Talk about upbringing

1, a person's quality and temper reveal a person's accomplishment, and silence tells a person's taste. One's greatest achievement is to know others without judging them.

2, the most gratifying thing: parents are alive, confidants are two or three, and lovers who can't steal are fantasies. Don't care too much.

3. Don't regret the past; Don't worry about the future; Now, cherish it more.

4, don't be confused, don't fall in love. Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past. Okay, then.

5, be good to yourself, because life is not long; Be nice to the people around you, because you may not meet them in the next life!

6. Being alive is a kind of mood. No matter whether you are poor or rich, good or bad, everything is gone. As long as you are in a good mood, everything is fine.

7. It is not a sudden decision for anyone to leave you. My heart is getting cold, the leaves are turning yellow, and the story slowly ends.

8. Kindness should have a bottom line and generosity should have principles. Indiscriminate, only know how to be good to people, it will be worthy of your good.

9. The first button was buttoned wrong, and you didn't find it until the last button was buttoned. Some things are wrong from the beginning, but only in the end do you have to admit it.

10, no one will ever be fair to you if you don't work hard. Only with hard work, resources and the right to speak can we win a fair opportunity for ourselves. -Yu

Self-cultivation topic 20: A person's greatest self-cultivation is to know people without judging them, and to talk about them is the most fall in price.

1. A person's greatest achievement is to know others without judging them. If you don't know others, talk less and talk the most, fall in price.

2. Speaking is self-cultivation, and keeping silent is education.

The greatest achievement of the elderly is to control their desire to criticize the young. Maugham

4. Why do some people look friendly, but they are always alone? "Being friendly to others is cultivation, and being alone is character."

A person's temperament is not in appearance and figure, but in the past, which is a deep and quiet impression left by the heart. Therefore, elegance is not dressing up, but the condensation of experience; Indifference is not a disguise, but a precipitation of life. Time will make a soul more and more moved. Control your temper and be an educated person.

6. A person's greatest malice is to impose his own understanding on others, take all the results for granted and explain them in his own process, always thinking that he is right. "Not judging others is a kind of accomplishment, and ignoring others' evaluation is a kind of practice. Love life is the same as daily life.

7. How did self-cultivation come from? Is to face all provocations, suppress the idea of an outbreak, and then enlighten yourself. -Liu Tong, "Whose youth is not confused"

No one will make us better and better, time is just a foil. What supports us to become better and better is our own advanced talent, cultivation, conduct, and constant reflection and revision.

9. Everyone has a blx. When I was a child, I was sad because others didn't give me gifts. Who cares now? Therefore, what cures blx is growth, knowledge, knowledge, suffering and self-cultivation, which can't be obtained again and again. -Fu Nan

10. Seeing others is not pleasing to the eye, but my self-cultivation is not enough. At the moment when people are angry, their IQ is zero, and it takes a minute to slowly return to normal. The key to elegance is to control one's emotions. Hurting people with your mouth is the stupidest behavior. Learn to control your temper and be an educated person.

1 1. The greatest achievement in life is tolerance. It is not cowardice or forbearance, but examining people's difficulties, making up their shortcomings, developing their strengths and forgiving their mistakes, instead of being jealous of their talents, my abilities, satirizing their shortcomings and blaming them. If the heart cares, there is resentment everywhere; If you relax, it is always spring. If you care, no one or thing can satisfy you.

12. It is often said that this person has no culture. What is culture? Today I saw a very reliable explanation-culture can be expressed in four sentences: self-cultivation rooted in the heart; No consciousness of reminding; Freedom based on constraints; Be nice to others!

13. Learning to be grateful is a kind of self-cultivation. For others, this is a comfort.

14. People's lives are ups and downs in the high tide and low tide, and only mediocre people can live like stagnant water. Or you must have a high self-cultivation to be carefree and truly free. As long as the climax doesn't make you nervous and the low tide doesn't make you decadent, there is no problem. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grain. Too much rain will flood the crops. We just want a relative psychological balance so as not to get hurt. -Fu Lei's letter Fu Lei

15. Running a business is not just about how much money you want to earn, but about making your life more independent and complete. Seemingly pursuing material wealth, but actually pursuing self-growth. After a period of time, I found that when my heart is strong and I have enough self-cultivation, making money is only a trivial matter, and success is an excellent product! The growth of people is more important than making money! Being a valuable person is more meaningful than being a rich person!

16. Everyone will be angry, even a good-natured person will probably curse a few words in his heart when he meets something that makes him uncomfortable. But some people are very cultured and won't let you hear his curses, because he knows that after an angry attack, there may be a temporary sense of carefree, but the side effects afterwards often need to be cleaned up with great effort. Wu Danru

17. jealousy is human nature, and it is self-cultivation not to lose your temper or even retaliate because of jealousy. We cannot suppress human nature, but we can be educated. -Zhou

18. A real gentleman always asks himself whether he is knowledgeable or all his undertakings, only how much he has. To what extent is it concentrated? How hard do you work? All achievements depend on your own efforts, not on others, and don't succeed because of others. In introspection, just ask yourself how to treat others, and don't ask others how to treat you. -nan huaijin's The Analects.

19. Life is practice, and practice is to cultivate one's mind and a normal mind. When you face all kinds of disappointments in life, you will not be serious or dissatisfied. As Master Huihai said, "Eating is not perfect, sleeping is not complete." Can live a happy life with peace of mind. -Nine precepts for lay people

20. A cultured person can show his anger without showing his face. But not in appearance, not necessarily anger does not affect his judgment and choice. Wait for feelings to be satisfied or vented, and calm down, so that intelligence will not be driven by feelings. -Jiang Yang's "Walking to the Edge of Life"

Know people and be good at their duties, don't judge them arbitrarily, and don't argue with them.

1, we came to this world alone in order to find someone who can be kind to ourselves.

You ask me how much I like you, and I know in my heart that I would rather quarrel with you than love others.

I hope you're just late, not lost to find someone else.

4, the world is very big, the world is also very small, the vast sea of people, if you want to meet, you will meet, because you can't walk out of the earth, and you can't walk out of the Milky Way. All short encounters are actually just the right time.

Any kind of feelings that need your best to please will not last long.

6. The most beautiful words are not that I love you, but that I will forget the past and give you a home.

7, some words are suitable for rotten in the heart, some pain, suitable for silent forgetting.

8. The cruelest thing in the world is not that you didn't meet the person you love, but that you met and finally missed it. The saddest thing in the world is not that the person you love doesn't love you, but that he doesn't love you after he loves you.

9. The deep meaning of the so-called chat is actually: read your heart, understand your words, synchronize with your knowledge, and be worthy of your kindness.

10, you never know whether the person who casually said goodbye to you will really never see Miyazaki Hayao again.

1 1, you send an "hmm" and I will continue to reply to you. I send an "hmm" and never reply again. This is the difference between loving and being loved.

12, I woke up suddenly in the dead of night and told myself not to miss you with tears.

13. Although I said goodbye, we all know who gave up first.

14, you like to eat noodles with dregs, but because you are hungry, you stuffed a bag of potato chips and ate a few oranges, thinking that this is enough, but finally you want to eat a bowl of noodles with dregs. Don't waste your fate with love, and don't let the wrong person take the best of you.

15, there is a kind of loneliness, not doing something without company, but doing something without understanding.

16, never doubt yourself because of what others say, and never look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are ready to accept the person you are now.

17, at this age, if there is anything that can make you cry, it must be something that can't be solved by eating, drinking and sleeping.

18, when we met, we were too young and knew nothing but love, so we lost each other. Don't meet the right person too early. Everyone you meet in life, the order of appearance is really important. Many people will have different endings if they meet at another time.

19, if a person sincerely doesn't want to do something, then he can't change his life.

20. The more people grow up, the more mature they are, but the more stubborn they will be. Don't judge when you know people, and don't argue when you know people.

Meeting you too early, I'm afraid I'm not good enough. I hope you meet someone who is willing to bend over for you. If you don't look back, you will never know that I am waiting for you behind you.

Classic Quotations: Know people and be good at their duties, do not judge them arbitrarily, and do not argue with reason.

1, we came to this world alone in order to find someone who can be kind to ourselves.

You ask me how much I like you, and I know in my heart that I would rather quarrel with you than love others.

I hope you're just late, not lost to find someone else.

4, the world is very big, the world is also very small, the vast sea of people, if you want to meet, you will meet, because you can't walk out of the earth, and you can't walk out of the Milky Way. All short encounters are actually just the right time.

Any kind of feelings that need your best to please will not last long.

6. The most beautiful words are not that I love you, but that I will forget the past and give you a home.

7, some words are suitable for rotten in the heart, some pain, suitable for silent forgetting.

8. The cruelest thing in the world is not that you didn't meet the person you love, but that you met and finally missed it. The saddest thing in the world is not that the person you love doesn't love you, but that he doesn't love you after he loves you.

9. The deep meaning of the so-called chat is actually: read your heart, understand your words, synchronize with your knowledge, and be worthy of your kindness.

10, you never know whether the person who casually said goodbye to you will really never see Miyazaki Hayao again.

1 1, you send an "hmm" and I will continue to reply to you. I send an "hmm" and never reply again. This is the difference between loving and being loved.

12, I woke up suddenly in the dead of night and told myself not to miss you with tears.

13. Although I said goodbye, we all know who gave up first.

14, you like to eat noodles with dregs, but because you are hungry, you stuffed a bag of potato chips and ate a few oranges, thinking that this is enough, but finally you want to eat a bowl of noodles with dregs. Don't waste your fate with love, and don't let the wrong person take the best of you.

15, there is a kind of loneliness, not doing something without company, but doing something without understanding.

16, never doubt yourself because of what others say, and never look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are ready to accept the person you are now.

17, at this age, if there is anything that can make you cry, it must be something that can't be solved by eating, drinking and sleeping.

18, when we met, we were too young and knew nothing but love, so we lost each other. Don't meet the right person too early. Everyone you meet in life, the order of appearance is really important. Many people will have different endings if they meet at another time.

19, if a person sincerely doesn't want to do something, then he can't change his life.

20. The more people grow up, the more mature they are, but the more stubborn they will be. Don't judge when you know people, and don't argue when you know people.