Will a woman's life change after remarriage?

Marriage is like a beautiful mirror. If we don't want to be covered with dust, we must try carefully to make it look brand-new.

Divorced couples just accidentally broke the mirror, and it is not an easy thing to want a second time. Even if it can be repaired, the cracks on it will still be clearly visible, and it is useless to hide them again. It will become a thorn in our flesh, reminding us of the past from time to time.

It is easy to remarry, but it is really difficult to make up for the breakdown of marriage.

Can remarried women really forgive men, let go of the past, forget the past injuries and start over?

Many times, women who want to remarry can't let go, still love men, or for children. But there are so many uncertainties that remarriage looks more like a struggle. The outcome depends on the management of two people.

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Remarriage is the continuation of the frontier, which is a manifestation of some women's softhearted, thinking that men have suffered from a divorce and will definitely know how to cherish remarriage. But the reality is cruel, and life will not accompany you in acting.

So, how was the remarried woman's later life? A person who has been there tells his true feelings.

Ms. A: I regret remarriage, and I can't go back when I leave.

Separated, we agreed to divorce in a few days. I was married before, but I got back together after breaking up, but it was love at that time, and there was no evidence.

The first marriage, he said that I had changed, and I was no longer the person he loved. We always quarrel over money. He doesn't dislike that I earn less, that is, I spend more money, but I earn more from my work than he does. I don't understand why.

Finally, he divorced. Less than a year later, he came to get back together and said that he found me to be his favorite person and I believed him. After remarriage, I thought I could be happy together from now on, but the reality is cruel. He is still him, and he hasn't changed at all, but I regret taking the same road. I actually went twice, just picking on him, because I don't love him anymore, and we can't go back.

When remarried, if two people's previous problems are not solved, no matter how many times they get back together, the ending will still be separated.

Ms. B: I just make do for remarriage. I can't lose anyone else.

To outsiders, my husband is definitely a good man, loyal to his friends and filial to his parents. But as his wife, I feel so wronged.

When he lent it out, he never told me about his family's money. He kept it tight and asked him for his daily expenses. In the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I will always be the one who makes a compromise. Let me endure, don't embarrass him, but he never considered my feelings.

Another conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law asked me to kneel down and apologize. The reason is that I talked back and didn't keep silent as usual. He divorced without even apologizing, and then left.

A year later, my mother-in-law and he went to my mother's house to ask for remarriage, saying that the child always wanted a mother, so I relented and agreed. But my married life is still the same as before, and nothing has changed, just for fear of losing face, so I have to make do.

A broken marriage, if it breaks down, will only be the same wrong repetition. Nothing seems to have changed, but my heart is alienated.

Ms c: divorced again. There is no trust between us anymore.

I divorced my husband because he had an affair. When he found out, he said that he loved me and would not divorce. I was angry, but my daughter and I divorced. Even if I love him, I can't forgive him, so I have to let go.

After three years of divorce, I have never remarried, and he also said that the woman broke up. He told me all this. Although he didn't mention remarriage, I know he thinks so.

He repeatedly said that he had turned over a new leaf and stopped fooling around outside, and promised not to make the same mistake again. With the help of his parents and daughter, he remarried.

But it didn't last long. Two years later, I found out he was having an affair with another woman. Although he said it was just a chat, I experienced a betrayal. I don't trust him this time, and I can only get rid of it if I get divorced again.

Extramarital affairs, it is said that there are countless times. In fact, what really suffocates two people is distrust. Without trust, this relationship is unnecessary.