Morning reading: How did Baoyu coax Daiyu?

Speaking of A Dream of Red Mansions, a word can be described as "emotion". All living beings have kept it glorious for more than 300 years and still exert great influence. The word "love" in the novel is too heavy, and the "love" in our world is mixed with too much ambiguity. what is love ? what is love ? What is the best relationship? Let's explore the answer given by Baoyu from his behavior.

No matter who has read A Dream of Red Mansions, the names Baoyu and Daiyu are familiar to everyone. One is infatuation, the other is resentment, the other is Xianpa in Yuen Long, and the other is flawless jade. Even if I haven't read the novel, I generally know that Daiyu is frail, likes moodiness and is more of a heart disease.

If you look closely, you will find that Daiyu is only the most angry with Baoyu, and it is also the easiest to make herself uncomfortable because of Baoyu. But for others, she can talk and laugh, and even fight with Xiangyun. Only when I am around Baoyu, because I pay too much attention to Baoyu, I feel bored when I see Baoyu talking to Baochai. Because she cares, Daiyu always wants to prove that she has a different weight to Baoyu. And how did Baoyu achieve this unchanging temperament to prove Baoyu's mind?

Baoyu is an irreplaceable "lover". She loves all the girls in the Grand View Garden and is kind to everyone, but she calls herself and other men "eyebrows", which shows her feelings. Baoyu naturally put Daiyu in the most important position in his heart, but at that age, that kind of family, how can he show his heart? Unfortunately, Daiyu finally missed the confession.

Once Baoyu and Daiyu chatted and had a little quarrel. Baochai came to pull Baoyu and said that Shi Xiangyun was coming, so she took Baoyu away. Daiyu has been fighting against Baochai, and she is most worried that Baoyu and Baochai are closer than her, and she is even more angry. Just when he was sulking all his life, Baoyu came back less than two cups of tea, which shows how worried Baoyu was about Daiyu and hurried back to persuade her.

Naturally, it is inevitable to quarrel with each other. Finally, Baoyu pushed himself into a hurry, and he told a long story, saying that his father and Daiyu's mother were sisters, so they were close, and that Mrs. Wang and Xue Baochai's mother were sisters, so they were far apart and naturally closer to Daiyu. He also said that Daiyu and I grew up together and slept in the same bed, but Baochai just moved here, so naturally we can't compare with their friendship for many years.

The revelation of true feelings naturally reassured Daiyu, but Daiyu was also embarrassed, so she changed the subject and asked Baoyu why he was so cold and didn't wear a jacket. Baoyu only said that he thought Daiyu was angry and forgot to wear it. The contradiction between the two people will be solved. Not only did I untie it, but I also felt closer because of my true feelings.

In fact, in our life, contradictions are often trivial matters, but we always let events evolve from such trivial quarrels to various kinds of beatings and curses. If we are as gentle as Baoyu and reveal our inner feelings when we are in a hurry, we will not only get each other's understanding, but also get deeper feelings. Isn't it a good solution?

Baoyu's deep affection, I think, is in everyone's heart. Baoyu is actually very cute. Every time he is forced, he will always say something that others think is "nonsense", but the true feelings and weight in that discourse will always be accepted by the other party and will not hurt Baoyu any more.

Baoyu's affection is the antidote to resolve contradictions. We also have this medicine. Next time we might as well try to take it out, sublimate our feelings and move on together.

I like a passage from Baoyu very much, so let's end it: