Can't a man who can't afford the bride price marry?

I think that not being able to pay the bride price and not wanting to give it are two different things. If his family is too poor to pay a penny for the bride price, but he is willing to give me all his salary and money to show his sincerity to me, I think I will marry him. I'm not afraid of poverty, I'm not afraid of suffering, I'm afraid he's insincere. But if their family is not so poor that they can't even afford a penny for the bride price, then try to pay. Our family never cares about the amount of bride price. I care about an attitude. If I can afford 1 0,000, I will pay 1 0,000; if I can afford 1 10,000, I will pay 1 10,000. As long as I can see that their family really values me, I am willing to marry.

My in-laws are poor. Before we graduated, my in-laws did not save any money. Later, we talked about marriage. My in-laws saved a little money, excluding the wedding expenses, and paid a total of 30,000 yuan, of which 17000 is the bride price, 1 10,000 is the three gold, and 3000 is the change fee. We didn't dislike it less, and my parents also married 30 thousand. What I want is an attitude. If their family is poor and they don't want to pay a penny for the bride price, they are still justified and take it for granted. They think I want a bride price, or because I don't get married, it's vanity, because I'm poor and don't love rich people. I put it bluntly, his parents can't get a penny as long as they have enough to eat, even if it's only 1000.

So whether or not to give a bride price is really two different things. If two people really want to get married and two families really want their children to be happy, then the man's family should try their best to give bride price, and the woman's family should consider the situation of the man's family and give less bride price, or let the man's family decide the number of bride price by itself. Under what circumstances is it necessary for a woman's family to sell her daughter at a high price? I think it is because the bride's family wants a high bride price, but they are unwilling to pay a penny as a bride price, or the bride price is far less than the bride price. Only in this case will people say that selling their daughters requires a high bride price. If the bride's family wants as much dowry as possible, the bride's family doesn't take advantage of the man's family. No one is qualified to say that she sells her daughter, and no one is qualified to say that she wants a high price bride price.

Finally, I hope you can polish your eyes. Girls don't want to marry a man who only talks sweet words and vows, but they don't want to pay anything. Boys don't want to marry a woman who only knows how to ask for money, only knows how to ask for money, and treats you as an ATM, but is unwilling to pay anything.