Our biggest mistake is to leave our good temper to outsiders and our bad temper to our closest relatives.

-react to the outside world and ignore it at home.

-Go out gently, come home from work furious.

—— Treat people appropriately in the workplace, and get home a little dissatisfied with your temper.

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I know, now we are all under great pressure, and we are as busy as a bee in order to live and socialize outside. Tired of being angry and wronged outside, you always throw your bad temper to the people closest to you when you get home.

Stress comes from life. In order to live, we finally bowed our proud heads in front of reality. The difficulties of leaders everywhere, the dissatisfaction at work, and the cynicism of colleagues and friends are deeply buried in our hearts, but we dare not say it. I still looked at them with a smile like an innocent person, but when I got home, I looked at my family with anger and injustice. Because we know that no matter how you treat them, your family will never leave you and there will be no complaints. They also know that you may be unhappy outside, and it is normal to lose your temper, so they will tolerate you and will tolerate you, and they will always love you no matter what.

I remember when I was a child, we were all passionate, newborn calves and frivolous. So our parents often advise us to nag in our ears. We often show impatience and quarrel with them without saying a few words. As we grow older, we find that our parents are no longer young. Sometimes we have to argue with our parents when we are obviously wrong. I don't know if you have noticed that when parents are no longer young, they always bow their heads and don't talk, but we still talk endlessly. This is how we give our good temper to friends, colleagues and even strangers, but leave our bad temper to our parents and lovers.

I don't know when we started quarreling with our parents without saying three words. Sometimes we know that our parents are kind to us, but we are still impatient. But no matter what we say, parents always listen to us. Maybe it's true. They are old. Just like we listened to them when we were children. I'm really ashamed to think about it now. How did we live like this? During the Chinese New Year, my parents always looked forward to our coming back together, but when we came back, we couldn't go with our parents, and finally turned our heads impatiently and left. Finally, we thought that parents' nagging and bondage would be free, the sky would be high and the birds would fly. However, when you are wronged outside, when you spend a holiday outside, you think of the warmth of home. I miss it again.

You must learn to control your emotions and temper, and speak out when you encounter unhappy things. You shouldn't take it out on people you love and hurt them without knowing it. Relatives can share their bad feelings, but they really need to know how to treat them. Only in this way can the family be harmonious, right?

Many times, we can see that many people in our lives are working outside the home, or after encountering unhappy things, they come home and bring bad feelings to their homes, and then their families don't know what happened, making the atmosphere very embarrassing, and finally venting their emotions on their loved ones. I wonder if anyone has heard of the "cat kicking effect". That's what it means. As long as a person is in a bad mood, it will be passed on all the time.

So be sure to control your emotions and temper calmly. Even if you are angry again, you should understand that family harmony is the most important thing, and distinguish right from wrong, not for people. Remember to give your relatives a good temper, treat strangers with a rational and upright attitude, and don't let your relatives be unhappy together.