How to treat a wife who is slapped by her husband because she doesn't answer her phone?

What is the most important thing in the process of getting along with husband and wife? Without it, there is only "trust". On the basis of mutual trust, couples are more likely to realize the happiness brought by marriage, and they can also know that real marriage is not just as simple as cohabitation between men and women, but a real common advance and retreat, and know the happiness and enrichment brought by marriage.

A marriage without trust is like a person's spine, which falls down at the touch. Therefore, there must be enough trust between husband and wife to go smoothly in life, because couples who have established the foundation of trust can help each other wholeheartedly and accept each other without complaint, regardless of outside gossip or other people's views on their partners.

There are some small flaws in life more or less. Either love is unhappy or marriage is unhappy. No one can say whether his marriage will go well. This is an uncertainty about the future development, but couples who have established a foundation of trust can say with certainty: "At present, my marriage is extremely smooth."

The word "trust" is simple, but it is difficult to do. No matter how hard it is, it is hard to resist the erosion of time, not to mention the trust that only exists in people's hearts. As a result, conflicts often arise between husband and wife, and emotional disharmony is mostly due to lack of trust and more doubts about each other.

Time is merciless. If husband and wife do not build trust step by step, but put down the word "trust" after marriage, thinking that mutual trust is the easiest thing since they are married, but this idea is wrong. Couples who can't keep pace with the times and gradually enhance their trust will eventually become strangers.

Maybe it's not as "slow" as before, so slow that you can only love one person all your life. In a fast-paced society, people seem to be a little impetuous, only pursuing the word "fast", eating fast and doing things fast, but only the other person is slow. In this way, while the frequency of contact with your partner is getting less and less, you will also plant seeds of mutual suspicion in your heart.

If the other party doesn't hear from you for a day and doesn't tell yourself, your heart will be very confused and you will wonder if the other party has done something wrong. When the other person appears in front of you, you will ask questions and ridicule, but you will care less, greet less and have less patience to let the other person explain.

Since then, husband and wife can no longer live in harmony. Even if they are tightly bound by marriage, they can only be two robots called husband and wife, doing their own things every day and not caring about each other's lives. In the long run, how can marriage be invincible? Don't forget, people are flesh and blood, not a bunch of scattered parts. Marriage is made up of two people with worldly desires and flesh and blood, not two puppets without souls.

The reader Fangzi still can't forget the slap her husband slapped her, but she still can't figure out why her husband hit her. Did you not answer your husband's phone because you were busy at work? Or the unfounded evidence that my husband said? She doesn't think so. She also thinks this reason is too far-fetched. In that heart, "domestic violence" is no longer the focus of her attention. She has been looking for a reason to let her husband do it indiscriminately.

Fang Zi, who has been working on the assembly line all the year round, has developed amazing patience and perseverance. Although the family is not rich, even a little humble, she has always believed that through her own efforts and hard work, she will be able to build her family better. As a result, Fang Zi endured boring work day after day, just to fulfill her dream.

Fang Zi went to work in the factory long before she got married and became a veritable "working girl". God always cares for those simple people. While working in the factory, Fangzi talked about the first and last love in her life. Fang Zi, who tasted love for the first time, thought she was the happiest person in the world. After two months of love, Fang Zi agreed to her boyfriend's proposal in a muddle. Of course, the prescription also regards this fog as happiness.

It was not until that Fang Zi woke up and looked at the snoring man around her that she slowly woke up. Seeing the factory-approved holiday approaching, Fangzi felt a little nervous inexplicably, pushed her husband who was still sleeping and asked, "You don't earn as much as me now. How long do you have to be a leader or something before I can relax? "

"What, I'm not going. That stupid factory has no future. You can stay there, as long as you earn enough money for your family." Fang Zi couldn't help saying, "How can you not go?" ? How can I live without going home? You promised to save money to buy a new house in the future. "That push her husband's strength can not help but grow.

"Hey, I said you were bored. I am a man. Even if you give me 3000 yuan a month, I'm embarrassed to ask for it. Don't worry about this. I will contact my brother later. He is a big boss now. I will mix with him. " The husband was impatient. "Really? Then you have to mix well with him, eat bitter and get tired, as long as you can earn money. " That's a renewed expectation for future life.

Marriage is a little vague for Fang Zi. She can't even remember all the details of her marriage. She was always nervous and didn't care. She faced marriage with her own understanding. "Marriage is to live a good life. Marriage is called marriage. If you want to live a good life, you have to suffer. " That is to say.

With a dream of a better life in my heart, after the holiday, Fangzi sat on the bench in front of the assembly line and repeated those simple and boring actions. Because of the factory, a series of items with metal are not allowed to be brought into the workshop, and mobile phones are no exception. Learn the factory rules by heart, and strictly abide by this rule.

She knows that the factory is not that strict. Colleagues around her will take out their mobile phones from their pockets to play for a while during the break, and regard the factory regulations as decorations. As an old employee, Fangzi also knows that factory leaders always turn a blind eye, but she doesn't. If she did, she would be embarrassed to take the salary from the factory.

On the rest day, Fangzi will choose to go home by train for three hours. Supposedly, she wouldn't do that. After all, the factory has staff quarters, so you can have a good rest. The reason for letting Fangzi do this is that her husband needs to eat. If Fangzi doesn't go home to cook for him on the rest day, he will continue to slander and complain that Fangzi is not a living woman.

But every time I go home, Fangzi sees her husband lying on the sofa playing games and brushing videos. She asked him more than once: "Husband, how long will it take your brother to come to you?" "Don't worry about men, women. There are many things in the middle that can't be solved so well. " He always answers that question.

This time is different. Fangzi looked at her husband and knew he would be angry, but she still said what she was holding in her heart. "Husband, is that job your brother gave you yellow?" That carefully asked, "yellow what yellow, I don't know the truth? You women don't understand these things, go and cook. " The husband said angrily.

I can only smile, clean up the dirty clothes, handle the lunch box left by my husband, then unhurriedly turn on the gas stove and cook a simple meal with simple ingredients. "What do you do? There is not even a piece of meat, and I will not give it to pigs. " Fangzi's husband looked at the food on the table and complained, "Now pork is too expensive for me to buy." That casually replied.

Fangzi's husband didn't say anything, but Fangzi clearly heard a sentence from his whisper: "You can't buy pork if you earn money. I really don't know what's the use of marrying you. " Fangzi was a little unwilling and whispered back, "At least I'm making money, and you don't even make money." The angry husband lifted the tablecloth and said with a broken voice, "I won't eat." He slammed the door and left.

Fangzi didn't take her husband's anger seriously, packed the scattered dishes and chopsticks, packed her clothes, and then bought a ticket to go back to work. Since then, although Fangzi still kept the habit of going home on a rest day, neither husband nor wife took the initiative to talk to each other. Fangzi's husband hasn't changed, and neither has Fangzi. The only change is that Husband and Wife has become two related silent films, and both protagonists are absolute protagonists in their respective worlds.

That still didn't care about these changes. She just thinks it's normal in marriage. After putting aside the "nonsense" between husband and wife, Fang Zi devoted all her energy to her work. She insists that she and her husband should not disturb each other and be angry with each other. This is the best way of life, and she can spend all her time making money.

Fangzi's personality determines her mentality, but her husband doesn't think so. Fangzi slowly found that every time she went home, her husband looked at herself with a skeptical and puzzled look. Fangzi doesn't know what these eyes represent, and she doesn't pay attention to them, but Lin Jun feels a redefinition of Fangzi's face value and self-distrust.

In short, Fang Zi's husband thinks that his wife has lost her in his heart and fallen in love with someone else. For a man, this kind of thing is the biggest insult to him. Fang Zi's husband, who has always been arrogant, will not allow this to happen, let alone allow a pile of gold and silver treasures that can be taken away at will to run into others' hands under his nose. Even if what he imagined has happened, he will take it back.

As a result, he is always idle and finally has something to do. When Fang Zi is not at home, he will take a bus to the city where Fang Zi is located. Before Fang Zi gets off work, he will hide out of sight of others and secretly observe which men Fang Zi is in contact with every day. To his disappointment, Fang Zi's 3.1-point life really has nothing to observe.

However, he still refused to give up and began to deal with factory security. After obtaining the consent of the security guard, he will also enter the factory to observe Fang Zi's every move through the glass. After a long time, he will reveal clues. When Fang Zi inadvertently raised her head, she suddenly found her husband's square and thin face. That paused, after ruled out his dizziness, a wave of happiness surged in my heart.

With the approval of the leader, Fang Zi danced and ran out to see her husband, but her husband's attention was not on her. He looked at the puzzled expression of the former leader and sighed in his heart: "This method can't be used in the future." "Husband, do you want to see me? Did you bring me something delicious? " Fang Zi looked at her husband and asked, "Yes, yes, but I was hungry on the way, so I ate by myself." The husband said in a flurry.

Fangzi believed her husband's lame reason. Under the happy package, she invited her husband to have a "luxurious" meal outside the factory. It's a pity that Fangzi didn't have more time to spend with her husband, so she had to tell him some interesting things that happened in the factory on her rest day. After a brief farewell, Fangzi took the train home and walked back to the factory with light steps.

On the train, the more Fangzi's husband thought about it, the more he felt that the whole thing was haunted. Suddenly, he had a brainwave and found something that could fool everyone but not him. That is, every move of that woman is acting. Otherwise, how could Fang Zi find his existence after entering the factory? Maybe she can mix with others in the factory with peace of mind, and then her husband enters the factory, so there is no chance to leave it to her.

The more I think about it, the more sure I am that my husband has filled in more details. He thinks that the woman's leader may be the man. Otherwise, how could she easily let that woman go out to see him and give her half a day off? In his impression, his former leader has never been so accommodating, and things gradually became clear under his guess, but that her husband suppressed the anger that was about to erupt.

He knew that Fang Zi wouldn't leave him any evidence. Since there was no evidence, he took the initiative to find it. Fangzi's husband thinks that the most powerful evidence is "time difference". He knew that Fang Zi's workshop was not allowed to bring a mobile phone, so it was impossible to get through, and there was no chance to catch Fang Zi alone with his leader on the spot. So, he pinned his hopes on the day of Fang Zi's rest day. If he still can't get through the phone that day, then Fangzi will be haunted.

Lin Jun has to say that Fang Zi's husband is really a logical genius. If it weren't for Fangzi's painstaking repetition of her husband's rhetoric, Lin Jun wouldn't have thought that there were people in the world with such "strong" logical ability. Finally, on the day that Fangzi rested, her husband was both nervous and excited. Fangzi's husband thinks that if his wife is captured alive, he has the capital to blackmail her to make money for him. Thinking of this, he can't help looking forward to a happy life in the future.

I tried again, but it didn't work. The husband is a little uncertain. After the second call, it didn't work, and my brow gradually wrinkled. After the third and fourth times, it didn't work. The husband put his mobile phone on the bed, waiting for the arrival of the son. He believed that the evidence he kept would expose the son.

Fangzi, who went home early to buy food at the vegetable market, knew nothing about all this. She not only chose her husband's favorite chicken leg, but also made a determined effort to buy two Jin of pork. Although some meat hurts, she thought that her husband would be happy because of it, and she became happy. She thought about what to cook to surprise her husband when she got home.

Unexpectedly, it was her husband who pushed the door open with a big slap. That looked at her husband blankly. She doesn't know what happened, and Fang Zi's husband wonders how Fang Zi came back so soon. He felt that the company leader drove her home. When he saw the prescription carrying all kinds of meat products that he was reluctant to buy at home, he gradually affirmed that the prescription was sent back by the leader.

Before that reaction, he kept talking about the evidence in his hand like a barrage, saying that she had betrayed her marriage, while staring at the subtle expression on her face, trying to add the last material to her evidence, but he was doomed to be disappointed. So that she went from blank to startled to surprised, and finally burst out laughing regardless of the pain on her face, completely confusing her husband.

"Are you still laughing? Did you have no shame when I exposed you? Why are you so cheeky? " Fang Zi's husband panted, saying that Fang Zi just wanted to explain, but found that she couldn't explain clearly anyway. In fact, Fangzi told her husband to go to the vegetable market and show him the ticket, which would explain it clearly, but Fangzi didn't do it, and she didn't think so.

Youzi went to the bathroom, covering her red face, and kept scrubbing with water, trying to wash off all five red fingerprints. The husband followed her with great perseverance, and he longed for an explanation from his wife. At that moment, he seemed to feel that he had done something wrong.

Even if the factory hits a screw on Fangzi's head, Fangzi will argue and never compromise, but Fangzi is indifferent to her husband. She doesn't know why, except that in the dead of night, when I think about what my husband did, my heart still hurts and I want to cry, but I can't cry.

After this incident, that never went home. She doesn't care even if her husband deliberately spreads news against her. Fang Zi said, "If you don't do it, you won't do it. I don't believe anyone's words. It's terrible. I only believe in facts. " She didn't explain that there were other reasons. She wants to achieve the most desired idea in her heart through self-pollution, which she has never talked about.

Strictly speaking, there are many important things missing from the marriage of Fangzi, and marriage is not a child's play. The most important thing in life can't be decided by one's mind, but the most important thing missing from the marriage of Fangzi is "trust", especially if they get married hastily without building trust, then the marriage will become extremely unstable.

Of course, there are remedies. If Fangzi's husband can really understand his wife, take the initiative to pay for the family and fulfill that simple dream for Fangzi, then the relationship between husband and wife will make new progress. When they have sincere feelings, they will talk about everything, start to communicate and confide in each other, and gradually establish trust in each other in their marriage. Unfortunately, there has never been such a thing in the world.

The most important thing in marriage is not love, but trust. When both husband and wife have laid a complete foundation of trust in marriage, all the things and emotions needed in marriage will take the initiative to build and maintain the small world of marriage, and husband and wife will truly realize "integration of husband and wife". Couples who have a foundation of trust dare not say that the future will be smooth sailing, but in the present life, they will definitely live a really good life, keep their feet on the ground, hold each other's hands and be confident step by step.