How to be a man

2010-03-3121:34:10 from: big glasses (crossing this life, cutting off delusions)

No matter how smart and capable a person is, no matter how good his background is, if he doesn't know how to behave,

Then his final outcome must be failure. Being a man and doing things is an art, but also a science. Many people have a generation.

Zizi was mediocre because he never wanted to understand how to be a man and how to do things all his life.

Everyone lives in the real society and is eager for success. Many people with lofty ideals are eager for dreams.

A lot has been paid, but little has been gained. This question cannot but arouse people's deep thought: you can't say that they don't work hard enough.

Force, not diligent enough, but why did you get nothing in the end? This deserves our serious consideration.

On the surface, it seems very simple to be a man and do things. Who wouldn't? Actually, it's not. For example, you are a teacher.

Your subjective desire is to be a good teacher, but in fact it is not popular with students; When you go into business, your subjective desire is to make money.

A lot of money, but it happened that I lost it. Put aside these superficial phenomena and explore the crux of the problem, and you will find that you are doing things alone.

This is really a difficult knowledge to master.

It can be said that being a man and doing things is a knowledge involving all aspects of real life, from any aspect alone.

It is impossible to see the whole picture from the beginning of research. To master this knowledge and grasp its essence, we must mention real life.

After summing up, we can draw some laws with universal significance, so that people can follow the rules and not be confused.

Read a word formula and benefit for life!

First, the social word formula-teach you to make contributions.

(A) the formula of the word "modesty"

The word "modesty" is the only word in life. Arrogance will only lose the foundation of life and end up alone.

The blame pointed out by the lonely and condemned is over.

1, don't be arrogant

Don't get carried away.

Don't boast if you have the ability.

4. Ask for advice.

(2) the formula of "light"

If you are too strict with people, you should be friends when you make friends. It seems unnecessary to put the word "light" first. overlook

Take it easy, and life will be suddenly enlightened and full of interest.

Just as "plain is true".

1, a friend of a gentleman is as light as water.

2. Look down on life and treat life well.

3, indifferent to ambition, don't blindfold for fame and fortune.

4. Reduce desires and satisfy the mind.

(3) the formula of "frugality"

People who don't know the word "frugality" don't know how to succeed, and any successful career lies in the accumulation of bits and pieces; hear nothing of

Frugal people will only lose their success and beat others too much.

"Frugality and morality" is a good training for people to do things.

1, starting from saving living expenses

2, "poor and generous" is not desirable.

3. Beware of unusual frugality: stingy

4, don't dye the road, Xiu De.

(4) the formula of "sub"

Be a person with personality and give yourself a little confidence! The road to success depends on yourself, and a bright future comes from yourself.

Be self-reliant, don't give in to any authority, and use your own efforts to find your self-esteem.

Men make their own decisions!

1, self-reliance and success.

2. Unique life.

3. Challenge authority with yourself.

4, self-confidence-let you southeast and northwest wind.

(5) the formula of the word "reason"

Born in a country of etiquette, be a polite person. Polite people will be human, popular and have many friends. respecter

Will do things, pay attention to image, educated, do not make enemies, and everything goes well on the road to success.

1, treat people with courtesy

2, polite, polite people don't blame

3, pay attention to etiquette dress, give a good impression.

(6) the formula of "positive"

Be an upright person, be a person with sound personality and be respected. Be a selfish person and cheat your heart.

It is impossible to succeed.

1, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.

2. Jealousy is a taboo in Fang Zhengzhi.

3. Not cheating is a pleasure in itself.

Second, the image-building formula-teach you elegant personality

(7) the formula of "ambition"

Give yourself a lever enough to turn the earth. Make a wish and goal for your life,

Establish an idol, down-to-earth, and the sense of success needs to be cultivated. Make up your mind before dating.

1, do what you can, and be determined.

2. Make up your mind first, and there is hope only if you make up your mind.

3. Cultivate a sense of success: aspire to be king.

4. Set up idols and change yourself.

(8) the formula of "time"

Be punctual in life. Modern people can't create their own image without the concept of time. Arrange yourself reasonably

Time, use time effectively, be punctual, cherish time and don't delay.

Remember: time is money.

1, one second is worth ten thousand dollars.

Don't neglect your spare time.

3. Stealing other people's time is tantamount to murder for money.

4, according to the importance, more effective use of time.

(9) The formula of "diligence"

If you work harder, you will have more chances of success. Numerous facts have proved that the shortcut to success is diligence. Not light.

Talk about it, don't be lazy and hate work, be diligent, reward hard work in heaven, reward hard work in heaven!

1, the shortcut to success: diligence

2, more efforts, more opportunities.

3. Diligence in action is better than diligence in words.

(10) the formula of "truth"

Be a down-to-earth person and do things. No one can climb the ladder of success with his hands in his pockets.

. Leave a real image for people, add a solid foundation for their own success, proceed from reality and be negative to themselves.

Responsibility.

1, dedication, the success guarantee of doers

2. Do every job well.

People who put their hands in their pockets can't climb the ladder of success.

(1 1) The formula of "specialization"

Only with professionals and perseverance can I have perseverance.

You live in an era of knowledge explosion. If you are a genius, inattention will be your misfortune. if

Your qualifications are average, please don't be pessimistic. As long as you make up your mind to do one thing well all your life, you will certainly succeed. Young man, money

Don't give the impression that you are fickle.

1, put all your eggs in one basket

2, versatile, such as practicing "unique hidden weapons"

3. wholeheartedly, turn disadvantages into advantages.

(12) formula of "caution"

Life is long and short, and the key is a few steps. Human nature jungle, career, interests and temptations. old

Don't be afraid of many successes, think twice about everything, and don't be afraid of 10 thousand, just in case. Once the wrong hand, into the wrong line, do something wrong, for the sake of reputation.

Both career and image are in danger of being saved.

Be careful!

1, never enter the wrong line.

2. Think before you jump.

3. Don't act rashly

Third, the self-improvement formula-teach you to save your destiny

(13) formula of "effort"

It is difficult to be a man and do things. In the face of various obstacles, how can we not "hard" improve ourselves? If things are forced

Dare to say "no"; If it is a legitimate interest, it should be done; Even, sometimes, you have to be a bully to get on the bow.

Be "cheeky" and "crusty".

Rejection is an art.

It's my turn. You're welcome.

3, angry and rushing to the crown.

4. Be cheeky, and be brave in doing things.

(14) formula of "small"

The owner of a seafood chain restaurant is likely to have been practicing beach in the aquatic product market, while the owner of a leather shoes chain store.

Maybe it started with shoeshine. If you want to do great things and make big money, you must first do small things, earn small money, put down your airs and be willing to make small profits. from

Start with the details, sweep the house first, and then sweep the world!

1, how can you sweep the world without sweeping a house?

2. Do small things first and make small money.

A nail changes a person's life.

(15) The formula of "sharp"

Little sparrows, flying and jumping, race against time, constantly looking for food. Life is the same, in the face of cruel competition,

Only forge ahead, be a good pioneer, aim at the next goal, dare to take risks, dare to make bold moves and wait for him.

After all, things are very slim.

1, dissatisfied with the existing achievements.

2. Pursue firmly, never back down.

Don't lose your spirit, success is a matter of time.

(16) formula of Zhuang

To improve yourself, you must have the courage and knowledge to surpass yourself. What is transcendence? Transcendence means eating crabs and innovating. meanwhile

Innovation is to take risks, so-called wealth and risk. Think what others can't think of, do what others dare not do, and dare to be the first in the world.

Is the change of thinking.

1, be the first in the world.

2. Breaking the rules of creativity

People who abandon me can also work miracles.

4. Offensive and defensive ways of reverse thinking.

(17) Formula of "Tong"

If you are poor, you want to change, and if you change, you will pass. He who knows the time is a hero, and he who changes his plane is a hero. The road to success is not one.

Why hang yourself from a tree? Grasp the key to success, the east is not bright and the west is bright, regardless of black cats and white cats, it is important to

The important thing is whether we can catch the mouse.

1, cleverly changing strain

2. All roads lead to Rome

3. Success lies in communication, and only communication can win.

(18) Formula of "Zi"

Praising others is like giving food to a hungry beggar. Throughout the ages, I do not know how many people have been

With a golden word, I changed my ordinary destiny. Speak humorously, find the same language ... a word "speak" for life.

Enjoy it.

1, find any topic you want.

2. Praise is the best lubricant.

3, a successful life, humorous.

4. "Catchwords" add color to your body.

Fourth, interpersonal communication formula-teach you to win friends

(19) Formula of "Guang"

Interpersonal communication should focus on the future and forget old evils. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself-for yourself.

Angry at the enemy, it is oneself that burns. Don't be too narrow-minded when you do things. All rivers run into sea, relying on a tolerant tree.

Heart!

1, forgive your enemies

2. Tolerance and forbearance.

3. Be willing to forget and forget the past.

(20) the formula of "harmony"

In the sea of people, if we don't want to be isolated, we must learn how to get along with others! When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds.

You are not required to like all people, but at the same time there are no best people in the world.

Harmony is the most important thing, we should leave steps for each other and give everyone face.

1, think of others and pave the way for yourself.

2, you give others face, others do good for you.

3. The way of husband and wife is also harmonious and wise.

The formula of (2 1) "letter"

Because many people trust you, you will have many chances of success. What is "trust"? Faith is a strength of personality.

Quantity is friendship beyond money, understanding, appreciation, covering water and irreversibility. Therefore, what you say must be done.

Help if you can, but don't promise easily!

1, help if you can, don't promise easily.

2, keep your word, be a man and speak principles.

3. Be a man in advance and win the trust of others first.

4, the cornerstone of credibility, life and death friendship

(22) The word "help"

Good winds, with their strength, sent me to the sky. Interpersonal communication, mutual benefit. Helping others is helping yourself.

Credit card savings, especially when people are in trouble, help the fallen heroes. If you really help others, the reward will not be said.

There is still more.

1, help others get rich and take credit for yourself.

2. Good winds can ascend to heaven by strength.

3. Seize the opportunity and give it a hand.

(23) the formula of "respect"

People want face, trees want skin. People exist in society and should play various roles, especially in mutual communication.

It needs a certain dignity to support it, which is the weakness of human nature. Only by understanding this point can we realize the necessity of the word "respect".

1, honour person taboo, boss taboo.

Don't talk about your pride in front of the frustrated.

3, respect each other's "bright spot"

(24) Formula of "Cross"

Human feelings are warm and cold, the world is cold, and ordinary friends live a normal life. Make friends, don't be eager for quick success, invest in friendship, let's go.

In the long run, worshipping the cold temple, burning the cold stove and burning more incense at ordinary times, even a few greetings, is also the way to make friends.

1, burn more incense when you have time, and help in an emergency.

2, friendship investment, should take a long line.

3, worship the cold temple, burn the cold stove, and create heroes.

Five, Du E word formula-teach you relaxed and happy.

(25) The formula of "firmness"

In the face of setbacks and difficulties, remember Churchill's famous saying: "Never, never, never give up!" In fact, the world is not like this.

Nothing is lucky, but it is the result of persistence. In order to win the final victory, we should face it persistently.

For all kinds of temporary humiliation and persistent pursuit, I will not die until I reach the Yellow River!

1, tie up your hair and bear loneliness.

He who laughs last laughs sweetest.

3, persistent pursuit, never give up

4, the heart will not die until it reaches the Yellow River

(26) the formula of the word "seek"

People are confused and have difficulty in doing things. In the face of "heavy mountains and heavy waters", it is not enough to have a strong will, nor to rush hard.

All right. Solving difficult problems depends on the brain, which generates thinking, making it powerful and easily solving problems in unexpected places.

1, a clever woman can't cook without rice.

2. From "there is no way to doubt the mountains and rivers, and there is another village."

3. The power of thinking

(27) "Qu" formula

To get rid of the predicament of people and things, we must ask people to be modest in asking for help, but we must focus on future success.

Don't hesitate to work, even if you live like a cockroach. After all, the tables have turned. Put down the shelf, and the bend will bend.

Being able to stretch, bending for stretching is a hero!

1, live like a cockroach

2, put down your body, the road ahead is long.

You respect me one foot, I respect you one foot.

4, the low-level "bending" does not die.

(28) "Static" formula

"If you don't break out in silence, you will perish in silence!" It's a state to be calm when encountering great events.

A kind of tolerance, a kind of cultivation. A calm decision is often the best solution to get out of trouble, and calmness is also a kind of wisdom.

, we must wait and see, and win in chaos!

1, the cold bench becomes the manager's chair.

2, the heart is better and wiser, and wisdom is achieved.

Step 3 be calm and self-satisfied

4. Be a good person if you can hold your breath.

(29) the formula of the word "le"

There is no absolute happiness in the world, only a heart that refuses happiness. Life is short, it's better to be on tenterhooks than on tenterhooks.

Give it some time. Remember, success begins with a smile, and life is often unsatisfactory. Be optimistic and create your own happiness.

Learn to solve difficult problems easily.

1 Success begins with a smile.

2. Learn to create happiness

3. Learn to solve difficult problems easily and happily

There are no absolutely happy people in the world, only those who refuse happiness.

(30) the formula of "relying on"

Life is not here, yes, there will be no pie in the sky, waiting for someone to starve to death, but it won't work, dear.

Friends, classmates and fellow villagers are a kind of "human resources". No one has three difficulties and six difficulties. He can rely on it, not on creation.

Conditions also depend on it!

1, let a friend be your backer.

2. It is difficult to go out and rely on fellow villagers.

3. Relatives are getting closer and closer.

4, just classmates and teenagers, you have to rely on.

Six, unbeaten life formula-teach you a brilliant life

(3 1) The formula of the word "stupid"

Learn from owls and turn a blind eye. You call me stupid, but I'm not stupid! It's just that things change, Zhuang

Industry is difficult, but home is defeated quickly. People say that there is no fish when the water is clear, but there is no disciple when people look at it. In fact, to preserve our sanity, great wise men are often great fools.

There are many smart people who can say "stupid"!

A fool is clever all his life.

Don't think you are smarter than others.

Don't take things too seriously.

4. Who is the hero?

(32) Formula of "forbearance"

A real hero, why should he be short of breath, start from the beginning to the end and be invincible! Endurance can keep us healthy and get things done. Patience is great wisdom and courage.

This is a great blessing! Forbearance is thick, forbearance is black, forbearance is mean, forbearance is strong, forbearance is unbearable in the world, and it is normal not to be a temperament middleman.

It is difficult for people to do things.

1, forbearance is great wisdom and courage.

2. Don't be a temperamental person.

3, invincible life, ninja invincible

(33) The word "retreat"

People who have been in the Jianghu for a long time and cultivated human feelings always keep the word "retreat". Retreat is a strategy, retreat is an exchange, and it is also a kind of

A means of survival. The philosopher said well, "Don't spit in the well. Come to the well to drink when you are thirsty. "

Like water. "

1, take a step back and think everything goes well.

Refusing to compromise means refusing to succeed.

3, not to be taunted, can afford to hide

(34) Formula of "circle"

Fiona Fang is a man, exquisite in all directions; If you do things satisfactorily, everything goes well. Everyone has ulterior motives, so it's best to keep one hand in everything. When you are free,

You can study the "fuzzy philosophy". If the carriage of life is equipped with square wheels, you have never heard of it, and neither have I.

I've heard of it. It's hard to move!

1, Fiona Fang is a man and does things satisfactorily.

2. Be the second child, not the boss.

3, human feelings are articles, and words are cautious.

(35) Formula of "Danger"

"After the success of luxury, happiness and security are the lesser of two evils?" This is a lesson from history, and so are ordinary people. Living at home,

Work, workplace, etc. Can't escape the word "danger". People who have no long-term worries will have near worries.

1, foresight, no danger to approach.

2, Guo Ziyi screen back maid to avoid disaster.

3. Go to the countryside to be a farmer-Fan Li has a rich life.

(36) Formula of Zhuang

Life is a play in the world. You can sing and I'll play. Whether you can act or not depends on whether you can pretend. It's easy to be a hero

It's hard to play the weak. As the saying goes, killing a bird with one shot is not afraid of thieves stealing, but of thieves thinking about it. When you have no strength,

Please hide your excess talent!

1, deliberately showing weakness is good.

Step 2 use "mimicry" and "protective color"

3. Success requires pretending to be dead and pretending to be a failure.

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