/kloc-kill the blind date after the blind date fails in 0/2 years. What do you think of blind date in the future?

I have always been opposed to blind date. With this kind of thing, I am even more disgusted with blind date, but because my circle is relatively small, if I don't go on blind date, I will definitely be in danger of getting married, so I think I should be cautious in dating in the future.

There have been many cases of blind date failure around me. I have a distant cousin. He belongs to that kind of introverted person. He devoted himself to his career. All he sees is work. At the age of 35, I still can't find someone, so I ask around at home. Finally, a relative introduced his niece to him. After the blind date, they felt quite good and got married in a hurry.

However, after marriage, this woman was taken back by her family for half a month every month. The family thought it was very strange, but my cousin said that she was homesick and wanted to go home for a while, so the family didn't pay special attention to it. It was not until I didn't come back for nearly a month and couldn't contact her that my family became suspicious.

Later, I learned that the girl was mentally ill and had a tumor in her brain. She takes it home every month, because she is afraid of being found sick after living in someone else's house for a long time, and she will go home for treatment for a period of time. The month I disappeared, I made an appointment for brain tumor surgery and went home for surgery.

This is my cousin introduced by my relatives. It's really bad to be so deceptive. Therefore, it is even more difficult for some so-called neighbors or colleagues to introduce people. At the beginning, that woman was really normal at my cousin's house, and there was no mental illness at all. Therefore, it is really difficult for us to know someone just through blind date.