Characteristics of girls who are tough-tongued and soft-hearted

A woman with a hard mouth but a soft heart has a stubborn temper.

In any matter, if your temper gets worse, you will not let go easily no matter who tries to persuade you. It looks like he has a ruthless mouth and leaves you speechless. But in fact, they just don't say it, but they have the softest hearts.

The things she disagrees with are just because she feels inappropriate and subconsciously accuses you of being immature. He said he would not agree, but secretly went to help you in private, for fear of being discovered by you.

On the surface, he looks cold and ruthless, as if he doesn't show any affection, and his serious aura makes people afraid to get close to him.

But people who are really familiar with her will find out. A woman like her keeps her mouth shut because she wants to save face. Actually treat the people you care about and wish them well from the bottom of your heart.

If anyone bullies someone they care about, it goes without saying that they will be the first to rush in.

Such a woman speaks more harshly than anyone else, like a tomboy, and never lets others go. But don't look at their tough words, they are just talking.

They are the ones who put themselves in others’ shoes the most. They cannot learn to speak well. They are tough on the outside, but soft on the inside.

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Such a woman has no sense of security

A woman with a hard mouth and a soft heart generally has no sense of security.

It may be that the environment in which the family grew up affected their personality. They are used to quarrels, so they learn to use external ferocity to cover up their inner vulnerability.

Emotionally, even if I love someone again, I don’t know how to express it. I am afraid that if I say it, I will reveal that I care. The more I care, the more likely I will be hurt.

In the final analysis, it is because you are afraid of losing that you pretend to be indifferent, making you think that a strong woman like her will not be hurt.

When I get along with her, I often feel that she is impulsive and has a bad temper. But when it came to a real quarrel, she blamed herself more than anyone else. After all, she is a kind woman, but she is too afraid of not being able to control herself in love and being hurt. The more afraid you are, the more you hide yourself.

The more you love the other person, the more cruel words you can’t control. It was obvious that this was not what he was thinking in his heart, but as soon as he said it, he went in the opposite direction. He is too clear about what he cares about, but cannot clearly see his lover's heart.

Being tough and unforgiving is mostly for a simple purpose: to protect oneself.

Can you really protect yourself? Quite the opposite.

Not many people can break through the wall built by this sharp mouth, so they fall deeper into a lonely island. It’s not easy for a woman with a hard mouth and a soft heart to love someone.

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Such a woman is the most distressing

A woman with a hard mouth and a soft heart seems to be strong, but is the most distressing.

Those women who know how to act coquettishly, and those who know how to submit to weakness, are often more sympathetic to those around them.

On the contrary, there are women who are soft-spoken and soft-hearted. They always say "I'm fine", "I'm fine", "It's no big deal", "I can do it alone". They don't know how to complain and silently complain. Bear it yourself.

Once, twice; once, twice... I said it was okay, but time and time again, the unhappiness accumulated in my heart actually hurt myself.

You look at the forced smile on her face and listen to the cruel words on her lips. In fact, her heart has already been broken. But she didn't say anything.

With smiles in my eyes and tears in my heart. No one can really get close to her heart except herself.

Sometimes, she also wants to be like those clinging women, finding someone she can rely on and someone who can understand her stubbornness. You can laugh wildly in front of him, and you can also cry shamelessly in front of him.

They are not afraid of hard fights, but they are most afraid of someone suddenly seeing through her cowardice.

A woman with a hard mouth but a soft heart is a little naive and a little stupid. We obviously love each other, but we can't open the mouth to let the other person know. He was obviously injured, but he forced himself to say it was okay.

If you meet such a woman, please be nice to her.