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The poem "The day when the dead are sparse, the day when the living is near". "It is an ancient poem" Nineteen Ancient Poems "written by the ancient poet Han Anonymous.

"Those who go are sparse, and those who come are close." These two sentences are intertwined, mutually causal and complementary. Heaven and earth are like the reverse of everything; Life is like a hundred generations of passers-by, which is extremely short, not to mention the disastrous era of "white bones exposed in the wild, thousands of miles without crows" (Cao Cao's "Walking in the Vast"). After a long time, the impression of the dead will inevitably change from vague to empty and disillusioned. The new generation who were not familiar with them will be impressed after repeated contact. The past is the past, and the coming is the coming. Today's "going" has already had the past "coming"; Today's "coming" will of course have tomorrow's "going". This is not only similar to Wang Xizhi's Preface to the Orchid Pavilion, but also shows that the psychological space of the literati in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and even the Wei and Jin Dynasties is indeed vast. They like to explore life and think about fate.