I hate my mother-in-law so much, what should I do? ． ．

I think you can look at the relationship between you and your mother-in-law with another mentality, and it may be easier. You hate her, which only proves that your mentality is not good enough. I suggest you adjust your mentality. Well, for example, the following methods may improve your dislike of your mother-in-law:

1. Be tolerant to your mother-in-law. I think this kind of tolerance is respect and filial piety for the elders. When two people have some conflicts in life, they should be tolerant with love. It is not easy to become a family. Your mother-in-law takes your husband. You are the only one who brings happiness to this world. Think about it this way, no matter how irritating your mother-in-law is, you can be tolerant and bear it.

2. Don’t have high expectations for your mother-in-law. Maybe you’ve heard a lot about how nice your best friends’ mothers-in-law are, and you also want your mother-in-law to be like that. I think everyone has his or her own choice. Your mother-in-law doesn’t have to be nice to you and dedicate herself to you. For your little family, so if she does well, then you should be grateful, if she doesn't do so well, don't be demanding!

3. Strengthen communication with children as the link. Have you talked to your mother-in-law? How is your relationship with her? I think we still need to adjust after being in love with our lover for so long before getting married. How is it possible to have little communication with my mother-in-law and want a good relationship? I have heard from many people that they have become much closer to their mother-in-law after the birth of their child, so I suggest that you make good use of the postpartum period, communicate more with your mother-in-law, talk about what is on your mind, and increase the relationship between the two parties.

4. Keep an appropriate distance from your mother-in-law. On the one hand, you need to strengthen contact with your mother-in-law to enhance your relationship, but you need to be relaxed and relaxed about your relationship. If you are too close to her, you will easily get angry! Any close relationship is prone to conflicts. Friends can slowly eliminate the estrangement through time and other factors. It would be more painful for a mother-in-law! Don't say anything because you have a good relationship with your mother-in-law. This is a taboo.

5. Treating elders requires sweet words and sugar-coated bullets. Girls with sweet mouths are always very popular. I think people who can praise others are also very popular, especially middle-aged and elderly people. For your mother-in-law, you can praise your husband more to praise her. Buy some things that your mother-in-law needs for festivals and so on. Elders will see these small details.