How was the funeral before the wedding?

The death of ordinary people is very sudden, which makes people unprepared and hard to prevent. Sometimes they may have made plans at home, but they will have to change because of the sudden death plan of the elderly around them. So when this happens, the deceased is usually the first, and other things are postponed and done another day. So if the funeral comes first, what about the happy event later? Will the funeral bring any misfortune? The fortune that affects happy events.

This is human nature, and the funeral is good for you to go before the happy event. If an elder in the family dies at the wedding, as long as the funeral is handled in time, I believe the deceased will not blame him. As an elder, I hope my children will be happy. After his death, the wedding will be held as scheduled, which will be the wish of the late old man. Generally, if there is a funeral at home, the main reason for postponing the wedding is to alleviate the sadness of the elders at home. Because the old man died, his parents were the most sad. During this period, parents are generally depressed, so the wedding needs to be postponed.

If an old man dies in the family, it is ok to hold a wedding afterwards. As long as both parents discuss it well and have enough time to prepare, it is ok to hold a wedding after the funeral. However, as children, we should understand parents' feelings and try our best to postpone marriage at the most sad time, which is also respect for parents. If parents lose their loved ones at the same time, it may make parents feel even more sad. As children, you need to stay with your parents silently at this time, and then choose a good day to get married when your parents are in a good mood.

2. Taboos for weddings and funerals. If the family has just finished doing white things and holding a wedding ceremony, try to keep a low profile when holding a wedding ceremony. Because the wedding can't be too extravagant during the mourning period, the couple should try not to wear a big red wedding dress, but should wear a lighter color, such as pink or other light red, which is also a respect for the deceased. When you meet other families when you get married, you should put the deceased first, and the newlyweds must make way for the deceased. Because the meeting of white marriage and red marriage will offset each other's blessings and need to set off firecrackers to resolve them.

3. What if a happy event meets a funeral? When a happy event meets a funeral, the deceased should be the biggest, and the happy event should be postponed. If two families hold a white wedding, then the happy family must hold it in a low-key way to show respect for the deceased. Try not to have a funeral when you have a wedding. If you meet by chance, then the wedding ceremony should make way for the funeral and put the dead first. Happy events are for good luck. Try not to conflict with others when doing happy events, so as not to wash away the joy.