Goodbye, faltering 2019; hello, 2020 full of expectations.

When I was a child, I always felt that time was very slow. I could count the times with my fingers, but I still couldn’t count them to the end.

After growing up, the days slipped by quietly in the morning light of traffic jams, in the late nights of overtime work, in the daily necessities of daily life, and in the unread messages in the work group...

Before I could achieve the few small goals I set at the beginning of the year, I had to say goodbye to this year in a hurry.

In 2020, clear the past and start over. This is the sentence I have seen the most in the past two days. Who can really be so free and easy, clear all the past and start over?

I have thought about such a good thing for half my life. I have dreamed about it and thought about it day and night. But the fact is that no past event can be truly cleared. If I want to start over, How much courage does it take to achieve it?

"Detachment" has been the mantra of most people in recent years. Because of this, more and more people have become ruthless, cruel and irresponsible, but the essence has never changed.

The biggest unworthiness in life is to let yourself get stuck in the bad past and be unable to recover.

Throw away grievances, throw away decadence, cut off uncomfortable relationships, change unsatisfactory jobs, say goodbye to unrealistic goals... All breakups are a choice and a Ability, a kind of responsibility and courage, rather than simply discarding or throwing away.

Work hard silently, continue to work hard, and do what you promised yourself one by one. It is the deepest power, the power that drips from water and penetrates stone.

The trivial matters in life are often the last straw that breaks a person's mentality.

Don’t deny yourself easily, blame yourself too much, give yourself a long vacation when you are too tired, and find a place where no one is around to cry when you are sad... In fact, it is the best way Let go

Control the rhythm of your life, and never overtax your health. It is okay to work hard, but not hard.

Don’t stay up late, take three meals a day seriously, and occasionally reward yourself with small gifts to turn ordinary days into sparkling ones.

Listen to your favorite songs, read your favorite books, see a wider world, and experience unknown fun. Get ready for the New Year's shirt, put on your favorite hairstyle, and welcome the New Year with the most comfortable and beautiful attitude.

You deserve all the good things in this world. Don’t forget your original intention and don’t be afraid of difficulties.

It’s the end of another year, and it seems that every time it comes to the last day of the year, I feel filled with emotions.

When I took a break from my busy schedule, I looked through the texts or photos left in recent years on WeChat Moments, Weibo and other online platforms. The biggest sigh is still that time flies by.

Looking back on my half-life, I have experienced many things. Life has its ups and downs. Every year there are turning points, accidents, ups and downs, and even more tribulations.

Today is the first day of the new year, and I am still busy at work. My mood at the moment is neither sad nor happy. After going through a lot of hardships, I finally realized that ordinary life is the most real. .

In the age of knowing one’s fate, although some things are still uncertain, both work and life lack the passion and enthusiasm of youth. Don’t expect too much anymore, just try your best. No matter what, you won’t lose your confidence, determination and fighting spirit in life. Even if you are willing to be ordinary, you cannot be too mediocre.

In the days to come, learn to deal with people and things calmly, make good money, protect your family with all your heart, and strive to become their support. In the days to come, may all your expectations come true, and may all your long-cherished thoughts be turned into peace.

In the new year and in the days to come, what we must finally learn to do is to reconcile with ourselves, with the world, and to shake hands with the years.

In 2020, I hope that the river will be long, the years will not leave a trace, the earth will not grow old, and the sun will shine.

In 2020, I hope to be in a city that I am familiar with. No matter where I go, there will be my friends, and when I knock on every door, I will be greeted by warm smiling faces.

In 2020, I hope that those who know each other can love each other, and those who love each other can understand each other. There is mutual resentment, no hatred, and there is peace in the world.

On the last day of 2019, I am still working hard and missing you deeply for a year alone. Loss and sorrow are my lasting emotions.

Beauty is a kind of power, and knowing how to live is even more so.

I only hope that this life will be filled with this infinite power, and I will live every good moment with light and warmth.

Solitude and tranquility are necessary in time. Just like a person moving forward, he will continue to meet new friends and lose old friends along the way.

Don’t complain, feel happy, keep moving forward, pin the flowers of time on your clothes, they will look so beautiful.

A simple heart, a simple liking is the greatest liking, right?

Live in the old-fashioned way, without confrontation, competition, or blind obedience. Live calmly, calmly, and peacefully. You may not necessarily be filled with joy every day, but you must strive to be joyful.

I didn’t believe in fate when I was young, but now I believe more and more. Everything is destined. Do what you like, cultivate your heart, and be able to bring joy to others. Thank you for your time. The joy passed peacefully, and the wind laughed calmly.

I like to celebrate the New Year, it is daily life, fireworks, and a prosperous secular heart.

Only when a person has a secular mind can he have a good atmosphere. And approaching the New Year is even more joyful, like approaching a huge joy, the grand preparation is so dense and arrogant, the intense enthusiasm...

The waiting heart is ignited bit by bit, and there is something in my heart. Transpiration is coming up...

The older you get, the faster the days come. This day comes so fast, and it gets faster and faster.

Every time a new year comes, the time is always wrong, especially the year. These days go by so fast. It seems that I have just gotten used to writing in 2019. 2019 is gone, and next is 2020.

As the year goes by, it becomes more and more uncomfortable. First of all, it comes from the feeling of "life goes by so fast". This speed seems to be unexpected and unprepared, like a hammer suddenly passing by. Smashed it on the table next to me. Many people feel that the day has passed before they have lived much. They feel a bit like being woken up just after falling asleep. They open their eyes in confusion and look at the New Year's Day inexplicably, and the New Year's Day It was the sudden, loud shout that woke them up.

At the same time, this happy feeling is still a late response to one's past behavior. In other words, it is a sudden doubt about the life one has experienced.

No path in the world is repeated, and no life is replaceable. Everyone is experiencing a life that only belongs to them. The richness of the world and the narrowness of personal space bring reading to the forefront. Reading opens up personal space, realizes the breadth of the sky and the vastness of the earth, and changes the path of life from the odd number. became plural.

Don’t set too high goals for yourself, and don’t overestimate your abilities. Pressure is a kind of motivation, but when the pressure exceeds the range of endurance, you will be crushed.

Many times, you can’t control the outcome, and you can’t please everyone. Trying and trying your best is enough.

Just try your best in everything, and be a good person with all your heart.

No one is a savior, and it is impossible to help everyone. Relatives, friends, besties, buddies and sisters, you can help one person, but you can't help everyone. You can help for a while, but you can't help for a lifetime.

In times of crisis and emergencies, it is imperative to use as much strength as you can, and you will not feel at ease if you don’t help yourself. For the rest, don’t force yourself.

Don’t feel too guilty. You have your own life and you have to live your own life. Besides, you have only friendship with them and have no obligations.

There are many things that you cannot change. Everything has its own trajectory, runs on its own, and is at peace with itself. All you have to do is comply with it and respect it.

Don’t try to change impossible things. Man can conquer nature, which means that it is very human. Everything depends on man-made things and opportunities. Our ancestors have all said that planning depends on people and success depends on God. One third of effort depends on God's will. No matter how ambitious you are, your ambition will depend on it.

For all living beings, in the end, you have to admit that except for changing yourself, you can actually change nothing in this world.

Just adapt to everything and just go with the flow of others.

Don’t force anything. What’s mine will eventually be mine. No matter how hard you try, it’s not mine. Those who love me won’t bear to see me cry. Those who don’t love me, even if I immediately He would be indifferent even if he died.

Vibrant and vigorous things are exciting, but ordinary things also have their own warmth. Cherish what you have, and what you lose will drift away with the wind.

Life only lasts a hundred years. After all, it is fate. Right or wrong is not important. Life is rich and peaceful because of experience.

Take everything lightly. As long as you have enough material things, you can just be indifferent to the gains and losses of fame and fortune.

No matter how big the house is, it cannot accommodate an insatiable heart; no matter how high-end the bed is, it cannot let a person with anxiety and insomnia sleep peacefully. Eating too much delicacies from mountains and seas will make your body unable to bear it;

If you dwell on it for too long, your spirit will collapse.

No matter how successful your career is, it cannot make a person who cannot find the meaning of life happy; no matter how much money you have, you cannot buy health.

Living is not easy anymore. If you are not happy, no one can make you happy.

Who can make no mistakes without being a sage? Everyone makes mistakes, and mistakes are an important factor in growth.

We can usually easily forgive other people's mistakes, but it is difficult to forgive our own mistakes, as if to forgive our own mistakes is to admit failure.

You are just you, an ordinary mortal. Don’t think of yourself as so great. When you are sad and wronged, you can shed tears and cry bitterly.

Facing one's own heart and admitting mistakes and failures are also required courses in life. Just face everything.

Just be optimistic and don’t complain about anyone or anything.

You have to bear the hardships of work, you have to face the troubles of life, and it is your own choice to decide who betrays you.

Things often go wrong in life, who doesn’t?

The most important thing is that complaining not only does not help, but also makes you unable to see the bright future.

Everyone accepts psychological suggestions. How you suggest will determine the result. Don't be so pessimistic and desperate. If you think about it from another angle, it may not be like that.

Just let it go. If you don't carry too many things on your back, it will be very difficult for pedestrians to carry heavy loads.

If you don’t bring life with you and don’t take death with you, everyone will be empty-handed in the end. No matter how strong the love is, it must be let go when it is far away;

No matter how deep the hatred is, it will be melted away in time; no matter how close people are, it is difficult to accompany them until they grow old; no matter how painful the children are, they have their own world after all.

Enjoy it when you should enjoy it. Don’t wait until you can’t walk to think of the distant scenery.

It’s not easy for you not to have a hard time with yourself after so many years.

Admission to school, work, family, classmates, colleagues, old and new friends, and many, many people you know or don’t know.

Many times, we have to live according to other people’s expectations. No matter how hard you try, you will always fall short of their expectations.

You are tired and you are worthy of them. From now on, you should think about how to be worthy of yourself.

It’s hard to make everyone happy, so make yourself happy.

In fact, when you rejoice, everyone rejoices too.

Because life is too complicated, we must live simply in complexity; because life is suffering, we must live happily in suffering;

Because life is too impermanent, we must live in simplicity. Live optimistically in the face of impermanence; because there are too many restrictions in life, you must live free and easy in the restrictions.

In addition to life and death, what else is important? If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will be simple.

Simple is nice.

Much joy makes people compassionate. The world is difficult, so joy is really rare.

When I go to temples and palaces, what I like to see the most is the Happy Buddha——

Such a heartless look,

In fact, I have seen through it and let it go. ,

Therefore, go to save all sentient beings with a joyful heart.

If you take everything lightly, your heart will not be tired? In life, many times you feel tired because you carry too many burdens.

In fact, being too competitive about some things will only cause trouble for yourself.

Life is short, there is no need to waste precious time worrying about it. Just take everything lightly and everything will suddenly become clearer.

Belittle gains and losses, and be indifferent to favors and disgrace.

There is a saying in the "Book of Changes" called "Move and you will suffer", which means that as long as you choose to do something, you will have gains and losses.

In this life, it is impossible for everything to go as planned. If you want to gain something, you will inevitably lose something.

Life is actually a process of gaining and losing at the same time.

Just like Yi Shu said: "In fact, the things you lose have never truly belonged to you, so there is no need to regret it."

In all things in the world, there must be gains and losses.

If you care too much about gains and losses, the more you want, the more you will lose.

Life is about gains and losses, so avoid being angry or unfair.

If you care too much about gains and losses in everything, you will struggle and suffer from what you can’t get.

There is a saying that is particularly good:

Happiness never depends on how much you have, but on how much you look down upon.

If you let go of your worries about gains and losses, you will be a free person.

As said in the movie "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon":

"When you clench your hands, there is nothing inside; when you open your hands, the world is in your hands."

Don’t care about fame and fortune, and be content with what you have.

The ancients said: "After reading all the human feelings, you will realize the value of indifference and madness; only when you have tasted the taste of the world, will you know the true value of indifference."

Only after seeing all the warmth and coldness of human feelings can Realize the value of open-mindedness and freedom; only after tasting all kinds of tastes in the world can you know the true meaning of pure heart and tranquility.

Indifferent is an attitude in life, a kind of freedom and tranquility that puts fame, wealth, status, power and desires aside.

I believe everyone is familiar with the story of Tao Yuanming who refused to give up for five buckets of rice. Tao Yuanming was indifferent by nature. After seeing clearly the collusion and intrigues in the officialdom, he was unwilling to succumb to the dangers of the officialdom. He resolutely gave up his fame, fortune, and a life of luxury.

He resigned and went into seclusion, choosing a quiet pastoral life without any worries about the world.

Only when you learn to be content and abandon greed can you let your heart unburden and move towards a better life.

There is a saying in "Cai Gen Tan": "The pleasure is not too much, the mist between the basin, the pond, the fists and the rocks is full; the meeting scene is not far away, the wind and moon under the canopy window and bamboo house are self-credited."

Fun is everywhere, all the time, it depends on whether you have the mood of the breeze and the bright moon.

Life is in a hurry, let go of unnecessary entanglements of interests, be indifferent to fame and fortune, and be content and happy is a kind of wealth.

Only by taking everything lightly and throwing away excess burdens can your heart be freed up to welcome more good things.