Why do you feel like you don't know what to say when calling your parents?

? Because you have grown up and are no longer dependent on your parents as you were when you were a child. You have your own life, and you have little contact with your parents. You don't know what to say when you call your parents.

? In fact, for a while, everyone will have the same situation as you, just like we suddenly lost the topic with our familiar friends.

Parental love

? Just stepped into the campus, the life circle is small. Call your parents if you have nothing to do. Because I suddenly left my warm home, I had many topics. After a long time, with my own circle of friends, I have less contact with my parents. I call once in a while, just for the monthly living expenses.

? As you said, it's not that we don't kiss our parents, but that I really feel bored on the phone and don't know what to say. I can't find the topic when I pick up the phone, but I have to insist, which is a bit embarrassing. Later, I decided not to call if I had nothing to do.

? I want to say that you are not alone. When we step into society or leave home for a period of time, it will happen to each of us. It's not that our family is indifferent, but that the focus of our life is occupied by other things. It's not that we don't want them or kiss them.

When we first entered the society or left home, we were still very close to our parents, because we still put our parents in the most important position and regarded them as the most reliable people. That's our harbor, where we want to find comfort and warmth.

Each of us is different, and we handle things in different ways. Some people will do everything by themselves, some people need to do it with others, and some people will refer to other people's suggestions even though they do it themselves. Just like us and our parents, you don't want to talk to your parents about work or anything other than family, so you will feel that there is nothing to talk about with your parents.

? This kind of problem comes from ourselves, either because we are too proud, or because we are indifferent, or because we are not good at talking, so we should ask ourselves first and find out the reasons for ourselves.

Parents are getting older and older, so we should communicate with them more and care more about them. When we were young, our home was our harbor. When we grow up, our parents are our support!

Call parents more often.

Pick up the phone and chat with your parents when you are free. You can talk about work, life, weather and peace. You will find that you can have many common topics. No matter what topic you talk about, parents like to listen. They all like the topic you talk about, because they like to listen to your voice and your laughter.

Just like the song "Go home and have a look", go home and have a look when you have time. When you have no time, pick up the phone and chat with your parents. You can do anything. As long as it is you, your parents will be happy!