In-laws who have to take care of everything

To tell the truth, the in-laws who have to intervene in everything at home are really helpless.

How can I describe them? I want to say that they are too generous, and they are really considering their son's future; It's too much to say that they care too much about taking care of us.

That kind of concern makes people feel too depressed and controlling, and we don't have our own private space.

Just like the feeling that the child has not grown up, or more like a child who has not been weaned. And their son, that is, my husband himself, listens to them most and does whatever he is told to do.

I still remember when I first got married, I left their sight for a long time and the phone kept ringing, telling me to go home quickly. Naturally, I won't go home early when I travel, and I just have something to deal with.

However, under the constant urging of my in-laws, I went home honestly. This kind of control is acceptable once or twice, but it is different to get involved in things.

They do this again and again, trying to tie their son to their belt, which feels like a decoration.

Sometimes I really want to talk to them about why your son is getting married before he grows up. Let me be a decoration, just take it with me!

In my opinion, it is normal for elders to worry about their children's affairs, and it is ok to worry appropriately if they are able to help. Instead of screwing everything up, you should follow the ideas of your elders and listen to their arrangements.

As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren. There is no need to treat the younger generation as unweaned children.