China couples gradually become roommates. What is the specific reason?

The relationship between men and women began with goodwill, and gradually turned into love and being loved. Finally, the two entered marriage and started a new life together. But in front of feelings, what I fear most is the test of time. Love gradually turned into affection, and finally two middle-aged people became roommates with a particularly pure relationship. This is the status quo of many couples in China's marriage.

In the love stage, men and women care more about being together and falling in love, and don't care too much about the trivial things in life. However, when two people get married, they have to worry about trifles in life. Little things accumulate over time, and both husband and wife should consider rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. In this way, two people who only need to consider their feelings gradually lack communication and exchange, and gradually become alienated.

Behind marriage actually means that people have to take on new responsibilities. Men should bear the responsibilities of men, and women should bear the responsibilities of women. However, if two people don't want to support each other, the marriage will end peacefully. My friend's parents were particularly loving before they got married, and then they gradually worried about their livelihood and rushed for work. The communication between them is getting less and less, and the time together is getting shorter and shorter. Finally, their feelings are different from before.

People will no longer live for themselves as they grow older. Everything that makes money is for their families, probably for their children. (william shakespeare's Hamlet and Family) In this process, people will gradually lose themselves and their feelings for each other. Marriage means that two people are closer and can't see the beauty of love each other. If two people get closer, they can see each other better, the shortcomings of both sides can be infinitely expanded, and the feelings between husband and wife can easily become a problem.

There is something wrong with marriage. In the final analysis, it is a problem between two people. Marriage without feelings is actually worthy of the name. Only in middle age can children be sensible. You can't say that you ended your marriage for your own feelings and changed the dull life now. The last two people just spent the rest of their lives in an ordinary way. Too many families in China are like this. Parents live a peaceful life, but it is also very dull. There is love between two people, no more love, and they live like roommates. However, marriage and family feelings cannot be compromised at will because of life. Even in middle age, both husband and wife should learn to manage marriage and make their lives happy. A happy day is a day, and an unhappy day is also a day. It is better to spend every day happily. Marriage between two people can also really happen.