If a man doesn't love you, he only needs two things back.

If a man doesn't love you, you only need to get two things back. The beauty of love is nothing more than two-way trips of the same kind. Helplessness, meeting and staying together are never perfect. Some people change their minds once, others give up halfway, and the ending of the story is only bleak.

Feelings, there will be good results if you don't work hard. No matter what you do, you will only embarrass yourself after all. As Miyazaki Hayao said, sometimes you have to give up some people, not that you don't care, but that they don't care; It's a pity that you can't be his exception and preference, so if a person doesn't love you, then learn to let go of these two things decisively and regain the dignity of life and the courage to love again.

1, give up dignity

In love, the more humble, the more unfortunate, in the face of a person who doesn't love himself, there are always people who think that if they obey, the other person will come to their senses, and if they are humble enough to bloom in the dust, the other person will be kind to themselves. As everyone knows, a person who doesn't love you is far more ruthless than you think.

The most worrying scene in the TV series "You Going Upstream" is that Gaomi begged her husband Zou Kai not to leave herself and her daughter, crying in collapse and saying, "If you leave, you won't make me laugh." But he still went to see his old lover without looking back.

Since Gaomi thought of marrying Zou Kai, she lowered herself to please him and her mother-in-law and tolerated his entanglement with his ex-girlfriend. She went back to her parents' home, had a birthday and had an examination, but she still didn't get any pity or respect from him. Desperate, she left with her daughter overnight, resolutely filed for divorce and devoted herself to her career.

Feelings maintained by sacrificing self-esteem can never go too far. The more you try to please, the more painful it will be. For those who leave you, you don't have to pester them and consume their dignity. For those who don't love you, you should get out decisively and in time.

There is a saying in The Ferry Man that in the face of love, you should be equal and fair. You should treat him as he treats you. He is half-hearted, so why bother himself? You were a free man, and you had to be covered in mud. Please leave your self-esteem to those who will cherish it.

When a man doesn't love you anymore, you should understand that it's all over, give up blind fantasy, find lost dignity and make more plans for your future.

Step 2 lose confidence

In feelings, the best love is closeness. If you love too hard, you will lose your bottom line and confidence, and you will only lose. In the well-known "Only Thirty", Wang Manni, who worked hard independently in Shanghai, met Liang Zhengxian, who was rich, considerate and romantic, and his heart was budding. She loves him desperately and believes in him.

Never thought, Liang Zhengxian lied a lot, and even put forward the fallacy of "one south and one north, non-interference" with his fiancee Zhao Jingyu. Wang Manni broke up with him at once, and Mannia was strong and angry with her uncle, so she could leave at any time. Zhao Jingyu, who suffered betrayal and injury, can only sigh sadly: "It's not that I didn't want to leave. Being imprisoned for seven years, I don't know how to face life.

Natural economic dependence and unreserved emotional investment completely made this woman lose the ability to resist and the confidence to leave. Even though he no longer loves her, he finally understands that the thinnest thing is feelings, and the coolest thing is people's hearts.

In feelings, you should have the ability to love others. If we don't love them, we should get back our lost confidence. Only by learning to love yourself can you be loved. Just like there is a line in "I am fine in a foreign land", "I used to think that my sky would collapse after you left.

But then I found out that my sky didn't collapse, not only didn't collapse, but I lived quite well. There are many important people and things in my life. I love them and they love me. "Life is alive, and love is only a small part of life. With it, it is the icing on the cake. Without it, you can live magnanimous, proud, free and happy. I hope you have more courage, right and confidence to take a step back in front of love.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Humble love can't last forever, it will inevitably come to an end one day, then it will stop loving, and then it will understand that love is not a kind of giving and begging.

Love you, how can you be humble? "Really, no matter how beautiful love is, don't waste time for an unworthy person, and don't sacrifice yourself for the other side without a bottom line.

In the second half of my life, I am more cautious, sober and rational in my emotional dedication. If the fate is over, even if you don't give up, you should let go. Remember, for those who don't love you and hurt you, please don't hesitate to leave him and find back the lost dignity and self-confidence. Your tenderness and sympathy should be left to those who care about you.