A face-saving mother-in-law is reasonable to outsiders, but always scolds her family.

I believe that the topic of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is endless for all women after marriage. There is such a mother-in-law here, who is open-minded, cheerful and reasonable to outsiders. He always speaks ill of his family, but his attitude is the opposite.

Qiner is in love with her husband in college. She received a very strict education since she was a child. After she graduated, her family knew that she was in love, and they were all anxious to urge them to get married as soon as possible, because what they feared most was that men would cheat. Their conservative view of marriage and love is also afraid that their daughter's love will become a sunset glow after the crisis and they can't afford to lose this person.

In this way, under the urging of parents, Qiner and her husband got married smoothly, and she was also the earliest among many students. For young people, marriage is like playing house. After a period of novelty, everything will return to the dull life in the past.

Young people's love life is the sweetest and happiest, and there are generally no twists and turns from love to marriage, so in their world, marriage is just a form and everything remains the same.

However, something happened to the married harp, which made her stop thinking. Qiner's husband is also a person with no opinion, and sometimes he needs to work hard under his own supervision. He hasn't taken on the responsibility of young people's entrepreneurship yet, so maybe it's too early to get married now.

Qiner is the darling of the family. She has never taken a broom since she was a child in Dalian. This exquisite life naturally made her develop the habit of reaching for clothes and living within our means. But the husband's family conditions are average, and her mother-in-law is a strong and hardworking person who pursues perfection in everything.

After only three months of marriage, many real thoughts in her mother-in-law's heart gradually emerged. My mother-in-law often says, "Qiner, I don't care what your family is like, but after you marry into my family, you must adapt to my family's lifestyle." My family never keeps idle people. Either you go out and find a job and share some with your family, or you give me more help. There is a lot of work at home, and I won't have the heart to let you do heavy work, but you should take care of the housework at home. "

Chin began to think that her mother-in-law was right. After all, it is not easy for her to keep the house diligently for so many years. Her mother-in-law is also a very capable person. She still admired her mother-in-law and agreed casually.

But since Qiner took over the housework, her mother-in-law never took care of it again, which became the homework that Qiner had to do every day. If she didn't do it well, it became the reason for her mother-in-law to scold Qiner.

Sometimes my mother-in-law deliberately doesn't fold the quilt, depending on whether Qiner is willing to make it for her. Poor grades have also become the reason for Qin to be filial to her. As long as Qin ignores her once, it becomes unfilial to her, which makes Qin angry and helpless, but this is not the most excessive.

My mother-in-law is a very good-looking person. No matter what happens at home, even if it is a trivial quarrel, as long as outsiders come to the house, she will pretend to be very harmonious.

When an outsider has something at home or conflicts and needs her mother-in-law to act as an intermediary for them, she can always stand in her own position and persuade the two sides to reconcile. Outside, her mother-in-law has a good reputation. In the eyes of others, she is so reasonable and a typical good mother-in-law.

However, once she gets home, her mother-in-law, who is usually respected outside, will put on airs and say a mantra when she gets home. "You see that I am respected by others outside, and no one can surpass me."

Therefore, in this family, no one can be better than her, and you can't have an oral argument with her, otherwise you will suffer. Especially when Qinqin's father-in-law comes home, every time she helps her mother-in-law with housework, no matter what she does, her mother-in-law will follow her own ideas, and she must let her father-in-law act according to her own ideas, otherwise she will be abusive and say that she is beautiful.

This attitude gradually shifted to Qiner over time, and her mother-in-law didn't like to see Qiner anywhere. Even if you have to care what clothes you wear when you go out, your mother-in-law's eyes are out of date, which makes Qiner almost completely collapse.

However, Qiner really has no way to change her mother-in-law's way of thinking, so she can only complain to her husband. Although her husband loved her very much, he also vowed to protect his beloved wife in front of her. But every time I go to my mother-in-law, I am scolded back like a mouse crossing the street, and I dare not confront my mother-in-law.

Afterwards, her mother-in-law sometimes chased Chin up and accused Chin of making her son reason with her, which made Chin embarrassed. Chin can only complain to her best friend every time. Qiner is a kind girl. She was afraid to tell her mother-in-law at home, for fear that the two families would have conflicts because of these trivial matters.

The most feared thing in marriage is the conjugal love between husband and wife, but I met an evil mother-in-law, which made me love and hurt. There are imperfections everywhere in this world, and life is only bittersweet. Maybe this is god's arrangement!

The most difficult thing to get along with in marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is an unavoidable fact in marriage and love. The best way to deal with it is that both husband and wife have their own careers and a stable source of income. Both husband and wife have strong independence and responsibility, and have the ability to form their own small families. The distance is beautiful, and the mother-in-law who hasn't seen her daughter-in-law for a long time will love you in every way. If you are good enough to bring unexpected achievements to your family, I believe there is nothing your mother-in-law doesn't like!