Talk about a marriage that can't communicate.

If you don't communicate, you don't want to talk to each other in your heart, or even if two people are together, you have nothing to say directly, or if one person talks too much and gets no response at all, it is better to be silent.

One person is silent, another person is silent, and so is slow marriage.

There is a saying that the feelings that can't be talked about are finally dead. Because there is nothing to say about feelings, just like two indifferent people living under the same roof, just to live and work together, do their own work during the day, make do with eating when they get home from work, and you play games and she pursues drama; You play mobile phone and she visits Taobao. Even sitting on the same sofa is a completely different world. After that, everyone sleeps separately, and each has his own worries.

At this moment, the closest relationship in the world is husband and wife; The furthest distance in the world is also husband and wife.

The longer this life lasts, the less I can say, and my feelings will be stifled, no communication, no communication, and even become asexual marriage, leading to the gradual disintegration of my feelings.

The result of ambiguous feelings and unclear hearts is more terrible than quarreling. Quarrel at least has the desire to express and hopes to continue communication. However, if two people do not communicate in marriage, the longer the time, the initial discomfort will gradually turn into indifference, and finally it will gradually become a habit, without love, hatred and desire. They are the two most familiar strangers, and marriage is just an empty shell.

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No company means that a person is always busy around his own life and never has extra time to accompany the other person, which makes the other person unwilling but powerless.

As the saying goes: deep affection is not as good as long-term companionship, and deep affection needs no words.

The purpose of marriage is for two people to spend the rest of their lives together, so the other half in marriage is called a partner. Life is ups and downs. If there is no partner, what is the meaning of marriage?

No matter at what stage of life, marriage needs two people to run it. Without one person, marriage is meaningless. If there is no company in marriage, the temperature of the family will gradually get cold, and marriage is the grave of love.

Don't forget that time and energy are needed between husband and wife, marriage and family, and companionship is essential. If it is missing, it may be difficult for couples to go on for a long time.

Accompaniment when you are sick, companionship on the road of struggle, and companionship when you are lonely are all indispensable contributions. An unaccompanied marriage means that two people's hearts are not together, and at least one person's heart is gone. If this state is not changed in time, the final result can only be to go their separate ways.

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If you don't divorce, the most terrible thing in marriage is that two people have problems, don't communicate and don't accompany each other, but they just don't want to leave and say goodbye. No matter how boring, helpless and painful life is, the other party has no intention of divorce. They just say they want to live, but they don't take positive actions to live, so it goes on.

This kind of marriage, people can't tell whether it is love or not. It always makes people swing from side to side, afraid to go any further, but unable to show enough courage to make a clean break.

If a marriage, at this point, can't grow old together, and it won't be a good reunion, then there is no need to torture each other in marriage, and letting go of each other is the greatest perfection.

If you don't want a divorce, there is still a foundation of love in a bad inseparable marriage, so two people should try to change the status quo, find the root of the problem and take the initiative to solve it.

Marriage is not a sky that can be propped up by one person's strength. It takes two people to work together to maintain the vitality of marriage, create happiness for themselves, and learn to face the ups and downs of marriage together, understand each other and make allowance for each other, so as to last long.