Does Taoism only talk about predestination? Is Taoism very particular about fate?

Buddha talks about "fate" and Tao talks about "sex". In fact, this is also a helpless and clear manifestation of Buddhism and Taoism. I wanted to educate everything at first! However, it was later discovered that everything has its own development order, which no one, any god or any Buddha can enlighten. Therefore, we stopped blindly enlightening and put forward the theory of destiny and nature. This fate and nature is whether you can have some "enlightenment" to Tao or Buddha, and only those who have "enlightenment" can be educated, so there will be fate or nature. On the contrary, it is impossible to enlighten, because people's inertial thinking is deeply rooted. The so-called inertial thinking is defined things, such as "birth and death", "marriage and children", "atheism", "human appearance" and "the shape of everything".