and only parents can disturb you. When the debt collector appeared at the door of the countryside, the family members cried bitterly and their parents were helpless. They only heard the heartbreaking cries of their friends and endless regrets.

This may be the moment when his life completely fell into a trough, and everything fell into the darkest and despair. He has always wanted a good life, a good start for his family and a good life for his parents.

Who would have thought that all good things were destroyed and all stories were shrouded in darkness?

As a friend of a friend, it is so difficult to borrow money, and it is even more difficult to borrow money to pay back. Now, only by relying on plain life, ordinary work, bit by bit, hard work, let yourself stop being so down and out, and slowly get out of the trough of life, that is the real thing. How to go out and get ahead, I haven't seen the result yet.

The lowest point in my life is now. 20 18 By March this year, the business lost more than 200,000 yuan and the credit card lost 250,000 yuan. I bought a house in May last year, with a down payment of 550,000 yuan and a loan of 900,000 yuan, and a monthly payment of 4,800 yuan for 30 years. Now I have no formal source of income. I am 30 years old. How should I start? When I'm 60, I'll pay the mortgage right away.

I'm in debt now. I also take delivery part-time and do odd jobs in restaurants after work every day. Although the income is small, it is better than nothing. I also plan to find some small business when I have enough money. Working can only solve the problem of food and clothing. If you want to pay your debts, it is basically impossible to have money or do it yourself.

I'm going through a downturn. The weather used to be fine, and I have been doing business for nearly ten years since last time. After I didn't do it for some reason, I kept doing it intermittently, but every time it was ideal, I felt depressed and confused, like being trapped in a cage.