Don't be hurt by feelings, there are more important things to do in life.

Zheng Banqiao has a famous saying that has been passed down to this day, and it is hard to confuse people. The same is true of the emotional world. What is rare is confusion. If you take it too seriously, you will get hurt. Only those who pretend to be confused and understand will not be hurt.

A person's mentality determines his attitude towards life. Narrow-minded people are not easy to get rid of the feeling of being trapped and infatuated, which may only exist in film and television works. Ordinary life is a subject that we must face.

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It's not that you've been hurt, but that you lack confidence.

This kind of thing often happens in life. Of the two people, because of the betrayal of one of them, the other felt extremely hurt. Actually, I feel very hurt because you are so insecure. You take your sunny road, and I'll take my wooden bridge. Now that fate is over, let's go our separate ways.

Men's betrayal is mostly due to the sudden outbreak of their own prosperity, which makes people feel at a loss. In the eye-catching atmosphere, the dross ex-wife has long been a burden of rejection.

A famous comedian once walked hand in hand with his wife, but after he became famous, his mentality changed. In his words, he felt more and more that the distance between them was widening. There is no * * * with the same language.

Although she had a hunch, she cried when he broke up. The comedian has made up his mind because he already has a lover! The comedian gave her a sum of compensation to enjoy her sweet love, and now she is full of children and grandchildren, still lonely and never remarried. Maybe she was heartbroken. Betrayed by a man, she saw through all the men in the world.

A woman's betrayal is often better.

No matter whether it is a man or a woman, the betrayer does not hesitate. People who are hurt are often too infatuated. In the emotional world, it is hard to say who is right or wrong. Even if you barely keep your body, you can't keep your wandering heart. If you can't stay, you might as well let go.

Self-confident people don't fall into the emotional door and can't extricate themselves. Loss is also the beginning of gain.

There is no question of who hurts whom. Send a blessing and say goodbye to the past easily. It is the practice of great wisdom.

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There are more important things in life, and being hurt by feelings is not worth it.

There are not only feelings in life, but also others. Love is just a wave of life, and there are many more important things.

I remember a little friend who fell in love very early. To be honest, it was puppy love. I fell in love before I graduated from junior high school. After graduation, I still kept in touch for many years. At that time, he never found a job. Later, the woman's parents strongly opposed it, and the girl left him when she saw that he had no hope. He was particularly injured and depressed all the time, and the whole person was ruined. He often laments that living is meaningless. Although he is married now and his children are not young, he has not improved much, and now he lives on subsistence allowances.

This is an example of dedication to love.

Being hurt by love is really not worth it. Without love, people can live, no food can starve to death, and no house can freeze to death.

The most important thing in life is the career one has. With a career, emotional problems will be solved. A person who puts his heart and soul into his work will not be troubled by feelings.

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People who are easily injured are stubborn people.

A person should learn to turn the corner and heal himself. No one will heal the wounds of your heart.

People who are too stubborn are often badly hurt, because they can't turn around ideologically and don't know how to turn back when they hit the south wall.

Think about it. No one really hurt you. If you don't lack love, he can go as he likes! Without Wutongshan, there is a big forest with many choices. Naturally, you are at a loss. It is the right of others to love you or not. There is no need to break your heart for someone who doesn't love yourself.

What bothers you is your own thoughts, not what others impose on you.

It's too serious. I put chains on myself and bound myself.

Life is happy, and sadness does not exist. You won't get hurt if you are confused.